For how long have You been on CS??? (72)

Feb 22, 2008 11:32 AM CST For how long have You been on CS???
u2Kitty
u2Kittyu2KittyClose to the ocean, South Denmark Denmark23 Threads 974 Posts
Today I realized that I have been on this site for about 9!!! months.
For a period I was off, but came back again. (thats another story)

And thought, whats the point spending time here?

I of course enjoy reading the forums (especially the threads concerning successtories) - I sometimes add replies - and for some reason I mostly correspond with womenwow

Please notice that I am NOT lesbian .... scold

I checked my mailbox today, courious to see the first letters that I`ve received - and then I noticed that almost all members are still active here!!!!

So now I wonder if I should put up some sort of a timelimit for how long I want to stay here...

Or stick to Flower of the Snows experience: When she stopped looking for someone - he just showed up (here on this site).
Thank You for sharing this FOS - it brings one hope...... wine
And I want to send all my happy wishes for you and Gman!!! hug

And YOU: "For how long have you been on CS - and do you have a timelimit????"

wave lips banana
Feb 22, 2008 11:36 AM CST For how long have You been on CS???
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Just face it Kitty.....we're LIFERS........


wow doh



And YOU: "For how long have you been on CS - and do you have a timelimit ????"
Feb 22, 2008 11:40 AM CST For how long have You been on CS???
u2Kitty
u2Kittyu2KittyClose to the ocean, South Denmark Denmark23 Threads 974 Posts
They did`nt say that when I signed uplaugh

hug
Lagoona22: Just face it Kitty.....we're LIFERS........
And YOU: "For how long have you been on CS - and do you have a timelimit ????"
Feb 22, 2008 11:44 AM CST For how long have You been on CS???
Brunette
BrunetteBrunetteSliema, Majjistral Malta31 Threads 1,305 Posts
u2Kitty: Today I realized that I have been on this site for about 9!!! months.
For a period I was off, but came back again. (thats another story)

And thought, whats the point spending time here?

I of course enjoy reading the forums (especially the threads concerning successtories ) - I sometimes add replies - and for some reason I mostly correspond with women

Please notice that I am NOT lesbian ....

I checked my mailbox today, courious to see the first letters that I`ve received - and then I noticed that almost all members are still active here!!!!

So now I wonder if I should put up some sort of a timelimit for how long I want to stay here...

Or stick to Flower of the Snows experience : When she stopped looking for someone - he just showed up (here on this site).
Thank You for sharing this FOS - it brings one hope ......
And I want to send all my happy wishes for you and Gman!!!

And YOU: "For how long have you been on CS - and do you have a timelimit ????"


You made me go back and check how long have I been on here for...I joined in June 2006!!!! I never think how long should I stay here for...I will stay until I get bored with it. I have made many friends and dated guys from the site too.

Regarding the success stories, although the threads keep coming up in the forum, it doesn't mean that who THOUGHT that found his / her soulmate then, is NOW living happily ever after! Finding a soulmate is one of the toughest things a human has to go through in life and it surely doesn't happen over night. Seems like the older we grow, the tougher it becomes. But what the heck, let's just enjoy eachother's company without any expectations. Remember that for every pot there is a lid and if I don't find my lid, I'm happy anyway the way I am today!

Just recovered from a week in bed with severe gastric flu and am appreciating feeling healthy again! That's what's important!!!
Feb 22, 2008 11:44 AM CST For how long have You been on CS???
FlowerOfTheSnow
FlowerOfTheSnowFlowerOfTheSnowMalaga, Andalusia Spain23 Threads 2,212 Posts
Kitty I want to thank you for feeling my (our - FOS/Gman) presence still on the site as an enhancement and projecter of hope hug rather than a nuisance as some have mentioned in the int forums

You and Lagoona both have such beautiful energy that I am sure you will both meet respectfully a kindred beautiful soul to share your life with hug teddybear bouquet
Feb 22, 2008 11:47 AM CST For how long have You been on CS???
FlowerOfTheSnow
FlowerOfTheSnowFlowerOfTheSnowMalaga, Andalusia Spain23 Threads 2,212 Posts
Brunette: You made me go back and check how long have I been on here for...I joined in June 2006!!!! I never think how long should I stay here for...I will stay until I get bored with it. I have made many friends and dated guys from the site too.

