Is it ok..... (24)
lucky200761Blue Springs, Missouri USA38 Threads 5 Polls 569 PostsIs it ok to still be good friends with all of your ex's???
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Some of them,not all.
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lucky200761: Is it ok to still be good friends with all of your ex's???
it depends
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Well my new girlfriend seems to think that is a problem..what should i do??
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lucky200761: Well my new girlfriend seems to think that is a problem..what should i do??
Change the girl-friend.
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gangel: Some of them,not all.
agree
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gangel: Change the girl-friend.
Well there's 2 sides to everything ..... how do you treat them in comparison to her???
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Respect her feelings or move on.
Its not an area that would be open for discussion.
Good luck anyway.
Its not an area that would be open for discussion.
Good luck anyway.
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emc_eile: Well there's 2 sides to everything ..... how do you treat them in comparison to her???
I treat her like she's MY girlfriend....whenever i run into one of my ex's and they might give me a hug or something she gets mad..and i tell her not to worry about it because she's THE girl in my life right now that i like in an intimate way..
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lucky200761: I treat her like she's MY girlfriend....whenever i run into one of my ex's and they might give me a hug or something she gets mad..and i tell her not to worry about it because she's THE girl in my life right now that i like in an intimate way..
then its her problem not yours! I'm ok with guys who have female friend and ex's that are female friend BUT when I am with them I like to feel I'm the only one and have been put in 2nd place before .... thats why I ask (thats my problem not standing up for things ... but hey thats another story)
Some cant hack their guy having female friends and I cant understand guys who would allow someone to dominate their friends like that ...... its your choice!
I've lots of male friends (some ex's included) but I would stay with a guy that wanted me to change or choose .... JMO of course
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maybe talk to her away from the situation and see how or why she feels that way ..... not just at the time it happens. If she blames in on past experiences explain she needs to let them go and have faith in you ..... she cannot blame you for the past
OK .... for the record, I'm single, suck at relationships so why am I giving some poor unsuspecting my dumb ideas
OK .... for the record, I'm single, suck at relationships so why am I giving some poor unsuspecting my dumb ideas
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emc_eile:
I've lots of male friends (some ex's included) but I would stay with a guy that wanted me to change or choose .... JMO of course
I've lots of male friends (some ex's included) but I would stay with a guy that wanted me to change or choose .... JMO of course
so are saying you WOULD or WOULDN'T stay with that person??
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lucky200761: so are saying you WOULD or WOULDN'T stay with that person??
wouldn't 
see I cant type either so don't listen to me!!! I'd always talk stuff through though a really try first! If it s just a jealousy thing I cant handle that though, its just not me! 
*psssst hey don't listen to her, she hasn't a clue what she is talking about as usual!!!* 
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emc_eile:
*psssst hey don't listen to her, she hasn't a clue what she is talking about as usual!!!*
*psssst hey don't listen to her, she hasn't a clue what she is talking about as usual!!!*
dont worry about it
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lucky200761: dont worry about it
lol you've got sense!
best advice I can give is talk to her about it! Now I'll give up giving my crap advice moment
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It shows maturity on your part and on the part of your ex's, to be able to remain friends after breaking up.
It also shows alot for your character.
You are to be commended for this!
Your current girlfriend has a jealous streak, reflecting her own insecurity and immaturity, for whatever reason. It may take her years to overcome this and cause your relationship much stress and hardship. It is unhealthy to remain in this type of environment.
For myself, I will not remain in a relationship which even hints at this type of behavior.
I am very good friends with my ex's. Still talk with them. There is nothing intimate. We hug or a kiss of greeting on the cheek. Nothing wrong with that. No need for jealousy. If I wanted to be with one of them, I would. That's History!!!
>>>>>>>>Remembers why the relationship was ended... smart not to go there again!!!
Matter of fact, one of my ex's from 30 years ago is still single. I encouraged him to make a profile here on CS!!!
Hope he meets someone!!
It also shows alot for your character.
You are to be commended for this!
Your current girlfriend has a jealous streak, reflecting her own insecurity and immaturity, for whatever reason. It may take her years to overcome this and cause your relationship much stress and hardship. It is unhealthy to remain in this type of environment.
For myself, I will not remain in a relationship which even hints at this type of behavior.
I am very good friends with my ex's. Still talk with them. There is nothing intimate. We hug or a kiss of greeting on the cheek. Nothing wrong with that. No need for jealousy. If I wanted to be with one of them, I would. That's History!!!
>>>>>>>>Remembers why the relationship was ended... smart not to go there again!!!
Matter of fact, one of my ex's from 30 years ago is still single. I encouraged him to make a profile here on CS!!!
Hope he meets someone!!
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lol you're the only giving me sound advice to so far...thank you!
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Michael Bolton: How can we be friends if we can't be lovers?
To be honest, distant friends and not too close...imo
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emc_eile: lol you've got sense! best advice I can give is talk to her about it!
Now I'll give up giving my crap advice moment
Now I'll give up giving my crap advice moment
lol you're fine...thank you!
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lucky200761: lol you're fine...thank you!
you're welcome
*phew he is still talking to me after all that!!!*
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