When do we learn ? (74)
Hi Leo, oh it doesn't take long at all
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actually i don't think we ever learn
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morganlee: actually i don't think we ever learn
yeh i agree..
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morganlee: Hi Leo, oh it doesn't take long at all
I am a fool for passion and I'm hurting already.
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gentlepaws: I am a fool for passion and I'm hurting already.
If it helps you are not alone right now 
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morganlee: If it helps you are not alone right now
Thank you my dear.
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morganlee: actually i don't think we ever learn
I believe we don't.
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gentlepaws: Thank you my dear.
It makes me wonder, why we go back and keep doing it, sometimes l believe it is better to be alone .
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gentlepaws: What does one do when someone walks into your life, that turns you on, has many attributes, yet many negatives as well ? Especially when you've been in the desert without water for a long time. You measure the situation, you come up with the answer, "No". Passion gets in the way. Need and desire clouds logic.
How fast can you get from 0 to hurt ?
How fast can you get from 0 to hurt ?
Very fast, in an instant!
But if you won't risk, you won't win!
And you might find out you actually like the " negatives" you see now...or they might not be negatives any more!
I hope you enjoy the experience!
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morganlee: It makes me wonder, why we go back and keep doing
it, sometimes l believe it is better to be alone .
it, sometimes l believe it is better to be alone .
I was alone and made friends with it. Then someone entered my life and is now disturbing that peace.
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gentlepaws: What does one do when someone walks into your life, that turns you on, has many attributes, yet many negatives as well ? Especially when you've been in the desert without water for a long time. You measure the situation, you come up with the answer, "No". Passion gets in the way. Need and desire clouds logic.
How fast can you get from 0 to hurt ?
How fast can you get from 0 to hurt ?
Leo.... I say give it a chance and don't be afraid... we ALL have negatives... if you connect with someone.. on any level.. sound it out!!!... don't venture the physical until you have spent some time with them... ya never know.. maybe when you weigh the positive/negative balance you might end up with some credit in the account... all I know is you can't go through life expecting a person to have NO negatives.. if that were the case... I'm doomed
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Xtabentun: Very fast, in an instant!
But if you won't risk, you won't win!
And you might find out you actually like the " negatives" you see now...or they might not be negatives any more!
I hope you enjoy the experience!
But if you won't risk, you won't win!
And you might find out you actually like the " negatives" you see now...or they might not be negatives any more!
I hope you enjoy the experience!
I hope you're right, yet all my experience says, "Run away".
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Is it a matter of self confidence, a wanting to be loved and held with passion ?
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morganlee: It makes me wonder, why we go back and keep doing
it, sometimes l believe it is better to be alone .
it, sometimes l believe it is better to be alone .
Helloo Morgan
Yeah I lived with that view for yeeears. it IS easier.
I used to sit and watch my friends relationships.. . I'd watch them bickering and NOT having fun together when we were all out somewhere or whatever.. and I'd think.. PHEW!... it's not ME going throo all that crap.
me and my Chinese are going home to watch CSI.
Being single and unfeeling .. IS much easier. IMO.
Hellooo Leeee-ohhhhh
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Xtabentun: Very fast, in an instant!
But if you won't risk, you won't win!
And you might find out you actually like the " negatives" you see now...or they might not be negatives any more!
I hope you enjoy the experience!
But if you won't risk, you won't win!
And you might find out you actually like the " negatives" you see now...or they might not be negatives any more!
I hope you enjoy the experience!
Yups.. I do agree you should risk it.
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gentlepaws: I was alone and made friends with it. Then someone entered my life and is now disturbing that peace.
that's my point, i have lived here 18 months alone and felt relatively content, not in a selfish way. Let someone in begin to trust and then it's abused, is it worth it? or does there become a time when you really can't take it anymore ?------ This thread is Archived ------
gentlepaws: I am a fool for passion and I'm hurting already.
haha I'm like that.. a walking blimmin Disney fairytale
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Claayer: Helloo Morgan
Yeah I lived with that view for yeeears. it IS easier.
I used to sit and watch my friends relationships.. . I'd watch them bickering and NOT having fun together when we were all out somewhere or whatever.. and I'd think.. PHEW!... it's not ME going throo all that crap.
me and my Chinese are going home to watch CSI.
Being single and unfeeling .. IS much easier. IMO. Hellooo Leeee-ohhhhh
Yeah I lived with that view for yeeears. it IS easier.
I used to sit and watch my friends relationships.. . I'd watch them bickering and NOT having fun together when we were all out somewhere or whatever.. and I'd think.. PHEW!... it's not ME going throo all that crap.
me and my Chinese are going home to watch CSI.
Being single and unfeeling .. IS much easier. IMO. Hellooo Leeee-ohhhhh
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gentlepaws: I hope you're right, yet all my experience says, "Run away".
I know what you mean, I am quite the same lately....but i am working on changing and trying....i don't want to loose the chance by not knowing.....many times we're terrified when starting a relationship but allow yourself to enjoy it and get to know the person next to you with acceptance.
Open and you will receive!
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How fast can you get from 0 to hurt ?