HAS ANYONE EVER EXPERIENCED THIS KIND OF PERSON? ( Archived) (67)

Mar 18, 2008 6:29 PM CST HAS ANYONE EVER EXPERIENCED THIS KIND OF PERSON?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
Oo that sounds like my ex husband

no.. really.



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Mar 18, 2008 6:30 PM CST HAS ANYONE EVER EXPERIENCED THIS KIND OF PERSON?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
Yep.. definitely him.
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Mar 18, 2008 6:32 PM CST HAS ANYONE EVER EXPERIENCED THIS KIND OF PERSON?
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
Claayer: Oo that sounds like my ex husband

no.. really.


wave

hug

I've been sucked in myself... they really are masters at manipulation and deception... thank god though I saw through it... still took me a while from the point of realisation though to actually do anything about it cause I really didn't want to believe it...

Mind works in mysterious way dont it? laugh

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Mar 18, 2008 6:36 PM CST HAS ANYONE EVER EXPERIENCED THIS KIND OF PERSON?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Aries01: I've been sucked in myself... they really are masters at manipulation and deception... thank god though I saw through it... still took me a while from the point of realisation though to actually do anything about it cause I really didn't want to believe it...

Mind works in mysterious way dont it?


It does take awhile...I didn't know until we moved in together...wich really wasn't even a mutual decision..he lived 2 hrs away...quit his job without saying anything and basicly had no place to go...SO UMMMMMMMMM Yeah..master manipulators is right...I had to call the cops to even get him outa my house!!!!!!!!!!


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Mar 18, 2008 6:38 PM CST HAS ANYONE EVER EXPERIENCED THIS KIND OF PERSON?
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Yes I have and he stalked me for a year...he even moved in acrossed the road from my house..the kicker is the guy wasn't even renting a room...he made friends with him and manipulated him into letting him move in....and yes they are scary....He had most of these traits....


In one sense I feel a lot of pity for this kind of person because they are obviously f**cked up.. I wonder do they actually realise how awful they actually are? probably not... if their behaviour is deliberate though... scary !!!uh oh

Think we just have to be doubly cautious and not get sucked in particularly by flattery and charm and the like

hug
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Mar 18, 2008 6:39 PM CST HAS ANYONE EVER EXPERIENCED THIS KIND OF PERSON?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Aries01: In one sense I feel a lot of pity for this kind of person because they are obviously f**cked up.. I wonder do they actually realise how awful they actually are? probably not... if their behaviour is deliberate though... scary !!!

Think we just have to be doubly cautious and not get sucked in particularly by flattery and charm and the like


OHHHHHHHHHHHH Yes...I learned a most valuable lesson from that one...wink
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Mar 18, 2008 6:43 PM CST HAS ANYONE EVER EXPERIENCED THIS KIND OF PERSON?
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA28 Threads 1 Polls 5,159 Posts
I dated someone who exemplifies #3 and was always getting hurt - crazy thrill seeker - but charming like hell moping

and I had the misfortune of dating MR. Promiscuous without being aware barf boxing
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Mar 18, 2008 6:44 PM CST HAS ANYONE EVER EXPERIENCED THIS KIND OF PERSON?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Claayer: Yep.. definitely him.


Damn, Claire...how could you let go of such a prize??wow confused dunno conversing
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Mar 18, 2008 6:47 PM CST HAS ANYONE EVER EXPERIENCED THIS KIND OF PERSON?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Aries01: In one sense I feel a lot of pity for this kind of person because they are obviously f**cked up.. I wonder do they actually realise how awful they actually are? probably not... if their behaviour is deliberate though... scary !!!

Think we just have to be doubly cautious and not get sucked in particularly by flattery and charm and the like


The worst part is that he still lives around here and if you think they forget they don't....We have been apart for I think about 8 years and he called me about 2.5 years ago..So obviously his obsession is still there....and he lives wth someone too...Stunned....roll eyes
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Mar 18, 2008 6:48 PM CST HAS ANYONE EVER EXPERIENCED THIS KIND OF PERSON?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
I know what you mean, Aires. One finds an especially virulent form of this narcissistic disorder in certain middle-aged men. It's as though they have the ability to cast a spell on you or something...wow confused cool
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Mar 18, 2008 6:49 PM CST HAS ANYONE EVER EXPERIENCED THIS KIND OF PERSON?
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Please don't be cutting and pasting from my profilescold
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Mar 18, 2008 6:51 PM CST HAS ANYONE EVER EXPERIENCED THIS KIND OF PERSON?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Indyfella: Please don't be cutting and pasting from my profile


Yes but you're the perfect example...roll eyes doh grin
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Mar 18, 2008 6:53 PM CST HAS ANYONE EVER EXPERIENCED THIS KIND OF PERSON?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
Ambrose2007: Damn, Claire...how could you let go of such a prize??


Dunno.. silly me!


laugh


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Mar 18, 2008 6:53 PM CST HAS ANYONE EVER EXPERIENCED THIS KIND OF PERSON?
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Yes but you're the perfect example...
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Mar 18, 2008 6:55 PM CST HAS ANYONE EVER EXPERIENCED THIS KIND OF PERSON?
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
Carefull! Some over empathic ans highly sensitive mod may take it as the general membership of CS and scold you ...LOL! %D
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Mar 18, 2008 6:56 PM CST HAS ANYONE EVER EXPERIENCED THIS KIND OF PERSON?
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Indyfella: Please don't be cutting and pasting from my profile


rolling on the floor laughing

Some people just have no respect for individual privacy, Indy.professor comfort
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Mar 18, 2008 6:57 PM CST HAS ANYONE EVER EXPERIENCED THIS KIND OF PERSON?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
solitare: Carefull! Some over empathic ans highly sensitive mod may take it as the general membership of CS and scold you ...LOL! %D



rolling on the floor laughing

What are ya tryin to say solitaire????


rolling on the floor laughing help
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Mar 18, 2008 7:09 PM CST HAS ANYONE EVER EXPERIENCED THIS KIND OF PERSON?
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
constanza: I dated someone who exemplifies #3 and was always getting hurt - crazy thrill seeker - but charming like hell

and I had the misfortune of dating MR. Promiscuous without being aware


laugh.... must have been fun laugh

Seriously though I think traits in isolation are ok.. its where there is more that 4 or 5 that alarm bell start ringing....

The common thread running through them I think is self obsession, lack of empathy/compassion, and a desperate need to have the Ego massaged.. with guys like that it is never about the other person (although they will try to convince themselves and you that it is.... to ease their guilt)... it is alway only about THEMSELVES and getting their own way..



cheers
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Mar 18, 2008 7:12 PM CST HAS ANYONE EVER EXPERIENCED THIS KIND OF PERSON?
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
Elley: Makes me feel ashamed to be a man.


hug

the above is only a percentage... there are some really decent ones....

hug
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Mar 18, 2008 7:12 PM CST HAS ANYONE EVER EXPERIENCED THIS KIND OF PERSON?
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
errmmm .. sorry but this i would presume is a person who has issues and needs help. Certainly not dangerous neither funny.

It doesnt look like a " sociopathic " lifestyle is very rosy.

sigh
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