Is It Bettter To Have Loved And Lost Or Never Loved At All ??? ( Archived) (74)

Mar 30, 2008 3:23 PM CST Is It Bettter To Have Loved And Lost Or Never Loved At All ???
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
Just been talking to a friend and this came up. Just interersted in what others think ?
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Mar 30, 2008 3:25 PM CST Is It Bettter To Have Loved And Lost Or Never Loved At All ???
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
Better to have loved and lost.

I think I'm a better person for the relationships that I've had. I don't consider them all failures either. I've learned from each one, and I've known and loved some amazing people.
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Mar 30, 2008 3:28 PM CST Is It Bettter To Have Loved And Lost Or Never Loved At All ???
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
dcj22: Better to have loved and lost.

I think I'm a better person for the relationships that I've had. I don't consider them all failures either. I've learned from each one, and I've known and loved some amazing people.
Hi dana wave don't think of it as failure if as you say you learn from it, have been times when have found the pain of breaking up difficult to cope with
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Mar 30, 2008 3:29 PM CST Is It Bettter To Have Loved And Lost Or Never Loved At All ???
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
morganlee: Just been talking to a friend and this came up. Just interersted in what others think ?


Love and lost.

It was there that I felt the measure and worth of the world....
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Mar 30, 2008 3:29 PM CST Is It Bettter To Have Loved And Lost Or Never Loved At All ???
Thalassa
ThalassaThalassaRome, Lazio Italy104 Threads 2,410 Posts
I definitely feel it is better to have loved and lost. I think that a person who never loves is missing one of the best feelings in the world (for it IS all about feelings, really). Also, if someone never loves, perhaps they are emotionally incapable of loving, and I think that would be a sad and lonely existence.
Yep...I've loved and lost (eventually) but when love was alive it was amazing and I'm glad I've experienced it.
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Mar 30, 2008 3:37 PM CST Is It Bettter To Have Loved And Lost Or Never Loved At All ???
Serenity1971
Serenity1971Serenity1971Serenity's Island, New York USA81 Threads 2 Polls 3,815 Posts
I'm glad I have loved and lost. I think it's much better than never loved at all. The experience in and of itself is amazing.
heart wings heart wings heart wings
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Mar 30, 2008 3:54 PM CST Is It Bettter To Have Loved And Lost Or Never Loved At All ???
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
I for one am not to sure that it was worth it to be honest, I have felt the euphoria of love and the joy of being loved and like most people the pain of losing that love. for me the pain is something I remember far more clearly than the love, and often wonder if I want to risk that again.
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Mar 30, 2008 3:57 PM CST Is It Bettter To Have Loved And Lost Or Never Loved At All ???
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
I think it's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.

It was the best hour of my life!smitten yay


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Mar 30, 2008 3:57 PM CST Is It Bettter To Have Loved And Lost Or Never Loved At All ???
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
Serenity1971: I'm glad I have loved and lost. I think it's much better than never loved at all. The experience in and of itself is amazing.


Plus Mom told me so.....
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Mar 30, 2008 3:59 PM CST Is It Bettter To Have Loved And Lost Or Never Loved At All ???
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
vonney: I for one am not to sure that it was worth it to be honest, I have felt the euphoria of love and the joy of being loved and like most people the pain of losing that love. for me the pain is something I remember far more clearly than the love, and often wonder if I want to risk that again.
Hi vonny, although i did learn things from it but as you say i remember the pain vividly and don't think i could go thro that feeling again. I think the longer you are on your own the harder it is to let someone in again
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Mar 30, 2008 4:00 PM CST Is It Bettter To Have Loved And Lost Or Never Loved At All ???
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
kidatheart: I think it's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.

It was the best hour of my life!
thanks for that kid rolling on the floor laughing tongue rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 30, 2008 4:02 PM CST Is It Bettter To Have Loved And Lost Or Never Loved At All ???
swee_tangella
swee_tangellaswee_tangellawillemstad, Curaçao5 Threads 14 Posts
may be it is just me but if you have not love and lost you have not live at allkiss
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Mar 30, 2008 4:07 PM CST Is It Bettter To Have Loved And Lost Or Never Loved At All ???
RobbieM
RobbieMRobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK115 Threads 6 Polls 4,553 Posts
morganlee: Just been talking to a friend and this came up. Just interersted in what others think ?


Oh better to have loved and lost, as long as it doesn't involve loosing everything in the bank at the same time.

Sounds cynical but some people are after everything they can get......and as far as i am concerned i would rather holiday in Basra during an artillery assault than date another woman like that.laugh
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Mar 30, 2008 4:09 PM CST Is It Bettter To Have Loved And Lost Or Never Loved At All ???
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
RobbieM: Oh better to have loved and lost, as long as it doesn't involve loosing everything in the bank at the same time.

Sounds cynical but some people are after everything they can get......and as far as i am concerned i would rather holiday in Basra during an artillery assault than date another woman like that.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing H Robbie wave good to see you, actually that's a practical point, i lost everything, maybe that's why im so cynical laugh
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Mar 30, 2008 4:10 PM CST Is It Bettter To Have Loved And Lost Or Never Loved At All ???
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
I agree, it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved.
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Mar 30, 2008 4:10 PM CST Is It Bettter To Have Loved And Lost Or Never Loved At All ???
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
To have loved and lost cause then you are able to treasure it when you find it again.
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Mar 30, 2008 4:16 PM CST Is It Bettter To Have Loved And Lost Or Never Loved At All ???
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
cristina: To have loved and lost cause then you are able to treasure it when you find it again.



For me I think perhaps I would spend my time worrying about when I was going to lose it again...
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Mar 30, 2008 4:17 PM CST Is It Bettter To Have Loved And Lost Or Never Loved At All ???
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
cristina: To have loved and lost cause then you are able to treasure it when you find it again.


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Mar 30, 2008 4:18 PM CST Is It Bettter To Have Loved And Lost Or Never Loved At All ???
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
cristina: To have loved and lost cause then you are able to treasure it when you find it again.
smitten thumbs up applause
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Mar 30, 2008 4:20 PM CST Is It Bettter To Have Loved And Lost Or Never Loved At All ???
RobbieM
RobbieMRobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK115 Threads 6 Polls 4,553 Posts
morganlee: H Robbie good to see you, actually that's a practical point, i lost everything, maybe that's why im so cynical


A right cow robbed me blind!! I now say i don't have enough for a pot noodle if any gold diggers sniff a £50 note near me.

It's better to be loved for being poor.....that way its genuine.

Hows that for cynicalrolling on the floor laughing
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