Why? ( Archived) (29)

because somewhere out there is a genuie woman looking for you ... for a real you :^)

You are so young ... be patient
:^)

I think some also goes way back in just mens genes...

It was loked upon highly to wear your meal, so to speak, to get the attention of the females you wanted...be it clans, tribes...
As with other animals, plumage, color, strutts, and dances...
Then, there are just jerks..lol

I thought in the stoneage whe only needed a good grab, and the possibility to drag.

don't forget the club...LOL

simply put how you interpet someone words when written and what they really are saying differs greatly. Think how many ways someone can actually say a simple phrase, now how many ways to write that same phrase. I am firm believer even phone conversations when you have not met anf talked to the individual can be deceiving. Not intentionally deceiving.

If you speak of misrepresenting themselves, some speak of times gone by, others speak of what they will be in time. and others are just plain liars...I like meeting these types it helps me to appreicate those that are sincere and real in their words. just an opinion

Funny thread... drop and drag, in the information age.....still like stone age...

Which is why I like Joanie....she says what is.

I think if you actually met someone, met their eyes and communicated with them....then all would be alright....

Everything Dbert said and I was born with a very thin cut crystal ego. Paws

I don't see this as being about men at all.

I think there are *some* women who simply pass over the uninteresting pragmatic men in favor of the men who are making outlandish claims. Then when the women rush to those men they soon discover that those guys are nothing more than players putting on a show of EXACTLY what they know will attract a woman's attention.

Kind of like the cliché, "If it looks too good to be true it probably is"

I personally don't believe that most men are pretending to be something they aren't. Woman just typically don't bother with the honest men who present themselves in their boring reality. Instead they go looking for the flashy players, then they come running back screaming "Why are ALL MEN players".

Like duh?

I never claim to be something that I'm not. And normally women aren't tripping over each other to get to me either.

Recently I have been experiencing some interest from women. What sparked it I'll never know. Maybe the powers that be are at work and my number's coming up. ;o)

In any case, I'm certainly not pretending to be something I'm not. On the contrary I try to make myself appear worse off than I really am just so the woman will have some surprises left when we do meet in person. :o)

We certainly can't use Abra as an example of the average guy. I would still be surprised if any guy could say that he's never done this even as a boy/man. We usually have to learn to stop.

thanks for your post. i think im a very poor judge of character. i trust way too much and on the internet, games seem to be the favorite.