When muddy waters stand, they become clear.. ( Archived) (11)

May 29, 2008 11:34 AM CST When muddy waters stand, they become clear..
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
A group of friends went swimming one day and one of them lost a ring in the bottom of the lake.

Everyone started diving from different directions to find it until there was so much mud and sand stirred up that no one could see anything. Finally, they decided to clear the water. They waited silently on the edge of the shore for the mud from all their activity to settle. When it finally cleared, one person dove in slowly and picked up the ring.

When we are confused about something in our lives, we will often hear answers and advice from all directions. Our friends will tell us one thing and our families another, until we feel pretty well mixed up. If we look away from our problem and let patience and time do their work, the mud inside us will settle and clear. Our answer will become visible, like the glimmer of silver in the water.

Am I overlooking the simple solution?
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May 29, 2008 11:37 AM CST When muddy waters stand, they become clear..
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
HJFinAZ: A group of friends went swimming one day and one of them lost a ring in the bottom of the lake.

Everyone started diving from different directions to find it until there was so much mud and sand stirred up that no one could see anything. Finally, they decided to clear the water. They waited silently on the edge of the shore for the mud from all their activity to settle. When it finally cleared, one person dove in slowly and picked up the ring.

When we are confused about something in our lives, we will often hear answers and advice from all directions. Our friends will tell us one thing and our families another, until we feel pretty well mixed up. If we look away from our problem and let patience and time do their work, the mud inside us will settle and clear. Our answer will become visible, like the glimmer of silver in the water.

Am I overlooking the simple solution?



True...It's always us that muddies the waters by complicating things instead of seeing things as they really are...Simple.....thumbs up
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May 29, 2008 11:39 AM CST When muddy waters stand, they become clear..
Xtabentun
XtabentunXtabentunOntario, Canada18 Threads 1,722 Posts
We usually are overlooking the simple solutions, I think most of us have the ability to complicate things when they shouldn't.
But if we take some time and capture everything, process it...we might find out the simple solution was so obvious , right under our nose....
I think by default, I usually expect things to be complicated....I am working on accepting them to be simple and go smoothly...
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May 29, 2008 11:55 AM CST When muddy waters stand, they become clear..
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
Xtabentun: We usually are overlooking the simple solutions, I think most of us have the ability to complicate things when they shouldn't.
But if we take some time and capture everything, process it...we might find out the simple solution was so obvious , right under our nose....
I think by default, I usually expect things to be complicated....I am working on accepting them to be simple and go smoothly...


wave

Hi Xhug
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May 29, 2008 12:04 PM CST When muddy waters stand, they become clear..
HJFinAZ: A group of friends went swimming one day and one of them lost a ring in the bottom of the lake.

Everyone started diving from different directions to find it until there was so much mud and sand stirred up that no one could see anything. Finally, they decided to clear the water. They waited silently on the edge of the shore for the mud from all their activity to settle. When it finally cleared, one person dove in slowly and picked up the ring.

When we are confused about something in our lives, we will often hear answers and advice from all directions. Our friends will tell us one thing and our families another, until we feel pretty well mixed up. If we look away from our problem and let patience and time do their work, the mud inside us will settle and clear. Our answer will become visible, like the glimmer of silver in the water.

Am I overlooking the simple solution?
Don't think you're overlooking it! thumbs up
It's just like that if you wanna hear,you've got to listen,and to listen,you have to be QUIET!conversing wave thumbs up
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May 29, 2008 12:11 PM CST When muddy waters stand, they become clear..
HJFinAZ: A group of friends went swimming one day and one of them lost a ring in the bottom of the lake.

Everyone started diving from different directions to find it until there was so much mud and sand stirred up that no one could see anything. Finally, they decided to clear the water. They waited silently on the edge of the shore for the mud from all their activity to settle. When it finally cleared, one person dove in slowly and picked up the ring.

When we are confused about something in our lives, we will often hear answers and advice from all directions. Our friends will tell us one thing and our families another, until we feel pretty well mixed up. If we look away from our problem and let patience and time do their work, the mud inside us will settle and clear. Our answer will become visible, like the glimmer of silver in the water.

Am I overlooking the simple solution?
Good Friend of mine,Paul Y. always used to say:You've got to apply the KISS-Principle more and things become much clearer.
Keep It Simple..........
Wonder where he is drinking his Coffee nowdaydream

conversing wave
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Jun 19, 2008 11:43 AM CST When muddy waters stand, they become clear..
alex_192
alex_192alex_192sarasota, USA38 Threads 1,271 Posts
HJFinAZ: A group of friends went swimming one day and one of them lost a ring in the bottom of the lake.

Everyone started diving from different directions to find it until there was so much mud and sand stirred up that no one could see anything. Finally, they decided to clear the water. They waited silently on the edge of the shore for the mud from all their activity to settle. When it finally cleared, one person dove in slowly and picked up the ring.

When we are confused about something in our lives, we will often hear answers and advice from all directions. Our friends will tell us one thing and our families another, until we feel pretty well mixed up. If we look away from our problem and let patience and time do their work, the mud inside us will settle and clear. Our answer will become visible, like the glimmer of silver in the water.

Am I overlooking the simple solution?
thumbs up thumbs up
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Jun 19, 2008 11:50 AM CST When muddy waters stand, they become clear..
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
HELLO ALEX!thumbs up
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Jun 19, 2008 11:54 AM CST When muddy waters stand, they become clear..
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Conrad73: Don't think you're overlooking it!
It's just like that if you wanna hear,you've got to listen,and to listen,you have to be QUIET!


Is that why many years ago I was told to sit down & shut up, I had nothing to say anyone needed to hear?frustrated

I think those old guys back then may have been on to something..grin
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Jun 19, 2008 11:57 AM CST When muddy waters stand, they become clear..
jampet
jampetjampetwexford, Wexford Ireland28 Threads 1 Polls 2,549 Posts
wise words HJFgrin
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Jun 19, 2008 12:19 PM CST When muddy waters stand, they become clear..
HJFinAZ: Is that why many years ago I was told to sit down & shut up, I had nothing to say anyone needed to hear?

I think those old guys back then may have been on to something..
Yep,them Fellows were sure on to something!thumbs up grin wave
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