What is a turn-off on a first date? ( Archived) (114)

Feb 9, 2008 10:15 PM CST What is a turn-off on a first date?
sweety_33
sweety_33sweety_33Dania, Florida USA5 Threads 33 Posts
Hi all!

I've been on some pretty bad first dates lately.

Big turn-offs for me:

1) Guy talks about himself the whole time. Doesn't ask me a thing about me.

2) Guy looks everywhere but at me.

3) Guy seems cheap and although he pays, he seems to not want to or something.

4) He doesn't walk me to my door.

5) He tries to get physical right away.

These are huge no-no's for me.

What about all of you? Turn-offs???
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Feb 9, 2008 10:17 PM CST What is a turn-off on a first date?
KingLeo
KingLeoKingLeoFrederickson, Washington USA26 Threads 472 Posts
When a lady starts on about her past relationship/s.
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Feb 9, 2008 10:26 PM CST What is a turn-off on a first date?
controversy
controversycontroversyPortadown, Armagh Ireland10 Threads 347 Posts
sweety_33: Hi all!

I've been on some pretty bad first dates lately.

Big turn-offs for me:

1) Guy talks about himself the whole time. Doesn't ask me a thing about me.

2) Guy looks everywhere but at me.

3) Guy seems cheap and although he pays, he seems to not want to or something.

4) He doesn't walk me to my door.

5) He tries to get physical right away.

These are huge no-no's for me.

What about all of you? Turn-offs???


really, nr 4? stuck
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Feb 9, 2008 10:28 PM CST What is a turn-off on a first date?
trulymadlydeeply
trulymadlydeeplytrulymadlydeeplyBangkok, Central Thailand Thailand4 Threads 1 Polls 446 Posts
When a guy smokes in front of me.
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Feb 9, 2008 10:31 PM CST What is a turn-off on a first date?
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
No plans for a second date. doh
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Feb 9, 2008 10:31 PM CST What is a turn-off on a first date?
KingLeo
KingLeoKingLeoFrederickson, Washington USA26 Threads 472 Posts
trulymadlydeeply: When a guy smokes in front of me.


smoking = ewwie
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Feb 9, 2008 10:33 PM CST What is a turn-off on a first date?
controversy
controversycontroversyPortadown, Armagh Ireland10 Threads 347 Posts
KingLeo: smoking = ewwie


smoking
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Feb 9, 2008 10:36 PM CST What is a turn-off on a first date?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
When she takes off her false teeth.
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Feb 9, 2008 10:40 PM CST What is a turn-off on a first date?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2: When she takes off her false teeth.


It's,It's alright.......jaw drop you're still beautiful.
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Feb 9, 2008 10:41 PM CST What is a turn-off on a first date?
classicrockgirl
classicrockgirlclassicrockgirlInverness, Florida USA12 Threads 2,414 Posts
Takes you somewhere where all his friends are and either ignores you or uses you as arm candy
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Feb 9, 2008 10:42 PM CST What is a turn-off on a first date?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Well I dont know about number 4. I have legs and can walk myself. But the biggest turn off to me is a nice evening and then he thinks its his right to assume he is going to get a bit of 'bumpety boo'.
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Feb 9, 2008 10:43 PM CST What is a turn-off on a first date?
ruffaroundedge
ruffaroundedgeruffaroundedgeMobile, Alabama USA344 Posts
sxc666: Well I dont know about number 4. I have legs and can walk myself. But the biggest turn off to me is a nice evening and then he thinks its his right to assume he is going to get a bit of 'bumpety boo'.


Bumpety Who????doh
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Feb 9, 2008 10:48 PM CST What is a turn-off on a first date?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
ruffaroundedge: Bumpety Who????


Im trying to be politetongue

That he expects me to find his needle in the hay stack then.tongue
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Feb 9, 2008 10:49 PM CST What is a turn-off on a first date?
ruffaroundedge
ruffaroundedgeruffaroundedgeMobile, Alabama USA344 Posts
sxc666: Im trying to be polite

That he expects me to find his needle in the hay stack then.



OUCH...........................frustrated
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Feb 9, 2008 10:49 PM CST What is a turn-off on a first date?
controversy
controversycontroversyPortadown, Armagh Ireland10 Threads 347 Posts
bad breath

no sence of humor

too much make-upbarf
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Feb 9, 2008 10:50 PM CST What is a turn-off on a first date?
controversy
controversycontroversyPortadown, Armagh Ireland10 Threads 347 Posts
sxc666: Im trying to be polite

That he expects me to find his needle in the hay stack then.


lovely descriptionrolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 9, 2008 10:51 PM CST What is a turn-off on a first date?
trulymadlydeeply
trulymadlydeeplytrulymadlydeeplyBangkok, Central Thailand Thailand4 Threads 1 Polls 446 Posts
KingLeo: smoking = ewwie


I'm asthmatic... ewwwwww
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Feb 9, 2008 10:53 PM CST What is a turn-off on a first date?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
controversy: lovely description
blushing
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Feb 9, 2008 10:57 PM CST What is a turn-off on a first date?
Justme33
Justme33Justme33Franklin, Ohio USA2 Posts
When he talks about his ex the entire time or when he compares you to his ex.frustrated frustrated frustrated
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Feb 9, 2008 10:59 PM CST What is a turn-off on a first date?
controversy
controversycontroversyPortadown, Armagh Ireland10 Threads 347 Posts
Justme33: When he talks about his ex the entire time or when he compares you to his ex.


the ex comparing/talk is badfrustrated
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