Regarding the success stories, although the threads keep coming up in the forum, it doesn't mean that who THOUGHT that found his / her soulmate then, is NOW living happily ever after! Finding a soulmate is one of the toughest things a human has to go through in life and it surely doesn't happen over night. Seems like the older we grow, the tougher it becomes. But what the heck, let's just enjoy eachother's company without any expectations. Remember that for every pot there is a lid and if I don't find my lid, I'm happy anyway the way I am today!

Just recovered from a week in bed with severe gastric flu and am appreciating feeling healthy again! That's what's important!!!


witchy sis Bru!!! Glad to hear you're feeling better - saw on your MSN log on thingy that you were sick (and away) hug bouquet
Feb 22, 2008 11:47 AM CST For how long have You been on CS???
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
So lovely...!!


angel cheers
Feb 22, 2008 11:49 AM CST For how long have You been on CS???
Brunette
BrunetteBrunetteSliema, Majjistral Malta31 Threads 1,305 Posts
FlowerOfTheSnow: witchy sis Bru!!! Glad to hear you're feeling better - saw on your MSN log on thingy that you were sick (and away)


Hiya Flower....so glad to read youre finally HAPPY yay

God, I thought my time was up this week, never felt so awful in my whole life!!! BUT IT'S OVER cheering
Feb 22, 2008 11:51 AM CST For how long have You been on CS???
u2Kitty
u2Kittyu2KittyClose to the ocean, South Denmark Denmark23 Threads 974 Posts
I know what you mean Brunette, and I also get along with my basic values.... And appreciate the company that I already have found on this site...

It feels tougher when you get older - but luckily you are also more wise.... laugh

And glad to hear that you have recovered from your flu...

So.. enjoy your evening..

Yours

Kitty hug
Feb 22, 2008 11:54 AM CST For how long have You been on CS???
u2Kitty
u2Kittyu2KittyClose to the ocean, South Denmark Denmark23 Threads 974 Posts
Thank You Flower.

Kitty hug
Feb 22, 2008 11:55 AM CST For how long have You been on CS???
Brunette
BrunetteBrunetteSliema, Majjistral Malta31 Threads 1,305 Posts
u2Kitty: I know what you mean Brunette, and I also get along with my basic values.... And appreciate the company that I already have found on this site...

It feels tougher when you get older - but luckily you are also more wise....

And glad to hear that you have recovered from your flu...

So.. enjoy your evening..

Yours

Kitty


Now there's the spirit honey...let's be happy in our skin, be happy about who we are and what we have achieved so far, what comes next is a bonus!

Thanks for your good wishes Kitty, I'm sure you'll get what you deserve in love be it now, tomorrow, or whenever....keep your chin up, you look adorbale! teddybear
Feb 22, 2008 12:01 PM CST For how long have You been on CS???
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
I joined in July 2006 but had a 5 month break last year.

I think I'll probably continue in that way with long breaks, until I'm in a serious relationship. I'm not criticising people who stay long after they find their partner, but I'd rather do other things, despite the fact that there are lovely people here.

The good thing about my long break was that I reduced my working hours and developed a social life in the real world with great friends. Unfortunately that life is in Spain, so here I am in Russia and on CS regularly until May when I can get back into the social whirl and not depend on CS so much to ease my boredom.

Maybe twice a week on CS is a good balance.
Feb 22, 2008 12:12 PM CST For how long have You been on CS???
FlowerOfTheSnow
FlowerOfTheSnowFlowerOfTheSnowMalaga, Andalusia Spain23 Threads 2,212 Posts
Jan1305: I joined in July 2006 but had a 5 month break last year.

I think I'll probably continue in that way with long breaks, until I'm in a serious relationship. I'm not criticising people who stay long after they find their partner, but I'd rather do other things, despite the fact that there are lovely people here.

The good thing about my long break was that I reduced my working hours and developed a social life in the real world with great friends. Unfortunately that life is in Spain, so here I am in Russia and on CS regularly until May when I can get back into the social whirl and not depend on CS so much to ease my boredom.

