AWOL From Military Service ( Archived) (40)

Jun 3, 2008 1:39 AM CST AWOL From Military Service
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
How would you feel if someone you cared about went AWOL -- Absent WithOut Leave - or deserted, I suppose for my European friends --- from the military?
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Jun 3, 2008 2:02 AM CST AWOL From Military Service
princess49503
princess49503princess49503grand rapids, Michigan USA18 Threads 1 Polls 1,485 Posts
I wouldn't judge them or blame them.......

If they don't want to fight an unregulated police military action, then don't make them....
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Jun 3, 2008 2:03 AM CST AWOL From Military Service
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
princess49503: I wouldn't judge them or blame them.......

If they don't want to fight an unregulated police military action, then don't make them....




Honestly, that's my feeling. I care about him and I hate for him to be so miserable.
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Jun 3, 2008 9:17 AM CST AWOL From Military Service
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
i wouldnt judge them because there would be a reason. Would be interested in background

were they doing unvlountarily- National Service as in some countries/

Or chosen career
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Jun 3, 2008 9:25 AM CST AWOL From Military Service
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
I would give them 24 hours to do what is right, then I would call the police. If they were not a friend, they wouldn't give them the 24 hours.



When you join the service, you don't get to pick and choose what war to fight in. If you took the sign-up bous, accepted the monthy pay...then refuse to do your job, when called upon, you are a traitor to your country.

This is coming from a Vietnam vet!!
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Jun 3, 2008 9:52 AM CST AWOL From Military Service
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
As A vet myself I would report them to the nearest Provost Marshal, They volunteered to go into the Military knowing the hazzards and when in should do their duty.
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Jun 3, 2008 9:56 AM CST AWOL From Military Service
ttom500
ttom500ttom500St. Cloud, Florida USA30 Threads 5 Polls 10,523 Posts
As former military, I would first advise him to turn himself in. If he did not I would report him.
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Jun 3, 2008 10:03 AM CST AWOL From Military Service
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
dcj22: How would you feel if someone you cared about went AWOL -- Absent WithOut Leave - or deserted, I suppose for my European friends --- from the military?


It would depend on his reasons. If you found yourself harming innocents in an immoral war, for instance, you would be morally obliged to opt out of service. If you deserted because you got bored - or just didn't like military life - that would be different. Incidentally, there's no need for desertion. You can easily get yourself booted out if that's really what you want.
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Jun 3, 2008 11:46 AM CST AWOL From Military Service
Leana76
Leana76Leana76Prescott Valley, Arizona USA39 Threads 918 Posts
Well, I have served 6 years in the Army (1995-2001) and I have to say that they would get in some serious trouble.

They could be looking at 5 years in the "brig" (military jail). I know of 2, that were in the same company as I was, and they went AWOL. I think they just got out of the "brig" just a year ago.

I'm like this, they can do what they want, but it's not a good idea for them to stay in your house (that would be harboring and abeiting a fugitive).
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Jun 3, 2008 11:48 AM CST AWOL From Military Service
Portiea
PortieaPortieaKonstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany93 Threads 11 Polls 4,000 Posts
Leana76: Well, I have served 6 years in the Army (1995-2001) and I have to say that they would get in some serious trouble.

They could be looking at 5 years in the "brig" (military jail). I know of 2, that were in the same company as I was, and they went AWOL. I think they just got out of the "brig" just a year ago.

I'm like this, they can do what they want, but it's not a good idea for them to stay in your house (that would be harboring and abeiting a fugitive).
I think because of the serious problems it would cause for this person, I would urge him/her to go back and face the music asap before it gets worse. But I would not turn anyone in....cheers
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Jun 3, 2008 11:50 AM CST AWOL From Military Service
Leana76
Leana76Leana76Prescott Valley, Arizona USA39 Threads 918 Posts
Dknew: As A vet myself I would report them to the nearest Provost Marshal, They volunteered to go into the Military knowing the hazzards and when in should do their duty.


EXACTLY!!! I too, served 6 years in the military and they could be looking at some serious punishment.

Remember the story about Eddie Slovik?? They used to do that to people who went AWOL/Desertion. It's not funny.

I mean they CHOSE to go in the military (there's no draft anymore, people). I mean, what the heck did they think the military was (a f***ing resort?!)...Uhhhh, uhhhh!!! No, no!! It's to serve your country and fight when you are called upon to fight an opposing force. Sheeesh!!! What the heck do these people think it is about?!
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Jun 3, 2008 1:14 PM CST AWOL From Military Service
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
dcj22: How would you feel if someone you cared about went AWOL -- Absent WithOut Leave - or deserted, I suppose for my European friends --- from the military?




