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May 7, 2008 10:56 PM CST I need honest advice
Gemini73
Gemini73Gemini73ATLANTA, Georgia USA1 Threads 19 Posts
Hello, I'm posting here because I am not doing so well in dating, either in person or online, so there has to be something fundamentally wrong with me, or with my approach. I would like some honest feedback here to help me improve/change whatever it is that I'm doing wrong. If it's just me, and I'm butt ugly and have a bad personality then I can live with that too, but I need to know what it is that makes me so undesireable to women. I haven't been on a date in over three months, with me trying to get a date. If I just knew what it was that was driving the girls away, maybe I could get some peace.
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May 7, 2008 10:58 PM CST I need honest advice
Gemini73: Hello, I'm posting here because I am not doing so well in dating, either in person or online, so there has to be something fundamentally wrong with me, or with my approach. I would like some honest feedback here to help me improve/change whatever it is that I'm doing wrong. If it's just me, and I'm butt ugly and have a bad personality then I can live with that too, but I need to know what it is that makes me so undesireable to women. I haven't been on a date in over three months, with me trying to get a date. If I just knew what it was that was driving the girls away, maybe I could get some peace.



I would be able to give you advice on that, I haven't met you! how about asking the people you've been out with?

dating and finding "the right" one is not as easy as it seems, I'm afraid. We're all more or less in the same boat here.
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May 7, 2008 10:58 PM CST I need honest advice
dragonfly88: I would be able to give you advice on that, I haven't met you! how about asking the people you've been out with?

dating and finding "the right" one is not as easy as it seems, I'm afraid. We're all more or less in the same boat here.


sorry, I meant, woulnd't be able to
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May 7, 2008 10:59 PM CST I need honest advice
mhawkins
mhawkinsmhawkinsChatsworth, Georgia USA7 Threads 36 Posts
Don't be anyone that you are not. be yourself and you will find the one that is right for you ...thumbs up
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May 7, 2008 10:59 PM CST I need honest advice
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
i think i ask people i know

dunno

with no frame of reference or experience of you...
what could we say?

just what i think

confused


best to you
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May 7, 2008 10:59 PM CST I need honest advice
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
I reckon you should just relax. It will happen when the time is right. Have confidence in yourself and this will come across to others.

Maybe you're coming across as desperate, meaning desperate to get into a relationshipdunnowine
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May 7, 2008 11:02 PM CST I need honest advice
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
sxc666: I reckon you should just relax. It will happen when the time is right. Have confidence in yourself and this will come across to others.

Maybe you're coming across as desperate, meaning desperate to get into a relationship


thumbs up thumbs up

Also, stop going for the 5 run homerun in every at bat. Take some pitches....use the whole field meat...
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May 7, 2008 11:07 PM CST I need honest advice
Gemini73
Gemini73Gemini73ATLANTA, Georgia USA1 Threads 19 Posts
dragonfly88: I would be able to give you advice on that, I haven't met you! how about asking the people you've been out with?

dating and finding "the right" one is not as easy as it seems, I'm afraid. We're all more or less in the same boat here.


Thanks for your reply. If I'm understanding you right, I have to date someone to get feedback on why no one is interested in me online. I don't think that will ever happen since I haven't been able to get a date. : )
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May 7, 2008 11:10 PM CST I need honest advice
Gemini73
Gemini73Gemini73ATLANTA, Georgia USA1 Threads 19 Posts
sxc666: I reckon you should just relax. It will happen when the time is right. Have confidence in yourself and this will come across to others.

Maybe you're coming across as desperate, meaning desperate to get into a relationship


Your cute. : ) Ahh desperate. I'm not sure if I come accross desperate. What does that look like to you?
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May 7, 2008 11:14 PM CST I need honest advice
kkitty
kkittykkittyMinnesota, USA17 Threads 4 Polls 1,055 Posts
Gemini73: Your cute. : ) Ahh desperate. I'm not sure if I come accross desperate. What does that look like to you?


I think that maybe you might just be a little hot tempered dont you?dunno
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May 7, 2008 11:14 PM CST I need honest advice
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
Gemini73: Your cute. : ) Ahh desperate. I'm not sure if I come accross desperate. What does that look like to you?


Women do say they hate being called cute
dunno

It's all in the approach brotha....back off the plate a bit. Choke up on the bat with a relaxed grip. Sit on the fastball and adjust to the off speed pitches.
Hope that helps partner.
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May 7, 2008 11:16 PM CST I need honest advice
Gemini73
Gemini73Gemini73ATLANTA, Georgia USA1 Threads 19 Posts
kkitty: I think that maybe you might just be a little hot tempered dont you?


What???? Why would you say that? confused confused
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May 7, 2008 11:16 PM CST I need honest advice
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
It means heavy talk straight, coming on way to strong before you get to know a person.

Friends first is my motto if anything is mean't to be it will follow after that.wine
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May 7, 2008 11:16 PM CST I need honest advice
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
straight up that is frustrated
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May 7, 2008 11:17 PM CST I need honest advice
Gemini73
Gemini73Gemini73ATLANTA, Georgia USA1 Threads 19 Posts
StressFree: Women do say they hate being called cute


It's all in the approach brotha....back off the plate a bit. Choke up on the bat with a relaxed grip. Sit on the fastball and adjust to the off speed pitches.
Hope that helps partner.


Thanks. No more calling them cute. : )
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May 7, 2008 11:17 PM CST I need honest advice
kkitty
kkittykkittyMinnesota, USA17 Threads 4 Polls 1,055 Posts
StressFree: Women do say they hate being called cute


It's all in the approach brotha....back off the plate a bit. Choke up on the bat with a relaxed grip. Sit on the fastball and adjust to the off speed pitches.
Hope that helps partner.



no sorry i love being called cute blushing
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May 7, 2008 11:17 PM CST I need honest advice
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
I've always found that a healthy bank account helps!!grin
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May 7, 2008 11:18 PM CST I need honest advice
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
kkitty: no sorry i love being called cute


liar


sxc666: straight up that is


you mean like beattheman?
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May 7, 2008 11:19 PM CST I need honest advice
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
shipoker55: I've always found that a healthy bank account helps!!


or penile surgery
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May 7, 2008 11:19 PM CST I need honest advice
kkitty
kkittykkittyMinnesota, USA17 Threads 4 Polls 1,055 Posts
shipoker55: I've always found that a healthy bank account helps!!



rolling on the floor laughing tongue rolling on the floor laughing
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