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Jun 4, 2008 2:57 PM CST Bad Seed
Portiea
PortieaPortieaKonstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany93 Threads 11 Polls 4,000 Posts
The Fifth Child is a novel by Nobel Prize-winner Doris Lessing. The story is about a normal family whose fifth child disrupts their happy middle class existence because of his seriously anti-social behavior. As parents, they do all the normal, nurturing things we expect parents to do, and their other children are fine. When the fifth child has behaviorial problems, they do all the things you are supposed to do and seek all the help society has to offer to help him. Nothing works, and eventually, because as he grows older he becomes more and more evil, they, sadly, decide that the only thing they can do for the rest of the family to survive is to just write him off.

The point of the story is to ask whether or not some people are just born bad, and it doesn't matter what their gene pool is or what kind of home life they are given as children.

Do you agree or not with this idea: is there such a thing as a bad seed? Are some people just born bad?
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Jun 4, 2008 3:00 PM CST Bad Seed
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
those who believe the Bible will have to say yes. All are born evil All must repent.

I think it sucks
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Jun 4, 2008 3:02 PM CST Bad Seed
Portiea
PortieaPortieaKonstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany93 Threads 11 Polls 4,000 Posts
shipoker55: those who believe the Bible will have to say yes. All are born evil All must repent.

I think it sucks


yes....in Christianity, all are born sinful, but once you are baptized, you are cleansed and then any sins are of your own making.

The idea of a bad seed is, I think, a different concept...cheers
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Jun 4, 2008 3:03 PM CST Bad Seed
alex_192
alex_192alex_192sarasota, USA38 Threads 1,271 Posts
Portiea: The Fifth Child is a novel by Nobel Prize-winner Doris Lessing. The story is about a normal family whose fifth child disrupts their happy middle class existence because of his seriously anti-social behavior. As parents, they do all the normal, nurturing things we expect parents to do, and their other children are fine. When the fifth child has behaviorial problems, they do all the things you are supposed to do and seek all the help society has to offer to help him. Nothing works, and eventually, because as he grows older he becomes more and more evil, they, sadly, decide that the only thing they can do for the rest of the family to survive is to just write him off.

The point of the story is to ask whether or not some people are just born bad, and it doesn't matter what their gene pool is or what kind of home life they are given as children.

Do you agree or not with this idea: is there such a thing as a bad seed? Are some people just born bad?


i disagree with the bad seed idea

most of the cases is the enviroment/family/neighbourhood that make people the way they are
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Jun 4, 2008 3:04 PM CST Bad Seed
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
Portiea: The Fifth Child is a novel by Nobel Prize-winner Doris Lessing. The story is about a normal family whose fifth child disrupts their happy middle class existence because of his seriously anti-social behavior. As parents, they do all the normal, nurturing things we expect parents to do, and their other children are fine. When the fifth child has behaviorial problems, they do all the things you are supposed to do and seek all the help society has to offer to help him. Nothing works, and eventually, because as he grows older he becomes more and more evil, they, sadly, decide that the only thing they can do for the rest of the family to survive is to just write him off.

The point of the story is to ask whether or not some people are just born bad, and it doesn't matter what their gene pool is or what kind of home life they are given as children.

Do you agree or not with this idea: is there such a thing as a bad seed? Are some people just born bad?


hahaha.. and what made you think of this?

laugh
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Jun 4, 2008 3:04 PM CST Bad Seed
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
Personally.. I think it's nature and nurture.. It's something I have been looking into for a very long time.
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Jun 4, 2008 3:06 PM CST Bad Seed
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
think this is a delicate topic maybe today of all days, i don't think bad is perhaps the right word hug
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Jun 4, 2008 3:07 PM CST Bad Seed
Portiea
PortieaPortieaKonstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany93 Threads 11 Polls 4,000 Posts
Claayer: hahaha.. and what made you think of this?


Actually, probably not what you think....I just try to think of ideas that I think might create discussion, discussion I might find interesting.....

Other than that, Claayer, can't imagine what you are implying...hmmm giggle

Seriously, has nothing to do with any specific person..cheers
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Jun 4, 2008 3:07 PM CST Bad Seed
tufty
tuftytuftyChelmsford, Essex, England UK4 Threads 816 Posts
No idea, rich kids with everything can turn to murder for fun and kids with nothing can grow into perfect human beings who knows what can tip the mind one way or the other
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Jun 4, 2008 3:07 PM CST Bad Seed
Portiea
PortieaPortieaKonstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany93 Threads 11 Polls 4,000 Posts
morganlee: think this is a delicate topic maybe today of all days, i don't think bad is perhaps the right word


Why today? I guess I don't know what is going on...?
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Jun 4, 2008 3:09 PM CST Bad Seed
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta27 Threads 1 Polls 4,368 Posts
Claayer: hahaha.. and what made you think of this?
Claayer for you bouquet teddybear bouquet
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Jun 4, 2008 3:09 PM CST Bad Seed
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
I don't believe the concept of "badness" quite applies. It's more an issue of certain individuals having extremely strong predilections toward anti-social/destructive behavior. I wouldn't call them "evil," because I don't believe they chose their own nature.

