jus_4you: found out he has three small kids would you run in the other direction.
I can see if you didn`t have kids or yours are grown and left the nest.
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I dont think I would run the other way, if I really liked the person , that would mean I would make an effort to welcome all who is in that persons life, its only fair !
Claayer: well I have children of my own.. but it wouldn't bother me how old someone else's were.. or how many.
My ex husband had 4 children ranging from 6yrs to 16yrs, i was 21yrs, i had great fun with them at at sometime had them live with us, normally when they were going tho a difficult time. The older ones were like a brother and sister to me, the younger ones got me in practice for when my 2 came along
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
morganlee: My ex husband had 4 children ranging from 6yrs to 16yrs, i was 21yrs, i had great fun with them at at sometime had them live with us, normally when they were going tho a difficult time. The older ones were like a brother and sister to me, the younger ones got me in practice for when my 2 came along
Wooo.. I bet that was a lot to take on at the time though.. a bit of an eye opened for you back then..
There is a big grey area when you marry someone with young children. I know because my dsughter did. This child is so bad, she is spoiled and daddy lets her do what she wants. He believes in giving her everything that way he doesent have to deal with it. This has been going on for 2yrs now. My daughter is sick of it, she has no say in the matter, She is not trying to be the mother. The mother is sick in the head. And my daughter is backing out of this marriage for good. He tell her not to go so everytime she stays. But not this time...
There is a big grey area when you marry someone with young children. I know because my dsughter did. This child is so bad, she is spoiled and daddy lets her do what she wants. He believes in giving her everything that way he doesent have to deal with it. This has been going on for 2yrs now. My daughter is sick of it, she has no say in the matter, She is not trying to be the mother. The mother is sick in the head. And my daughter is backing out of this marriage for good. He tell her not to go so everytime she stays. But not this time...
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
morganlee: My ex husband had 4 children ranging from 6yrs to 16yrs, i was 21yrs, i had great fun with them at at sometime had them live with us, normally when they were going tho a difficult time. The older ones were like a brother and sister to me, the younger ones got me in practice for when my 2 came along
Wooo.. I bet that was a lot to take on at the time though.. a bit of an eye opened for you back then..
allready: There is a big grey area when you marry someone with young children. I know because my dsughter did. This child is so bad, she is spoiled and daddy lets her do what she wants. He believes in giving her everything that way he doesent have to deal with it. This has been going on for 2yrs now. My daughter is sick of it, she has no say in the matter, She is not trying to be the mother. The mother is sick in the head. And my daughter is backing out of this marriage for good. He tell her not to go so everytime she stays. But not this time...
i too have a three year old daughter but so far she not spoiled, but good point
i dont find it a problem as i have 8 and Jim has 4 they all age from 26 down to nearly 4 years but we have not let that stop us from being happy with each other......I think if a person has an issue with the other having kids well that relationship is doomed from the start.....as kids are kids and need us to look out for them...as the song goes ......"love me, love my dog" in my case it love my pack......
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
allready: There is a big grey area when you marry someone with young children. I know because my dsughter did. This child is so bad, she is spoiled and daddy lets her do what she wants. He believes in giving her everything that way he doesent have to deal with it. This has been going on for 2yrs now. My daughter is sick of it, she has no say in the matter, She is not trying to be the mother. The mother is sick in the head. And my daughter is backing out of this marriage for good. He tell her not to go so everytime she stays. But not this time...
Hmm yeah.. that's always gonna be risk when taking on other peoples children.. how much you can and cant say.. how much input you have.. if you are backed up.. or put aside etc.
It cant be easy for anyone involved when its like that.
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I can see if you didn`t have kids or yours are grown and left the nest.