Over 40 Dating? ( Archived) (4)

Feb 12, 2008 8:16 PM CST Over 40 Dating?
freebird516
freebird516freebird516durango, Colorado USA28 Threads 232 Posts
Why does it seem to be so complicated to date after 40? Been divorced for 7 years now and kids are grown. Have good job and no baggage from any previous relationships but seem to run into the same things when I date. Either Too much baggage or they seem to have an agenda. I realize people are looking for certain things but why cant we just date and let things take a natural course. Any advice?
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Feb 12, 2008 8:19 PM CST Over 40 Dating?
StarliteFantazy
StarliteFantazyStarliteFantazyFantazyLand, Missouri USA33 Threads 2 Polls 3,243 Posts
freebird516: Why does it seem to be so complicated to date after 40? Been divorced for 7 years now and kids are grown. Have good job and no baggage from any previous relationships but seem to run into the same things when I date. Either Too much baggage or they seem to have an agenda. I realize people are looking for certain things but why cant we just date and let things take a natural course. Any advice?
dunno become a hermit?????



can't help ya with that cause i hear the same thing about over 30 dating, over 50 dating......etc etc


i think it just boils down to people are people and you have to go through a few to find the one who sparks the flame
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Feb 12, 2008 8:21 PM CST Over 40 Dating?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
I was telling my best friend basically the same thing last night. You can't go into every date or relationship thinking this is the one. Some people are in your life for a while, they enrich it and you both enjoy the time, but it doesn't mean it's meant to be forever. Just do it, have fun, and if it turns into something special you've been blessed.
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Feb 12, 2008 10:45 PM CST Over 40 Dating?
HealthyLiving
HealthyLivingHealthyLivingSomewhere In, Tennessee USA527 Threads 2 Polls 4,775 Posts
dcj22: I was telling my best friend basically the same thing last night. You can't go into every date or relationship thinking this is the one. Some people are in your life for a while, they enrich it and you both enjoy the time, but it doesn't mean it's meant to be forever. Just do it, have fun, and if it turns into something special you've been blessed.


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