"Please love me" attitude ( Archived) (45)

Mar 15, 2008 12:50 PM CST "Please love me" attitude
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Have you ever been in that situation? Where someone or you were so skeptical about the success of it, didn't want to push a lot, all you wanted/ they wanted was to be loved and they/you showed that dispare and it really excited the other person to fall?

Please don't be idealistic, tell us what really happened...

I can say that it can be excitting...

cheers
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Mar 15, 2008 12:53 PM CST "Please love me" attitude
Ulimaroa
UlimaroaUlimaroaCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany121 Threads 38 Polls 5,629 Posts
cristina: Have you ever been in that situation? Where someone or you were so skeptical about the success of it, didn't want to push a lot, all you wanted/ they wanted was to be loved and they/you showed that dispare and it really excited the other person to fall?

Please don't be idealistic, tell us what really happened...

I can say that it can be excitting...


hugh?


come again blues
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Mar 15, 2008 12:54 PM CST "Please love me" attitude
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
Ulimaroa: hugh? come again



What?confused
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Mar 15, 2008 12:56 PM CST "Please love me" attitude
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Ulimaroa: hugh? come again


i bet you wanna send me to the gramma sectionmumbling


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

I MEAN... you/someone kinda begs you to love them, even if it is done indirectly...or the other way around. Did you/he fall Uli? Tell us the storylaugh
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Mar 15, 2008 1:00 PM CST "Please love me" attitude
FishingMTgirl
FishingMTgirlFishingMTgirlBig Sky, Montana USA18 Threads 5 Polls 971 Posts
I love everyone and get along with everyone. In a relationship however, if someone was BEGGING for a certain kind of love from me ~~~~ no I do not find that flattering or exciting. Personally it turns me off. I would wonder how shallow is this love?? Anyways...... to answer this for me.........nope.
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Mar 15, 2008 1:01 PM CST "Please love me" attitude
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
I have a 'take me as i am' attitude.

uh oh
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Mar 15, 2008 1:01 PM CST "Please love me" attitude
FishingMTgirl
FishingMTgirlFishingMTgirlBig Sky, Montana USA18 Threads 5 Polls 971 Posts
To add to that......the love is either there or it isn't there JMO
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Mar 15, 2008 1:03 PM CST "Please love me" attitude
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
lusciousmile: I have a 'take me as i am' attitude.


much easiergrin
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Mar 15, 2008 1:04 PM CST "Please love me" attitude
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
FishingMTgirl: I love everyone and get along with everyone. In a relationship however, if someone was BEGGING for a certain kind of love from me ~~~~ no I do not find that flattering or exciting. Personally it turns me off. I would wonder how shallow is this love?? Anyways...... to answer this for me.........nope.


but what if the person is someone who wanted for long time?batting
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Mar 15, 2008 1:05 PM CST "Please love me" attitude
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
cristina: but what if the person is someone who wanted for long time?


who you wanted
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Mar 15, 2008 1:09 PM CST "Please love me" attitude
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
cristina: i bet you wanna send me to the gramma section

I MEAN... you/someone kinda begs you to love them, even if it is done indirectly...or the other way around. Did you/he fall Uli? Tell us the story



Nope, I have never been manipulated into having feelings for someone. scold wink
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Mar 15, 2008 1:11 PM CST "Please love me" attitude
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
constanza: Nope, I have never been manipulated into having feelings for someone.


manipulation?hmmm

how about "please take me back, love me back"...that's still a "please"daydream
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Mar 15, 2008 1:12 PM CST "Please love me" attitude
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
constanza: Nope, I have never been manipulated into having feelings for someone.


Me neither...You either love me or you don't..If you don't then I'm much better off alone than to be in a one sided relationship...You can't make someone feel what's not there!!!!!!!!!!!

roll eyes wine conversing
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Mar 15, 2008 1:13 PM CST "Please love me" attitude
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Me neither...You either love me or you don't..If you don't then I'm much better off alone than to be in a one sided relationship...You can't make someone feel what's not there!!!!!!!!!!!


no? You never had the feeling of wanting to try because the person seems perfect?
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Mar 15, 2008 1:14 PM CST "Please love me" attitude
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
cristina: no? You never had the feeling of wanting to try because the person seems perfect?


seemed
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Mar 15, 2008 1:14 PM CST "Please love me" attitude
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
cristina: manipulation?

how about "please take me back, love me back"...that's still a "please"


now that is an interesting game - I like it laugh
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Mar 15, 2008 1:16 PM CST "Please love me" attitude
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
constanza: now that is an interesting game - I like it


laugh cheering cheering
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Mar 15, 2008 1:17 PM CST "Please love me" attitude
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
cristina: no? You never had the feeling of wanting to try because the person seems perfect?


Of course I have had the feeling...would I voice it???? NOOOOOOOO.... Based on how the other persons actions have been...If they have already shown me that they don't feel the same.....I just get it in my head I'm much better off and move on....Because I know I am.....wine
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Mar 15, 2008 1:20 PM CST "Please love me" attitude
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
cristina: no? You never had the feeling of wanting to try because the person seems perfect?



You need to find out then Cristina; why linger with doubt? ouchie hug
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Mar 15, 2008 1:20 PM CST "Please love me" attitude
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Of course I have had the feeling...would I voice it???? NOOOOOOOO.... Based on how the other persons actions have been...If they have already shown me that they don't feel the same.....I just get it in my head I'm much better off and move on....Because I know I am.....


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