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May 4, 2008 12:51 AM CST Our deepest fear.....
j_goose71
j_goose71j_goose71Over there, USA43 Threads 4 Polls 849 Posts
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.
Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.
We are all meant to shine as children do.
It’s not just in some of us; it is in everyone.
And as we let our own lights shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."

There is nother version of this, but I prefer this one. I think it's one of the more powerful quotes I've heard in a long time.

(I just watched "Coach Carter" for like the 100th time)
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May 4, 2008 1:01 AM CST Our deepest fear.....
HealthyLiving
HealthyLivingHealthyLivingSomewhere In, Tennessee USA527 Threads 2 Polls 4,775 Posts
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Awesome quote Jim!!!

So, let your light shine before all men! hug
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May 4, 2008 1:03 AM CST Our deepest fear.....
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
One of my favorite quotes, Jim. I also have Coach Carter. Great movie.
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May 4, 2008 1:04 AM CST Our deepest fear.....
Serenity1971
Serenity1971Serenity1971Serenity's Island, New York USA81 Threads 2 Polls 3,815 Posts
That's beautiful thumbs up thumbs up
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May 4, 2008 1:04 AM CST Our deepest fear.....
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
I understand that quote and agree with it whole heartedly.........great thread goose...hug cheers
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May 4, 2008 3:17 AM CST Our deepest fear.....
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
I love this quote too. I sometimes wonder if people find it difficult to let the light shine though. I know I often do.........confused
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May 4, 2008 3:22 AM CST Our deepest fear.....
j_goose71
j_goose71j_goose71Over there, USA43 Threads 4 Polls 849 Posts
gingerb: I love this quote too. I sometimes wonder if people find it difficult to let the light shine though. I know I often do.........


I think it's easier to shut down and pull into a shell than it is to shine. I know I've mastered that particular skill.
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May 4, 2008 3:51 AM CST Our deepest fear.....
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
j_goose71: I think it's easier to shut down and pull into a shell than it is to shine. I know I've mastered that particular skill.


In certain instances it took me a long time for me to even try to shine. My art being an example. Since I was very little, people have told me I was good at painting and drawing, but my fear of not meeting their expectations kept me from even trying to make it a career.

I worked at every expression around the topic, (interior design, clothes design, crafts, etc), but never actually did fine art as a subject until a few years ago. As it turned out I was ok and did fine, but not knowing that I could do it, made me feel somehow that I would lose face with myself if I failed, and therefore never tried, except in secret.

Same with my writing. It was kind of like it was too important to who I thought I was, to fail, because then I'd have to re-define myself from the base out. All of this coloured how I acted and reacted to people and how I led my life. It was like a weight I always carried.

That is not to say I define myself by what I do, but more by what way I think and how I express that.

I'm glad I found the courage to face that and free myself.
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May 4, 2008 4:04 AM CST Our deepest fear.....
j_goose71
j_goose71j_goose71Over there, USA43 Threads 4 Polls 849 Posts
gingerb: In certain instances it took me a long time for me to even try to shine. My art being an example. Since I was very little, people have told me I was good at painting and drawing, but my fear of not meeting their expectations kept me from even trying to make it a career.

I worked at every expression around the topic, (interior design, clothes design, crafts, etc), but never actually did fine art as a subject until a few years ago. As it turned out I was ok and did fine, but not knowing that I could do it, made me feel somehow that I would lose face with myself if I failed, and therefore never tried, except in secret.

Same with my writing. It was kind of like it was too important to who I thought I was, to fail, because then I'd have to re-define myself from the base out. All of this coloured how I acted and reacted to people and how I led my life. It was like a weight I always carried.

That is not to say I define myself by what I do, but more by what way I think and how I express that.

I'm glad I found the courage to face that and free myself.


I was often ridiculed by family, peers, and school faculty for my writing. I once did a paper where I built up to my thesis with a great deal of introductory work rather that state it at the beginning. I wanted to provide the reader with the thesis the same way it was presented to me-searching and deciphering information. I was trying to prove my thesis before it was stated. It was an intellectual risk that I thought was a good idea, but it didn't follow standard form and couldn't be assessed by the standard rubric, so I got a 'D'.

I wrote a novella that was poked fun of by a professor. I recently lengthened it into a full scale novel and am submitting it to a publisher. I write differently than most, and to let others read it is a real deep look into who I really am. Putting it in the view of the Public was a huge step for me.
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May 4, 2008 4:04 AM CST Our deepest fear.....
j_goose71
j_goose71j_goose71Over there, USA43 Threads 4 Polls 849 Posts
gingerb: In certain instances it took me a long time for me to even try to shine. My art being an example. Since I was very little, people have told me I was good at painting and drawing, but my fear of not meeting their expectations kept me from even trying to make it a career.

I worked at every expression around the topic, (interior design, clothes design, crafts, etc), but never actually did fine art as a subject until a few years ago. As it turned out I was ok and did fine, but not knowing that I could do it, made me feel somehow that I would lose face with myself if I failed, and therefore never tried, except in secret.

Same with my writing. It was kind of like it was too important to who I thought I was, to fail, because then I'd have to re-define myself from the base out. All of this coloured how I acted and reacted to people and how I led my life. It was like a weight I always carried.

That is not to say I define myself by what I do, but more by what way I think and how I express that.

I'm glad I found the courage to face that and free myself.


