I would think it's to make friends, but reading some other threads all I'm getting is people putting people down and talking about them... a little.. NO ALOT childish.. it makes me wonder why that's why I posted this
cutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA7,772 posts
well i think the anonymous nature of this type of deal gives some people brass balls.Most of the animosity is when troublemakers bring it.All the regulars get along except for a few so just avoid the hostile threads or just ignore the bad stuff.
Friends, lovers, companions, open and HONEST communication. Most of us can spot a big fat liar a mile away or a fake and we seem to openly say so. I say if you cant handle the battle, get out of the line of fire. None of us are perfect but there is still a line one doesnt cross. Remember a lot of us talk to each other and eventually the conversation may come around to you. I have had my own battles since I got here but I know my core person is a good one and though I have my faults, I can hold my head high because I have been true to me, no matter how hard that has been at times. I have grown as a person since I have been here in many ways. Some notice, some dont. But as long as you keep up the crap you are doing, you will not find friendships lasting among us. I speak for everyone, sorry guys, but everyone I know would not tolerate for long what you have been flingin around. You want the arguing to stop? Quit giving us reason. I wouldnt argue with me much if i were you because I have your own words, word for word, to plaster here if you would like for all to know. Dont make me stoop to that level to call you out for what you are. Just change it. We are watching LOL
A little of everything makes the world go around and spices things up in a friendly way. If you down out right vebaly attacs someone in a harsh way then it should be 10 and out. And it´s kind of self cleaned here from those who blew it. Look at waverider he never flatly says something demeneour. And we who have been here for a while know this. Newcommers that are afflicted by his remarks and can´t take it in a joking way is soon gone.
catwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA6,683 posts
I know it is not always easy being a new kid on the block, but, you gals/guys have offered some wonderful insights into life's perplexities for me. I am glad that I joined this site and hope to find closer friendships and more....
Most I have talked, I really do enjoy the convo, but please do share with me what I have said, word for word to make me a big fat lair, or anyone for that matter. I for one can take a little light joking and have honestly enjoyed a few little repartee with a few, and really enjoy it so tell me what I'm lacking or what I'm doing please do tell.I for one can't stand jealoous people or people who think I said something but took my words in the wrong context, then not asking me about it accuses...
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