Do such individuals exist? Genetic/biologic probability pretty much guarantees that they do. There will, by these laws of probability, exist certain persons who will prove to be more or less impervious to any kind of interventions or influences, regardless of how benevolent or skilled.
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Jun 4, 2008 3:10 PM CST Bad Seed
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
morganlee: Claayer for you


Aawww I'm Ok.. but thankyoooo teddybear
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Jun 4, 2008 3:11 PM CST Bad Seed
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
Portiea: The Fifth Child is a novel by Nobel Prize-winner Doris Lessing. The story is about a normal family whose fifth child disrupts their happy middle class existence because of his seriously anti-social behavior. As parents, they do all the normal, nurturing things we expect parents to do, and their other children are fine. When the fifth child has behaviorial problems, they do all the things you are supposed to do and seek all the help society has to offer to help him. Nothing works, and eventually, because as he grows older he becomes more and more evil, they, sadly, decide that the only thing they can do for the rest of the family to survive is to just write him off.

The point of the story is to ask whether or not some people are just born bad, and it doesn't matter what their gene pool is or what kind of home life they are given as children.

Do you agree or not with this idea: is there such a thing as a bad seed? Are some people just born bad?


I have difficulty with labelling any child 'bad' tbh.... there can be any number of reasons why a child might act out... sensitive personality.. intense shyness, learing difficulties, high IQ, behavioural disorder, personality disorder, subconscious guilt issues, bullying at school,.... and lots more.... to label a child bad would be to seriously over simplify things.. my Brother gave us a lot of hassel growing up.. he was painfully shy, intelligent (v high IQ) sensitive disposition and he was bullied at school (which he didn't tell us about until this last Xmas)... we were so many times at our wits end...however in spite of everything we always stuck by him and he is great now... a great Dad, ADOOOOOORES his lil boy and has his own sucessful graphic design business...

Recently aswell (think he understands now that he is a Dad) thanked my Mum for always standing by him no matter what.. made her cry.. with happiness that she did something right afterall....

hug
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Jun 4, 2008 3:11 PM CST Bad Seed
newinsouth
newinsouthnewinsouthAiken, South Carolina USA26 Threads 2 Polls 1,039 Posts
alex_192: i disagree with the bad seed idea

most of the cases is the enviroment/family/neighbourhood that make people the way they are


My mother raised nine children and wanted more so she adopted two others. They were entirely different even though they were raised in the same way.
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Jun 4, 2008 3:22 PM CST Bad Seed
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
Portiea: The Fifth Child is a novel by Nobel Prize-winner Doris Lessing. The story is about a normal family whose fifth child disrupts their happy middle class existence because of his seriously anti-social behavior. As parents, they do all the normal, nurturing things we expect parents to do, and their other children are fine. When the fifth child has behaviorial problems, they do all the things you are supposed to do and seek all the help society has to offer to help him. Nothing works, and eventually, because as he grows older he becomes more and more evil, they, sadly, decide that the only thing they can do for the rest of the family to survive is to just write him off.

The point of the story is to ask whether or not some people are just born bad, and it doesn't matter what their gene pool is or what kind of home life they are given as children.

Do you agree or not with this idea: is there such a thing as a bad seed? Are some people just born bad?


Think that there are many factors that ultimately have an influence on how a child develops. Their natural born tenancies/personality I believe are a huge factor ......... there are many families who raise children under the same/similar environment and the children are completely different.

As for someone being "bad" ............ I guess it depends on your definition of the word and also the ramifications that can occur within our society. What is acceptable here may not be tolerated in another country or social group.

There are definitely people who are "off" and no matter what upbringing they have ...... they will behave or do things that are not acceptable as the "norm" within our society.
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Jun 4, 2008 3:26 PM CST Bad Seed
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
newinsouth: My mother raised nine children and wanted more so she adopted two others. They were entirely different even though they were raised in the same way.


that's it.. that's why I am so sure that a good chunk of it is nature too.


wave hug
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Jun 4, 2008 3:27 PM CST Bad Seed
kurzita
kurzitakurzitaXaghra, Gozo Malta9 Threads 1,019 Posts
Ambrose2007: I don't believe the concept of "badness" quite applies. It's more an issue of certain individuals having extremely strong predilections toward anti-social/destructive behavior. I wouldn't call them "evil," because I don't believe they chose their own nature.

Do such individuals exist? Genetic/biologic probability pretty much guarantees that they do. There will, by these laws of probability, exist certain persons who will prove to be more or less impervious to any kind of interventions or influences, regardless of how benevolent or skilled.


Agreed....such is life, which bottom line is purely random and inperfect.

thumbs up

Notwithstanding which still awesome......
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Jun 4, 2008 3:27 PM CST Bad Seed
kurzita
kurzitakurzitaXaghra, Gozo Malta9 Threads 1,019 Posts
Ambrose2007: I don't believe the concept of "badness" quite applies. It's more an issue of certain individuals having extremely strong predilections toward anti-social/destructive behavior. I wouldn't call them "evil," because I don't believe they chose their own nature.

Do such individuals exist? Genetic/biologic probability pretty much guarantees that they do. There will, by these laws of probability, exist certain persons who will prove to be more or less impervious to any kind of interventions or influences, regardless of how benevolent or skilled.


Agreed....such is life, which bottom line is purely random and inperfect.

thumbs up

Notwithstanding which still awesome......
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Jun 4, 2008 4:40 PM CST Bad Seed
PILIPALA
PILIPALAPILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK200 Threads 4,804 Posts
There's no such thing as bad seed, only trouble children .The more people tell them they are bad. they will think their bad they need support not criticism.
Can you imagine people constantly telling you your bad, that you start to believe it.
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