I was often ridiculed by family, peers, and school faculty for my writing. I once did a paper where I built up to my thesis with a great deal of introductory work rather that state it at the beginning. I wanted to provide the reader with the thesis the same way it was presented to me-searching and deciphering information. I was trying to prove my thesis before it was stated. It was an intellectual risk that I thought was a good idea, but it didn't follow standard form and couldn't be assessed by the standard rubric, so I got a 'D'.

I wrote a novella that was poked fun of by a professor. I recently lengthened it into a full scale novel and am submitting it to a publisher. I write differently than most, and to let others read it is a real deep look into who I really am. Putting it in the view of the Public was a huge step for me.
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May 4, 2008 4:08 AM CST Our deepest fear.....
RobbieM
RobbieMRobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK115 Threads 6 Polls 4,553 Posts
My deepest fear.Going on a night out on the town, having an alcohol induced memory blackout and waking up between Rosanne Barr And John Goodman and seeing Jerry Springer and a video camera at the bottom of the bed, yelling "cut".

If that is not hell personified i don't know what is.
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May 4, 2008 4:12 AM CST Our deepest fear.....
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
Lovely!!! thumbs up Certainly gives one something to think about.... I think I will remember this one!!
cheers

teddybear
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May 4, 2008 4:56 AM CST Our deepest fear.....
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
j_goose71: I was often ridiculed by family, peers, and school faculty for my writing. I once did a paper where I built up to my thesis with a great deal of introductory work rather that state it at the beginning. I wanted to provide the reader with the thesis the same way it was presented to me-searching and deciphering information. I was trying to prove my thesis before it was stated. It was an intellectual risk that I thought was a good idea, but it didn't follow standard form and couldn't be assessed by the standard rubric, so I got a 'D'.

I wrote a novella that was poked fun of by a professor. I recently lengthened it into a full scale novel and am submitting it to a publisher. I write differently than most, and to let others read it is a real deep look into who I really am. Putting it in the view of the Public was a huge step for me.


I think that being ridiculed has a great deal to do with how we eventually see ourselves and whether we shine or not.......
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May 4, 2008 4:59 AM CST Our deepest fear.....
Zarah
ZarahZarahdublin, Dublin Ireland28 Threads 1,388 Posts
Sometimes people are as scared of success as they are of failure..
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May 4, 2008 5:01 AM CST Our deepest fear.....
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
j_goose71: "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.
Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.
We are all meant to shine as children do.
It’s not just in some of us; it is in everyone.
And as we let our own lights shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."

There is nother version of this, but I prefer this one. I think it's one of the more powerful quotes I've heard in a long time.

(I just watched "Coach Carter" for like the 100th time)




Nice one Jim thumbs up
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May 4, 2008 5:06 AM CST Our deepest fear.....
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
Zarah: Sometimes people are as scared of success as they are of failure..


Even more so I think. Imagine if all your dreams came true? The fear, I think, is that we mightn't be ourselves.... We'd have to change a lot of things and change is maybe what we are most afraid of.
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May 4, 2008 5:10 AM CST Our deepest fear.....
Zarah
ZarahZarahdublin, Dublin Ireland28 Threads 1,388 Posts
gingerb: Even more so I think. Imagine if all your dreams came true? The fear, I think, is that we mightn't be ourselves.... We'd have to change a lot of things and change is maybe what we are most afraid of.


My son is so clever..yet he is also extremely shy so he holds himself back academically throwing himself just far enough in the shadows..but not too far to be distinctive negatively...
Yes some people I know are so very talented creatively but wish not for any credibility..staying in ones comfort zone is certainly easier.
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May 4, 2008 5:16 AM CST Our deepest fear.....
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
Zarah: My son is so clever..yet he is also extremely shy so he holds himself back academically throwing himself just far enough in the shadows..but not too far to be distinctive negatively...
Yes some people I know are so very talented creatively but wish not for any credibility..staying in ones comfort zone is certainly easier.


My son is a bit like that too. He runs two businesses but if you talked to him, he plays down what he does all the time. He is reserved and shy and unless asked he won't even tell anyone what he does. He has be programming computers since he was 5 yrs old and has a 163 IQ.

For him it is more important to "fit in" and stay on the periphery.
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May 4, 2008 5:19 AM CST Our deepest fear.....
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
j_goose71: "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.
Your playing small does not serve the world.
There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.
We are all meant to shine as children do.
It’s not just in some of us; it is in everyone.
And as we let our own lights shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."

There is nother version of this, but I prefer this one. I think it's one of the more powerful quotes I've heard in a long time.

(I just watched "Coach Carter" for like the 100th time)


Our life isn't our own it belongs to other people
That colourful array of sounds is our reason for being
Dont look to the dark side, look to the light
it is the signature of every picture..

That quote is what I believe.. I believe the the world conspires to seperate us.. to instil fear.. together.. if we permit ourselves to see the good in each other and abandon fear.. we are a formidable strength

cheers
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May 4, 2008 5:22 AM CST Our deepest fear.....
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
gingerb: My son is a bit like that too. He runs two businesses but if you talked to him, he plays down what he does all the time. He is reserved and shy and unless asked he won't even tell anyone what he does. He has be programming computers since he was 5 yrs old and has a 163 IQ.

For him it is more important to "fit in" and stay on the periphery.


Their humility is admirable... humble people have an inner strength and self confidence which speaks in louder volumes than arrogance...

They are fortunate to have been blessed with the gifts they have, but they also have the wisdom to know that it is not these 'gifts' that make the person

hug
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