This one is For The Ladies. If Your Relationship is A Committed One With Your Man, Would You Allow Him To Move In With You And Share Your Home, As Long As He Understands That He Has to Help Out Around The House And Of Course Share the Expenses of Running The Household ?
I understand that each relationship is different....but I tried the live in thing....this last one...everytime he got a lump sum of money he would blow it gambling, drinking ect and leave me high and dry with the bills ect...I forgave one too many times....I was taught to turn the other cheek.....I did...but I'll be darned if I was going to give up my two butt cheeks!!! I need the padding lol...
Of course! I love sharing living quarters with someone special (my place is big enough that we can be apart when we want, too). I'm still going to be out of the house several nights a week for my other interests, but he will have his interests separate from mine. We will learn new things from each other, be supportive, and explore this planet together having a lot of fun!
Now I just have to...er...find that person again. lol
I think we just talked about this in another thread... my answer is, again, my feeling has been that as long as I have my girls in the house, I don't think I'd be comfortable modeling living with somebody. If I'm not committed enough to him to be married, yhen I would have no business living with him in front of my girls. If I were committed enough to married him, and I should just get married.
After they're both gone? That's another story, I'll just have to see...
And yes, I am aware of the arbitrary hypocrisy of "before they go" versus "after they go", because even after they go they will obviously be around at certain times seeing me live with somebody... so I don't need that debate.
Well yea of course. Why not? lol I suppose it would all depend on how long I have been with this man but yes if all went great and we got along I would definatly give it a shot.
Yes I would. I've been married and I choose not to go down that road again,(I don't think)lol Anyway, at my age I want the compaionship plus I don't like living alone.
Being married doesn't mean they will suddenly share household responsibilities or any of that other good stuff. Living with them is a way of finding out how things might be. Even then it's no guarantee, there ARE NONE. There are no answers and no guarantees.
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