For the girls, If you meet a guy that you liked but ( Archived) (46)

May 25, 2008 9:22 AM CST For the girls, If you meet a guy that you liked but
jus_4you
jus_4youjus_4youpleasantville, New Jersey USA62 Threads 676 Posts
found out he has three small kids would you run in the other direction.

I can see if you didn`t have kids or yours are grown and left the nest.
------ This thread is Archived ------
May 25, 2008 9:23 AM CST For the girls, If you meet a guy that you liked but
classicrockgirl
classicrockgirlclassicrockgirlInverness, Florida USA12 Threads 2,414 Posts
Yes if they were really small. If they are over 12 may stick around. My youngest is 19, done my time with the little ones.
------ This thread is Archived ------
May 25, 2008 9:27 AM CST For the girls, If you meet a guy that you liked but
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
jus_4you: found out he has three small kids would you run in the other direction.

I can see if you didn`t have kids or yours are grown and left the nest.


well I have children of my own.. but it wouldn't bother me how old someone else's were.. or how many.



wave hug
------ This thread is Archived ------
May 25, 2008 9:28 AM CST For the girls, If you meet a guy that you liked but
freespirit22
freespirit22freespirit22kildare, Kildare Ireland1 Threads 32 Posts
jus_4you: found out he has three small kids would you run in the other direction.

I can see if you didn`t have kids or yours are grown and left the nest.
:
wave
I dont think I would run the other way, if I really liked the person , that would mean I would make an effort to welcome all who is in that persons life, its only fair !
------ This thread is Archived ------
May 25, 2008 9:32 AM CST For the girls, If you meet a guy that you liked but
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
Claayer: well I have children of my own.. but it wouldn't bother me how old someone else's were.. or how many.
My ex husband had 4 children ranging from 6yrs to 16yrs, i was 21yrs, i had great fun with them at at sometime had them live with us, normally when they were going tho a difficult time. The older ones were like a brother and sister to me, the younger ones got me in practice for when my 2 came along
------ This thread is Archived ------
May 25, 2008 9:36 AM CST For the girls, If you meet a guy that you liked but
jus_4you
jus_4youjus_4youpleasantville, New Jersey USA62 Threads 676 Posts
Claayer: well I have children of my own.. but it wouldn't bother me how old someone else's were.. or how many.
and i thought i was screwed as far as meeting girls with my pack of little ones
------ This thread is Archived ------
May 25, 2008 9:37 AM CST For the girls, If you meet a guy that you liked but
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
morganlee: My ex husband had 4 children ranging from 6yrs to 16yrs, i was 21yrs, i had great fun with them at at sometime had them live with us, normally when they were going tho a difficult time. The older ones were like a brother and sister to me, the younger ones got me in practice for when my 2 came along


Wooo.. I bet that was a lot to take on at the time though.. a bit of an eye opened for you back then.. laugh
------ This thread is Archived ------
May 25, 2008 9:38 AM CST For the girls, If you meet a guy that you liked but
allready
allreadyallreadyportland, Oregon USA32 Threads 431 Posts
There is a big grey area when you marry someone with young children. I know because my dsughter did. This child is so bad, she is spoiled and daddy lets her do what she wants. He believes in giving her everything that way he doesent have to deal with it. This has been going on for 2yrs now. My daughter is sick of it, she has no say in the matter, She is not trying to be the mother. The mother is sick in the head. And my daughter is backing out of this marriage for good. He tell her not to go so everytime she stays. But not this time...moping dunno doh
------ This thread is Archived ------
May 25, 2008 9:38 AM CST For the girls, If you meet a guy that you liked but
allready
allreadyallreadyportland, Oregon USA32 Threads 431 Posts
There is a big grey area when you marry someone with young children. I know because my dsughter did. This child is so bad, she is spoiled and daddy lets her do what she wants. He believes in giving her everything that way he doesent have to deal with it. This has been going on for 2yrs now. My daughter is sick of it, she has no say in the matter, She is not trying to be the mother. The mother is sick in the head. And my daughter is backing out of this marriage for good. He tell her not to go so everytime she stays. But not this time...moping dunno doh
------ This thread is Archived ------
May 25, 2008 9:38 AM CST For the girls, If you meet a guy that you liked but
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
morganlee: My ex husband had 4 children ranging from 6yrs to 16yrs, i was 21yrs, i had great fun with them at at sometime had them live with us, normally when they were going tho a difficult time. The older ones were like a brother and sister to me, the younger ones got me in practice for when my 2 came along


