There are countless dating sites, some are free while others charge a hefty sum just to connect.In general, we tend to trust those who posted their photos but how do we ascertain if these photos are indeed the real persons? For a decent mature woman who lives in any Asian countries, it's traditionally unacceptable to hang out at the bars especially if she does not drink alcohol.I find it extremely difficult to have the opportunity to meet someone of like-mindedness. Are there really sincere,truthfully declared unmarried men who are genuine in seeking long term relationship on this site? Is photo one good way of pre-screening? I wonder?
A photo helps you to see what the person looks like and chatting can help you to get to know the person better. but you never know till you really know that person.
I'm sure there are plenty of sincere, unmarried men looking for a long term relationship on sites such as this. Not too sure whether you can ever be 100% certain the picture posted is really them unless you see them on web cam or meet them in person. The only ones I can be certain of are myself and a handful of people I know here.
imelin: wow, I am not even getting a single response from my post! Can I assume that the answer is negative?
I, myself am looking for that one person. It is a hard question to answer as my expectations have changed. That was what I was looking for in the beginning, but have found that it is hard to completely know someone from a site alone. There can be an instant attraction (maybe lust ). It is one thing I do look for though. It is also neccesery for that attraction to remain. It is hard without the physical nuances that are exchanged between woman and man. The sudden capture of eyes meeting, the body language that is not conveyed. One can however find out about a person if they contribute in the forms and you are observent. It takes time. It is hard to know someone else's mind just by posts alone. Beautiful looking people can turn into quite unattractive beings quite quickly just by opening their mouths. Some are better at hiding their true intentions or self. There are some genuine people here. Take the time to find them. Relationships take time to develop. Reading this back, I find I am just as confused as you. Sorry Nice to meet you and welcome
Bowie: I, myself am looking for that one person. It is a hard question to answer as my expectations have changed. That was what I was looking for in the beginning, but have found that it is hard to completely know someone from a site alone. There can be an instant attraction (maybe lust ). It is one thing I do look for though. It is also neccesery for that attraction to remain. It is hard without the physical nuances that are exchanged between woman and man. The sudden capture of eyes meeting, the body language that is not conveyed. One can however find out about a person if they contribute in the forms and you are observent. It takes time. It is hard to know someone else's mind just by posts alone. Beautiful looking people can turn into quite unattractive beings quite quickly just by opening their mouths. Some are better at hiding their true intentions or self. There are some genuine people here. Take the time to find them. Relationships take time to develop. Reading this back, I find I am just as confused as you. Sorry Nice to meet you and welcome
imelin: There are countless dating sites, some are free while others charge a hefty sum just to connect.In general, we tend to trust those who posted their photos but how do we ascertain if these photos are indeed the real persons? For a decent mature woman who lives in any Asian countries, it's traditionally unacceptable to hang out at the bars especially if she does not drink alcohol.I find it extremely difficult to have the opportunity to meet someone of like-mindedness. Are there really sincere,truthfully declared unmarried men who are genuine in seeking long term relationship on this site? Is photo one good way of pre-screening? I wonder?
I wonder if you can point out the genuine truthful girls that would be interested in me....
mastic55: A photo helps you to see what the person looks like and chatting can help you to get to know the person better. but you never know till you really know that person.
imelin: wow, I am not even getting a single response from my post! Can I assume that the answer is negative?
Sorry for the delay, some of us were sleeping or at church depending on your time zone. You might have to kiss a couple frogs before you find your prince. Best of luck to you.
bluskysbrowneyes: Sorry for the delay, some of us were sleeping or at church depending on your time zone. You might have to kiss a couple frogs before you find your prince. Best of luck to you.
Might want to use another word than frogs cause there might be some French people in here who might take offence
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For a decent mature woman who lives in any Asian countries, it's traditionally unacceptable to hang out at the bars especially if she does not drink alcohol.I find it extremely difficult to have the opportunity to meet someone of like-mindedness.
Are there really sincere,truthfully declared unmarried men who are genuine in seeking long term relationship on this site? Is photo one good way of pre-screening? I wonder?