Ladies If You Were In A Committed Relationship With Your Man, Would You let Him Live With You ? ( Archived) (32)

Apr 15, 2006 12:19 PM CST Ladies If You Were In A Committed Relationship With Your Man, Would You let Him Live With You ?
Souza615
Souza615Souza615Diboll, Texas USA20 Threads 93 Posts
This one is For The Ladies. If Your Relationship is A Committed One With Your Man, Would You Allow Him To Move In With You And Share Your Home, As Long As He Understands That He Has to Help Out Around The House And Of Course Share the Expenses of Running The Household ?
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Apr 15, 2006 12:21 PM CST Ladies If You Were In A Committed Relationship With Your Man, Would You let Him Live With You ?
dixrog
dixrogdixrogNorton, Virginia USA54 Threads 1,974 Posts
yep.

;)
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Apr 15, 2006 12:23 PM CST Ladies If You Were In A Committed Relationship With Your Man, Would You let Him Live With You ?
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
Well said sweetheart. Paws
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Apr 15, 2006 12:24 PM CST Ladies If You Were In A Committed Relationship With Your Man, Would You let Him Live With You ?
blackneckbaby
blackneckbabyblackneckbaby14 Threads 356 Posts
absolutely


--Mari
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Apr 15, 2006 12:24 PM CST Ladies If You Were In A Committed Relationship With Your Man, Would You let Him Live With You ?
ninamoosha
ninamooshaninamooshaSt. Ignace, Michigan USA146 Threads 1,285 Posts
I understand that each relationship is different....but I tried the live in thing....this last one...everytime he got a lump sum of money he would blow it gambling, drinking ect and leave me high and dry with the bills ect...I forgave one too many times....I was taught to turn the other cheek.....I did...but I'll be darned if I was going to give up my two butt cheeks!!! I need the padding lol...
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Apr 15, 2006 12:25 PM CST Ladies If You Were In A Committed Relationship With Your Man, Would You let Him Live With You ?
Justadreamerhere
JustadreamerhereJustadreamerhere39 Threads 3,444 Posts
of course
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Apr 15, 2006 12:26 PM CST Ladies If You Were In A Committed Relationship With Your Man, Would You let Him Live With You ?
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
Of course...and I have a large enough house that he could have the whole upstairs and not see me for a week if he wanted to....LOL
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Apr 15, 2006 12:27 PM CST Ladies If You Were In A Committed Relationship With Your Man, Would You let Him Live With You ?
ViennaSongbird
ViennaSongbirdViennaSongbirdVienna, Virginia USA6 Threads 178 Posts
Of course! I love sharing living quarters with someone special (my place is big enough that we can be apart when we want, too). I'm still going to be out of the house several nights a week for my other interests, but he will have his interests separate from mine. We will learn new things from each other, be supportive, and explore this planet together having a lot of fun!

Now I just have to...er...find that person again. lol
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Apr 15, 2006 12:27 PM CST Ladies If You Were In A Committed Relationship With Your Man, Would You let Him Live With You ?
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
I'll take it. Paws
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Apr 15, 2006 12:29 PM CST Ladies If You Were In A Committed Relationship With Your Man, Would You let Him Live With You ?
nwnstar
nwnstarnwnstarConway, USA38 Threads 5,464 Posts
i dunno. depends on the guy.

have i? yes.

do i feel "right" about it? no...

am i glad i didn't marry him/them/it? HELL yeah!

however...i wanna get the right man...and do it the right way...or pretty much not at all.
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Apr 15, 2006 12:32 PM CST Ladies If You Were In A Committed Relationship With Your Man, Would You let Him Live With You ?
blueeyes2012
blueeyes2012blueeyes2012Brandon, Canada8 Threads 256 Posts
Under the above noted terms and conditions???

Of course.
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Apr 15, 2006 12:32 PM CST Ladies If You Were In A Committed Relationship With Your Man, Would You let Him Live With You ?
ninamoosha
ninamooshaninamooshaSt. Ignace, Michigan USA146 Threads 1,285 Posts
Well said nwnstar!!!I truely agree with you....
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Apr 15, 2006 12:38 PM CST Ladies If You Were In A Committed Relationship With Your Man, Would You let Him Live With You ?
kenigsberg
kenigsbergkenigsbergkentville, Nova Scotia Canada13 Threads 1,127 Posts
yes yes and yes
:^)
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Apr 15, 2006 12:46 PM CST Ladies If You Were In A Committed Relationship With Your Man, Would You let Him Live With You ?
Meilandra
MeilandraMeilandraEden Prairie, Minnesota USA25 Threads 1,186 Posts
I think we just talked about this in another thread... my answer is, again, my feeling has been that as long as I have my girls in the house, I don't think I'd be comfortable modeling living with somebody. If I'm not committed enough to him to be married, yhen I would have no business living with him in front of my girls. If I were committed enough to married him, and I should just get married.

After they're both gone? That's another story, I'll just have to see...

And yes, I am aware of the arbitrary hypocrisy of "before they go" versus "after they go", because even after they go they will obviously be around at certain times seeing me live with somebody... so I don't need that debate.
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Apr 15, 2006 12:47 PM CST Ladies If You Were In A Committed Relationship With Your Man, Would You let Him Live With You ?
Meilandra
MeilandraMeilandraEden Prairie, Minnesota USA25 Threads 1,186 Posts
Grr my hands hurt today and I'm using a voice recognition program for typing... and it makes a lot of mistakes...
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Apr 15, 2006 3:04 PM CST Ladies If You Were In A Committed Relationship With Your Man, Would You let Him Live With You ?
Katine76
Katine76Katine76Moncton, Canada145 Threads 4,516 Posts
Well yea of course. Why not? lol I suppose it would all depend on how long I have been with this man but yes if all went great and we got along I would definatly give it a shot.

Tracy :o)
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Jun 3, 2006 6:24 PM CST Ladies If You Were In A Committed Relationship With Your Man, Would You let Him Live With You ?
meagain
meagainmeagaincanton, Ohio USA1 Posts
Yes I would. I've been married and I choose not to go down that road again,(I don't think)lol Anyway, at my age I want the compaionship plus I don't like living alone.cheers
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Jun 3, 2006 6:30 PM CST Ladies If You Were In A Committed Relationship With Your Man, Would You let Him Live With You ?
CautiousSingle
CautiousSingleCautiousSingleSouthern, British Columbia Canada4 Threads 697 Posts
No, probably not again... live and learn

Roxanne
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Jun 3, 2006 8:43 PM CST Ladies If You Were In A Committed Relationship With Your Man, Would You let Him Live With You ?
babidoll
babidollbabidollGrants Pass, Oregon USA4 Posts
I have to say from experience you never really know someone until you have had to live with them. This is true for both couples and friends.
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Jun 3, 2006 8:51 PM CST Ladies If You Were In A Committed Relationship With Your Man, Would You let Him Live With You ?
SusieRR
SusieRRSusieRRnortheast, Ohio USA78 Threads 3 Polls 2,122 Posts
Being married doesn't mean they will suddenly share household responsibilities or any of that other good stuff. Living with them is a way of finding out how things might be. Even then it's no guarantee, there ARE NONE. There are no answers and no guarantees.
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