I don't know how I would feel, and I guess how I feel regarding the matter wouldn't necessarily be of relevance.

If I were asked by this person for advice ... I'd probably suggest they do the right thing, ask them what they thought the right thing to do might be, & recommend them to step-up to the plate.
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Jun 3, 2008 1:14 PM CST AWOL From Military Service
agman
agmanagmanEagle, Idaho USA3,145 Posts
Blessed are the merciful for they shall have mercy.
Blessed are the peacemakers for they will be called sons of
God.
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Jun 3, 2008 1:25 PM CST AWOL From Military Service
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
To answer a couple of questions here.

He is back on base. He would love to get kicked out, but hasn't been that lucky yet. We're waiting now to find out what they are going to do. They don't want to let him out because they say he's a good soldier. He's currently trying not to be. lol

And when he left, I didn't know where he was, exactly, so me turning him in wasn't an option, though I wouldn't have done it anyway.

Personally, I think his reasons for leaving were valid.
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Jun 3, 2008 2:02 PM CST AWOL From Military Service
ttom500
ttom500ttom500St. Cloud, Florida USA30 Threads 5 Polls 10,523 Posts
dcj22: To answer a couple of questions here.

He is back on base. He would love to get kicked out, but hasn't been that lucky yet. We're waiting now to find out what they are going to do. They don't want to let him out because they say he's a good soldier. He's currently trying not to be. lol

And when he left, I didn't know where he was, exactly, so me turning him in wasn't an option, though I wouldn't have done it anyway.

Personally, I think his reasons for leaving were valid.


The Military has seen just about every kind of 'out idea' ever made by
man. For his own mental well being, my suggestion is for him to go to his commanding officer....as was earlier posted by another.

Also this. Attitude problems and issues can demoralize more than just the one person. They can bring entire unit's moral down. I don't know what kind of unit, your friend is in but if it is a combat unit that is being deployed into harms way. The morale of these units is what keeps them together in the tough times they face. He has some other
people to think about here.

Again I suggest, he go to his commanding officer with this.
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Jun 3, 2008 2:05 PM CST AWOL From Military Service
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
agman: Blessed are the merciful for they shall have mercy.
Blessed are the peacemakers for they will be called sons of
God.





I didn't see the part that said

Blessed are the cowards...for they shall be running the rest of their lives
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Jun 3, 2008 2:08 PM CST AWOL From Military Service
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
shipoker55: I didn't see the part that said

Blessed are the cowards...for they shall be running the rest of their lives




Or:




Obey those that have authority over you,

Render unto Caesar what is Caesar's...and render unto God, what is God's
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Jun 3, 2008 2:16 PM CST AWOL From Military Service
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
In Canada we are not forced to enter into the Military. My Dad was in the Military all his life until he retired, and he did refuse to go on certain postings, but if you agree to go then you sould finish what you started.

In the states I have noticed you are drafted and do not have the right to say no. If I had to do something that I totaly disagreed with and the only option I had was leaving then I likely would.
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Jun 3, 2008 2:16 PM CST AWOL From Military Service
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
shipoker55: Or:

Obey those that have authority over you,

Render unto Caesar what is Caesar's...and render unto God, what is God's


I think he was referring to mercy Ship... I think that would simply require looking to the reasons why.... having complete disregard for the 'issues' involved may even be a detrimental thing.. as an earlier poster said... they may not be cut out for it.. they may be suffering mentally, or be of ill mental health.. they may have been very young, with no really understanding
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Jun 3, 2008 2:26 PM CST AWOL From Military Service
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
Aries01: I think he was referring to mercy Ship... I think that would simply require looking to the reasons why.... having complete disregard for the 'issues' involved may even be a detrimental thing.. as an earlier poster said... they may not be cut out for it.. they may be suffering mentally, or be of ill mental health.. they may have been very young, with no really understanding




They signed the paper and took the money! If they refuse to serve, they are traitors, cowards and theives.

If they were truly duped...and they are not! No one forces you to join. No one is drafted. Will they return all the money they accepted from the government they now refuse to serve? If they offered to do that...I may have some "mercy" But you can't live a pretty good life, seeing all parts of the world, building friends and having a ggo time....then when it is your turn to face the music. turn and run!!

Since this is a dating site...makes me wonder what kind of partner he would be. Would he turn and run when the times got bad???
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