Maybe twice a week on CS is a good balance.



laugh Unless it's p.ssing down with rain for 2 weeks solid and you live 1 mile up a mud track on a mountain with sheer drops to the side of track ... In which case one tends to limit outings and skidding around to the absolutely necessary!!! grin
Feb 22, 2008 12:15 PM CST For how long have You been on CS???
Jan1305
Jan1305Jan1305Sunshine and vino, Murcia Spain170 Threads 5,319 Posts
FlowerOfTheSnow: Unless it's p.ssing down with rain for 2 weeks solid and you live 1 mile up a mud track on a mountain with sheer drops to the side of track ... In which case one tends to limit outings and skidding around to the absolutely necessary!!!


Well yes, I have to agree there Flowergong!

laugh
Feb 22, 2008 12:18 PM CST For how long have You been on CS???
FlowerOfTheSnow
FlowerOfTheSnowFlowerOfTheSnowMalaga, Andalusia Spain23 Threads 2,212 Posts
Jan1305: Well yes, I have to agree there Flowergong!


grin teddybear
Feb 22, 2008 1:13 PM CST For how long have You been on CS???
lisajane
lisajanelisajanesliema, Majjistral Malta44 Threads 1 Polls 717 Posts
I have also been on here for around 9 months although i have been rather lucky as it only took me 2 - 3 months to find my current and hopefully longterm boyfriend we have been dating for nearly 7 months now and we are considering moving onto the next step and moving in together.
Now i am still on here quite a few evenings a week to see who is saying what and still attend the Malta CS meetings which are great fun..... but i also have my life away from here too. I think its having a good balance between CS life and real life. My boyfriend on the other hand decided a couple of months ago that he didnt need CS anymore and has removed his profile and himself from here....so i suppose each to their own, i dont see anything wrong with still coming on CS even though you are in a relationship as long as you have stated that in your profile.
Feb 22, 2008 1:19 PM CST For how long have You been on CS???
Jacko50
Jacko50Jacko50Qawra, Majjistral Malta70 Threads 371 Posts
lisajane: I have also been on here for around 9 months although i have been rather lucky as it only took me 2 - 3 months to find my current and hopefully longterm boyfriend we have been dating for nearly 7 months now and we are considering moving onto the next step and moving in together.
Now i am still on here quite a few evenings a week to see who is saying what and still attend the Malta CS meetings which are great fun..... but i also have my life away from here too. I think its having a good balance between CS life and real life. My boyfriend on the other hand decided a couple of months ago that he didnt need CS anymore and has removed his profile and himself from here....so i suppose each to their own, i dont see anything wrong with still coming on CS even though you are in a relationship as long as you have stated that in your profile.
You and KT are two of the nicest and most genuine people it's been my pleasure to meet, and for me, the real success story of CS Malta.................best wishes to the both of youhug
Feb 22, 2008 1:35 PM CST For how long have You been on CS???
u2Kitty
u2Kittyu2KittyClose to the ocean, South Denmark Denmark23 Threads 974 Posts
Jan1305: I joined in July 2006 but had a 5 month break last year.

I think I'll probably continue in that way with long breaks, until I'm in a serious relationship. I'm not criticising people who stay long after they find their partner, but I'd rather do other things, despite the fact that there are lovely people here.

The good thing about my long break was that I reduced my working hours and developed a social life in the real world with great friends. Unfortunately that life is in Spain, so here I am in Russia and on CS regularly until May when I can get back into the social whirl and not depend on CS so much to ease my boredom.

Maybe twice a week on CS is a good balance.


Jan i like your sentence: "Developed a social life"rolling on the floor laughing

I`m also not online everyday - but like to pop in now and then..

You must miss Spain a lot!!! My favourite South EU country!!!

I love my virtual friends in here , could be great meeting you one day - as I love my friends IRL..

Greetings for you in Russia Jan!!!!!

Kittycheering
Feb 22, 2008 1:35 PM CST For how long have You been on CS???
lisajane
lisajanelisajanesliema, Majjistral Malta44 Threads 1 Polls 717 Posts
Thank you Jackohug
Feb 22, 2008 1:49 PM CST For how long have You been on CS???
Since about Sept.7th 07.
Had somewhat of a break over the Holidays when my Modem decided to go Belly Up.


How long?
Doing Life without Parole.....

blues moping sigh dunno grin
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