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Mar 9, 2008 4:06 PM CST ~~ I am so puzzled here ~~
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
What's up with those newbies that comes to say Hi and then they vanish from the Forums?

What the point to say Hi and to disappear?

Any thoughts? confused dunno
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Mar 9, 2008 4:07 PM CST ~~ I am so puzzled here ~~
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Konigsberg: What's up with those newbies that comes to say Hi and then they vanish from the Forums?

What the point to say Hi and to disappear?

Any thoughts?


Maybe we scare them...uh oh dunno grin
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Mar 9, 2008 4:08 PM CST ~~ I am so puzzled here ~~
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
Konigsberg: What's up with those newbies that comes to say Hi and then they vanish from the Forums?

What the point to say Hi and to disappear?

Any thoughts?


It's called chilly water syndrom.

Test the waters with big toe until the first freeze hits or a shark comes a calling.....
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Mar 9, 2008 4:09 PM CST ~~ I am so puzzled here ~~
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Maybe we scare them...
Yes my thoughts exactlygrin
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Mar 9, 2008 4:09 PM CST ~~ I am so puzzled here ~~
Tamarory
TamaroryTamaroryPlymouth, Devon, England UK23 Threads 2 Polls 503 Posts
RAWR
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Mar 9, 2008 4:10 PM CST ~~ I am so puzzled here ~~
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
The swedish ones get banned on their first day. At least two of them did.

I wish love, peace and prosperity for my swedish neighbours.

please crying
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Mar 9, 2008 4:10 PM CST ~~ I am so puzzled here ~~
Maybe they want to be seen,known and then wait for mail from interested parties? Then again we may have scared thm off,depends when they were on reading threads.
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Mar 9, 2008 4:11 PM CST ~~ I am so puzzled here ~~
BamaBoy74
BamaBoy74BamaBoy74Montevallo, Alabama USA2 Threads 80 Posts
Konigsberg: What's up with those newbies that comes to say Hi and then they vanish from the Forums?

What the point to say Hi and to disappear?

Any thoughts?

I'm still here. The difference is that I never actually said, hi; I jumped right in and started talking. So, Hi everyone.grin
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Mar 9, 2008 4:12 PM CST ~~ I am so puzzled here ~~
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
Konigsberg: What's up with those newbies that comes to say Hi and then they vanish from the Forums?

What the point to say Hi and to disappear?

Any thoughts?


Juse nosey thoughts. Anyone in particular you're missing? We'll hunt him down. wow
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Mar 9, 2008 4:14 PM CST ~~ I am so puzzled here ~~
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
BamaBoy74: I'm still here. The difference is that I never actually said, hi; I jumped right in and started talking. So, Hi everyone.


Ah! yes that what I have done 3 years ago.

Welcome wave ... you do have guts .............. Boooo! devil laugh
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Mar 9, 2008 4:15 PM CST ~~ I am so puzzled here ~~
BamaBoy74
BamaBoy74BamaBoy74Montevallo, Alabama USA2 Threads 80 Posts
Konigsberg: Ah! yes that what I have done 3 years ago.

Welcome ... you do have guts .............. Boooo!

It takes a lot more than a place like this to scare me off.grin angel devil
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Mar 9, 2008 4:16 PM CST ~~ I am so puzzled here ~~
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
KrazieStill: Juse nosey thoughts. Anyone in particular you're missing? We'll hunt him down.


lol Nawww I am happy with a set of people we do have on Forums ... with all of them. I've been wondering. devil
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Mar 9, 2008 4:17 PM CST ~~ I am so puzzled here ~~
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA13 Threads 3,978 Posts
BamaBoy74: I'm still here. The difference is that I never actually said, hi; I jumped right in and started talking. So, Hi everyone.


wave cswelcome
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Mar 9, 2008 4:18 PM CST ~~ I am so puzzled here ~~
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
lusciousmile: The swedish ones get banned on their first day. At least two of them did.

I wish love, peace and prosperity for my swedish neighbours.


Ummm ... I haven't noticed anyone from Finland as well, Princess.


laugh wave
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Mar 9, 2008 4:18 PM CST ~~ I am so puzzled here ~~
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA52 Threads 5 Polls 4,579 Posts
lusciousmile: The swedish ones get banned on their first day. At least two of them did.

I wish love, peace and prosperity for my swedish neighbours.

why do they get banned? for what reason and by who? I have heard that the members that have been here a while scare them off,at least that is what I have read in a couple of threads,I saw one disappear because people were suspicious of herconfused
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Mar 9, 2008 4:19 PM CST ~~ I am so puzzled here ~~
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
nomindgames: Maybe they want to be seen,known and then wait for mail from interested parties? Then again we may have scared thm off,depends when they were on reading threads.


That's what I think too ... but again ...isn't it it gonna be more productive to stay on Forums? dunno wave
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Mar 9, 2008 4:20 PM CST ~~ I am so puzzled here ~~
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Maybe we scare them...


giggle devil
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Mar 9, 2008 4:21 PM CST ~~ I am so puzzled here ~~
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
irishlass45: why do they get banned? for what reason and by who? I have heard that the members that have been here a while scare them off,at least that is what I have read in a couple of threads,I saw one disappear because people were suspicious of her


There was only two of them who got booted that i know of, they were just suspicious i guess.


dunno
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Mar 9, 2008 4:21 PM CST ~~ I am so puzzled here ~~
Manolito
ManolitoManolitoa strfilled galaxy far faraway, Greater London, England UK19 Threads 1 Polls 1,611 Posts
Konigsberg: What's up with those newbies that comes to say Hi and then they vanish from the Forums?

What the point to say Hi and to disappear?

Any thoughts?


"Hi" threads are usually polite ones, most people will pop in and give a warm welcome to any persons introducing themselves.

Thats a huge contrast to what happens in all he other threads, where even if a new person makes it and posts an oppinion or two, he is soon discouraged by being ignored by all the "mutually aquanted" here exchanging kisses, jokes and teasing each other.

Some members of this site have tried to voice this concern recently but their concerns came off as a "scolding" on all the fun in this foroums - where it shouldnt have been understood as such (IMHO).

When a new person is trying to join in on a thread, it pays to be noticed and commented upon - its encouraging for him/her to keep comming back until he/she feels comfortable enough to roam the site freely. Its something upon which all of us could benefit as it would give us a chance to get aquinted with how more people think - a crucial factor in searching for a partner.

Overall, having fun is fun, but lets not keep it with our friends - lets encourage the new people we see to keep posting. And thats not just if the new person is a hot chick with some cool pictures - as i have seen happening.
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Mar 9, 2008 4:22 PM CST ~~ I am so puzzled here ~~
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
I'm a newbie. You guys/gals scare the hell out of me uh oh


rolling on the floor laughing
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