Do you believe there is someone for everyone? ( Archived) (86)

Mar 14, 2008 10:53 PM CST Do you believe there is someone for everyone?
joshtaal
joshtaaljoshtaalPalmerston North, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand9 Threads 335 Posts
Or is it just a myth?

I used to think everyone had someone out there in the world, and i've been open to all possibilities, never told anyone its not gonna work before giving them a chance to show me who they are.

I'd like to think that my someone special is out there but then I think maybe i'll be alone forever and I start doubting the whole 'someone for everyone' thing.

The internet certainly opens up the world of love connections too, but then you have the distance problem. It's all well & good to like someone from another country on the computer but how to know if you're gonna hit it off in real life? And if you do spend the money to meet each other, what if it's not right? There goes all your money, ok so maybe you could still chalk it up to a nice little holiday but what about the next person from overseas that you'd like to meet, you can only spend so much money before it dries up.

Maybe i'm thinking too much huh?

What say you CS'ers?
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Mar 14, 2008 11:11 PM CST Do you believe there is someone for everyone?
ROTTENPEACH
ROTTENPEACHROTTENPEACHLOMA LINDA, California USA5 Posts
I think there is osmeone for everyone, but I also agree why spend all that money to meet. Maybe try and get to know each other for a while before u meet and amybe agree to go dutch ...dunno
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Mar 14, 2008 11:12 PM CST Do you believe there is someone for everyone?
ROTTENPEACH
ROTTENPEACHROTTENPEACHLOMA LINDA, California USA5 Posts
sorry just learned to type .... laugh
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Mar 14, 2008 11:13 PM CST Do you believe there is someone for everyone?
joshtaal
joshtaaljoshtaalPalmerston North, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand9 Threads 335 Posts
ROTTENPEACH: I think there is osmeone for everyone, but I also agree why spend all that money to meet. Maybe try and get to know each other for a while before u meet and amybe agree to go dutch ...


So how far would you go to meet someone? Going dutch to meet someone from a country as far away as mine (even half way) could cost a bomb!
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Mar 14, 2008 11:15 PM CST Do you believe there is someone for everyone?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
NAH........laugh
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Mar 14, 2008 11:16 PM CST Do you believe there is someone for everyone?
joshtaal
joshtaaljoshtaalPalmerston North, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand9 Threads 335 Posts
thewall2: NAH........


Thats what I like about you Wall, you dont muck around with lengthy conversation, straight to the point!

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing professor
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Mar 14, 2008 11:35 PM CST Do you believe there is someone for everyone?
codecatz4
codecatz4codecatz4Madison, Indiana USA7 Threads 34 Posts
Why are you trying to meet someone so far away? You have no girls were you out. With gas prices or airfare it must cost a lot of cash especially to meet someone who might not be the sure thing.
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Mar 14, 2008 11:39 PM CST Do you believe there is someone for everyone?
joshtaal
joshtaaljoshtaalPalmerston North, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand9 Threads 335 Posts
codecatz4: Why are you trying to meet someone so far away? You have no girls were you out. With gas prices or airfare it must cost a lot of cash especially to meet someone who might not be the sure thing.


When I signed on to CS it wasn't my intention to meet someone half a world away, but if one believes in the term 'someone in the world for everyone' then ya gotta be open to ALL opportunities, right?

There are women where I live, just haven't found the right one yet
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Mar 15, 2008 12:07 AM CST Do you believe there is someone for everyone?
bamabulldog08
bamabulldog08bamabulldog08tuscaloosa, Alabama USA24 Threads 972 Posts
there's lots of fish out there but I only use a cain pole so there's no casting way out there. 100 miles from home is my limit.
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Mar 15, 2008 12:15 AM CST Do you believe there is someone for everyone?
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
In all seriousness,I think sometimes people miss out on OPPORTUNITY for meeting their match,and I'm a firm believer,that we can only have so many opportunities,and the more OPPORTUNITIES you miss....the harder it gets.
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Mar 15, 2008 12:17 AM CST Do you believe there is someone for everyone?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
Unfortunately yes. Some people just shouldn't procreate! doh grin
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Mar 15, 2008 12:24 AM CST Do you believe there is someone for everyone?
Patman846
Patman846Patman846Abington, Pennsylvania USA1 Threads 7 Posts
i believe that that there is some1 out there for every1. a special person for everybody. whereever mine is, i hope to find her soon. i just hope i'll know she'll be the one.
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Mar 15, 2008 2:40 AM CST Do you believe there is someone for everyone?
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
So if you are willing to look halfway around the world for your special someone, are you willing to move halfway around the world to be with your special someone?

dana
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Mar 15, 2008 3:15 AM CST Do you believe there is someone for everyone?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
Yeah I believe there is someone for everyone..

But I don't think it is just ONE person.. I think there are LOADS of them.

It's just a matter of finding one of them IMO.



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Mar 15, 2008 3:17 AM CST Do you believe there is someone for everyone?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
joshtaal: So how far would you go to meet someone? Going dutch to meet someone from a country as far away as mine (even half way) could cost a bomb!


I did a 8296 mile round trip recently to meet someone..

I'm going to meet them again soon too.
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Mar 15, 2008 3:51 AM CST Do you believe there is someone for everyone?
joshtaal
joshtaaljoshtaalPalmerston North, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand9 Threads 335 Posts
Claayer: I did a 8296 mile round trip recently to meet someone..

I'm going to meet them again soon too.


So that obviously worked out well for you, what would have happened if you & that someone didn't get on?
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Mar 15, 2008 3:54 AM CST Do you believe there is someone for everyone?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
joshtaal: So that obviously worked out well for you, what would have happened if you & that someone didn't get on?


dunno No biggy.. we had been talking for about 4mths first.. so I had a pretty good idea. (or I wouldn't have gone)

If we didn't get on.. we would have just made the best of it.. and if we reeeeeeeally didn't get on.. I would have left.

If you don't try.. you don't know do you.

We STILL don't know.. haha.. so this time we are going to have a 12 day crash course in each other (it was a week last time)
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Mar 15, 2008 3:58 AM CST Do you believe there is someone for everyone?
joshtaal
joshtaaljoshtaalPalmerston North, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand9 Threads 335 Posts
Claayer: No biggy.. we had been talking for about 4mths first.. so I had a pretty good idea. (or I wouldn't have gone)

If we didn't get on.. we would have just made the best of it.. and if we reeeeeeeally didn't get on.. I would have left.

If you don't try.. you don't know do you.

We STILL don't know.. haha.. so this time we are going to have a 12 day crash course in each other (it was a week last time)


Well good luck with that then, I hope it all works out
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Mar 15, 2008 3:59 AM CST Do you believe there is someone for everyone?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
joshtaal: Well good luck with that then, I hope it all works out


Thankyoooo... we'll see.
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Mar 15, 2008 5:37 AM CST Do you believe there is someone for everyone?
PILIPALA
PILIPALAPILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK200 Threads 4,804 Posts
No i don't
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