cristinaOPLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
I was just thinking that people are the most important thing in life because only from their touch you get love. There are those who have chosen to live life away from mingling with people, away from communicating, because they thought they had everything, they really didn't need to socialise.
After years, after getting old, doesn't it hurt to have chosen to be that way? Doesnt it hurt to only trust and love yourself?
cristina: I was just thinking that people are the most important thing in life because only from their touch you get love. There are those who have chosen to live life away from mingling with people, away from communicating, because they thought they had everything, they really didn't need to socialise.
After years, after getting old, doesn't it hurt to have chosen to be that way? Doesnt it hurt to only trust and love yourself?
How good are you interacting with people?
This is one of my personal gifts. I am an exceptional listener, and can generally give most people good, sound advice.
cristina: I was just thinking that people are the most important thing in life because only from their touch you get love. There are those who have chosen to live life away from mingling with people, away from communicating, because they thought they had everything, they really didn't need to socialise.
After years, after getting old, doesn't it hurt to have chosen to be that way? Doesnt it hurt to only trust and love yourself?
cristina: I was just thinking that people are the most important thing in life because only from their touch you get love. There are those who have chosen to live life away from mingling with people, away from communicating, because they thought they had everything, they really didn't need to socialise.
After years, after getting old, doesn't it hurt to have chosen to be that way? Doesnt it hurt to only trust and love yourself?
How good are you interacting with people?
I am very good at interacting with people. In my line of work I meet all sorts of people and I do get along with most. I make friends very easily and it hurts me to think of those who simply choose not to interact. Relationships are risky and you can get hurt but one cannot go through life without some sort of risk. JMO
cristina: I was just thinking that people are the most important thing in life because only from their touch you get love. There are those who have chosen to live life away from mingling with people, away from communicating, because they thought they had everything, they really didn't need to socialise.
After years, after getting old, doesn't it hurt to have chosen to be that way? Doesnt it hurt to only trust and love yourself?
How good are you interacting with people?
Hiya Christina.... I can be good... in that I am friendly and non-judgmental... however I can also be a little shy and clumsy... like in large gatherings etc.. I prefer being with smaller group of people.. how bout you?
It was rhetorical, not meant to be a broad generalization, just meant to convey a point. Only those looking to be offended or be a victim act like offended victims. I am neither, nor should you be.
perhaps I am wrong to do this... but I have so many great 30 something friends with everything going for them...looks, career, personality.. everything.. who either find it difficult to find someone or who get messed around... It seems to me that a shift in power occurs between men and woment between the 20's and 30's in our twenties, when they are falling all over us, we don't appreciate them, and then when we are ready to finally appreciate them, they are moping over the 20's who are treating them like crap... I of course may be completely off the mark.. but it just seems to be the way it is... .. maybe I am getting cynical...
cristina: I was just thinking that people are the most important thing in life because only from their touch you get love. There are those who have chosen to live life away from mingling with people, away from communicating, because they thought they had everything, they really didn't need to socialise.
After years, after getting old, doesn't it hurt to have chosen to be that way? Doesnt it hurt to only trust and love yourself?
How good are you interacting with people?
hello if you told me ten years ago that when i chose to stay away and not mingle with people i would have said you were crazy but now that im getting older i seem to think i should have kept in touch with everyone i knew. i dont have a problem communicating with anyone. in fact i am usually the life of the party. the older i get the more intolerant i get when i see stupidity. when i was younger i would try to teach people, now i dont care. im not saying thats a good thing. thats the way it. have a great day.
iXofTO: It was rhetorical, not meant to be a broad generalization, just meant to convey a point. Only those looking to be offended or be a victim act like offended victims. I am neither, nor should you be.
You sound offended i asked why Aries generalised, ironic.
It was a question, not an admission.
In regard to Aries' post, i have heard lots of women in their thirties, admit to wanting nothing but excitement, because they've been in numerous serious relationships that didn't work.
Aries01: perhaps I am wrong to do this... but I have so many great 30 something friends with everything going for them...looks, career, personality.. everything.. who either find it difficult to find someone or who get messed around... It seems to me that a shift in power occurs between men and woment between the 20's and 30's in our twenties, when they are falling all over us, we don't appreciate them, and then when we are ready to finally appreciate them, they are moping over the 20's who are treating them like crap... I of course may be completely off the mark.. but it just seems to be the way it is... .. maybe I am getting cynical...
I don't think you're cynical, we just know different people.
lusciousmile: You sound offended i asked why Aries generalised, ironic. It was a question, not an admission. In regard to Aries' post, i have heard lots of women in their thirties, admit to wanting nothing but excitement, because they've been in numerous serious relationships that didn't work.
Okay, if you say I sound offended, then it must be. Whatever. I have neither the time nor the patience for someone looking to be contentious rather than engage in intelligent exchange of opinions.
Thanks to the others of you who have been egregious and forhcoming!
iXofTO: Okay, if you say I sound offended, then it must be. Whatever. I have neither the time nor the patience for someone looking to be contentious rather than engage in intelligent exchange of opinions.
Thanks to the others of you who have been egregious and forhcoming!
lusciousmile: You sound offended i asked why Aries generalised, ironic. It was a question, not an admission. In regard to Aries' post, i have heard lots of women in their thirties, admit to wanting nothing but excitement, because they've been in numerous serious relationships that didn't work.
i think men and women should want exscitement and trouble while they are young and learn then instead of going through serious relationships and then regretting them. i am so glad i was in trouble and experiences relationships when i was young because now i know better. where i live i know lots of well off women that want excitement even if they ruin their lives because they never been through it when they were young what a shame.
iXofTO: Okay, if you say I sound offended, then it must be. Whatever. I have neither the time nor the patience for someone looking to be contentious rather than engage in intelligent exchange of opinions.
Thanks to the others of you who have been egregious and forhcoming!
Asking a small question, already makes me a candidate to your superior powers of sorting intelligence from crap?
Dude, you've been here for what, a day and think you know me?
You are the only one offended on this thread, by the way! The rest of us have been having conversations for ages. Aries is a friend of mine so quit with the
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
cristina: I was just thinking that people are the most important thing in life because only from their touch you get love. There are those who have chosen to live life away from mingling with people, away from communicating, because they thought they had everything, they really didn't need to socialise.
After years, after getting old, doesn't it hurt to have chosen to be that way? Doesnt it hurt to only trust and love yourself?
How good are you interacting with people?
I think I faaaairly good at interacting with people.. I need it a lot in my job.. and often (usually) need to build a firm bond of trust asap... Well their trust in ME at least.
But in my private life I often choose to be quite anti social.
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There are those who have chosen to live life away from mingling with people, away from communicating, because they thought they had everything, they really didn't need to socialise.
After years, after getting old, doesn't it hurt to have chosen to be that way? Doesnt it hurt to only trust and love yourself?
How good are you interacting with people?