Wooo.. I bet that was a lot to take on at the time though.. a bit of an eye opened for you back then.. laugh


hug
------ This thread is Archived ------
May 25, 2008 9:38 AM CST For the girls, If you meet a guy that you liked but
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
gawwd.. flippin browser.. hahaha

OPENER*
------ This thread is Archived ------
May 25, 2008 9:38 AM CST For the girls, If you meet a guy that you liked but
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
jus_4you: and i thought i was screwed as far as meeting girls with my pack of little ones


Nahhh.. wine
------ This thread is Archived ------
May 25, 2008 9:39 AM CST For the girls, If you meet a guy that you liked but
jus_4you
jus_4youjus_4youpleasantville, New Jersey USA62 Threads 676 Posts
Claayer: well I have children of my own.. but it wouldn't bother me how old someone else's were.. or how many.
i can always count on you claire
------ This thread is Archived ------
May 25, 2008 9:42 AM CST For the girls, If you meet a guy that you liked but
bluebelle4000
bluebelle4000bluebelle4000Meath, Ireland46 Threads 6,001 Posts
jus_4you: and i thought i was screwed as far as meeting girls with my pack of little ones


No way of course not.... they are a part of you............ hug
------ This thread is Archived ------
May 25, 2008 9:44 AM CST For the girls, If you meet a guy that you liked but
jus_4you
jus_4youjus_4youpleasantville, New Jersey USA62 Threads 676 Posts
allready: There is a big grey area when you marry someone with young children. I know because my dsughter did. This child is so bad, she is spoiled and daddy lets her do what she wants. He believes in giving her everything that way he doesent have to deal with it. This has been going on for 2yrs now. My daughter is sick of it, she has no say in the matter, She is not trying to be the mother. The mother is sick in the head. And my daughter is backing out of this marriage for good. He tell her not to go so everytime she stays. But not this time...
i too have a three year old daughter but so far she not spoiled, but good point
------ This thread is Archived ------
May 25, 2008 9:44 AM CST For the girls, If you meet a guy that you liked but
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
i dont find it a problem as i have 8 and Jim has 4 they all age from 26 down to nearly 4 years but we have not let that stop us from being happy with each other......I think if a person has an issue with the other having kids well that relationship is doomed from the start.....as kids are kids and need us to look out for them...as the song goes ......"love me, love my dog" in my case it love my pack......rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
------ This thread is Archived ------
May 25, 2008 9:48 AM CST For the girls, If you meet a guy that you liked but
jus_4you
jus_4youjus_4youpleasantville, New Jersey USA62 Threads 676 Posts
hey classicrockgirl haven`t herd from you in a while
------ This thread is Archived ------
May 25, 2008 9:51 AM CST For the girls, If you meet a guy that you liked but
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
Claayer: Wooo.. I bet that was a lot to take on at the time though.. a bit of an eye opened for you back then..
It was laugh especially as i was an only child !
------ This thread is Archived ------
May 25, 2008 9:51 AM CST For the girls, If you meet a guy that you liked but
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
allready: There is a big grey area when you marry someone with young children. I know because my dsughter did. This child is so bad, she is spoiled and daddy lets her do what she wants. He believes in giving her everything that way he doesent have to deal with it. This has been going on for 2yrs now. My daughter is sick of it, she has no say in the matter, She is not trying to be the mother. The mother is sick in the head. And my daughter is backing out of this marriage for good. He tell her not to go so everytime she stays. But not this time...


Hmm yeah.. that's always gonna be risk when taking on other peoples children.. how much you can and cant say.. how much input you have.. if you are backed up.. or put aside etc.

It cant be easy for anyone involved when its like that.



wave hug
------ This thread is Archived ------
May 25, 2008 9:51 AM CST For the girls, If you meet a guy that you liked but
jus_4you
jus_4youjus_4youpleasantville, New Jersey USA62 Threads 676 Posts
WOW together you`s have 12 kids and your happy together thats awsome
------ This thread is Archived ------
Post Comment - Post a comment on this Forum Thread

This Thread is Archived

This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.

« Go back to All Threads
Message #318

Stats for this Thread

1,260 Views
45 Comments
by jus_4you (62 Threads)
Created: May 2008
Last Viewed: Apr 17
Last Commented: May 2008

Share this Thread

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here