Great Alex! An upbeat thread. I had a fantastic relationship. Many, wonderful years till I lost her to cancer. Still trying to cope but I wouldn't change the time we had for anything in this world.
jampet: i think we've all probably had loving relatinships, but they just didn't last. The best thing is to take the best bits, and learn from you mistakes
i am not talking aout a relationship that was loving at some point, and later over the time people gre apart
i am talking abut lovig relationship and sudlently you are not anot any more toghether
but if you are giving the chance to be toghether npow, both will chose to be toghether
I had a really good one! together over 5 years not one fight, not even a the slightest disagreement. we did most everything together, and everything was for each other. We were truely happy! Engaged to be married, I lot of good in that relationship. And if there was anything I learned from it, It would be what kind of man I would want again.
sure...my third wife Sue loved me more than anyone ever has and ever will. I loved her as much as I was capable of, anyway! We were a great couple. I still curse God for not letting me love her as she loved me
We were married for 16 years. She had a heart attack on Christmas 2000. And died In Jan. If she had lived, we would still be married to this day.
PeachesandRayConcord, North Carolina USA1,358 posts
shipoker55: sure...my third wife Sue loved me more than anyone ever has and ever will. I loved her as much as I was capable of, anyway! We were a great couple. I still curse God for not letting me love her as she loved me
We were married for 16 years. She had a heart attack on Christmas 2000. And died In Jan. If she had lived, we would still be married to this day.
Okay...perhaps I shouldn't go here...but here I go
Why do you curse God for not letting you love her as she loved you...how is He responsible for the love you had for her That doesn't seem to be on Him, your love for her was your own
PeachesandRayConcord, North Carolina USA1,358 posts
PeachesandRay: Okay...perhaps I shouldn't go here...but here I go
Why do you curse God for not letting you love her as she loved you...how is He responsible for the love you had for her That doesn't seem to be on Him, your love for her was your own
Happy Friday 13th evening Ship Peaches
PS...sorry to hear that you lost someone so Dear to you...it must hurt very bad
i havent had much luck with the dating seen because i have spent the last year caring for my dad but he passed away 8 weeks ago and i thought maybe he would like me to have a life now, but i always had a great relationship with my dad. and no i am not looking for someone just like dad.
2catchastar: I had a really good one! together over 5 years not one fight, not even a the slightest disagreement. we did most everything together, and everything was for each other. We were truely happy! Engaged to be married, I lot of good in that relationship. And if there was anything I learned from it, It would be what kind of man I would want again.
Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada3,320 posts
alex_192: i have seen way too many threads and post about bad relationship
as for a change lets talk about good relationship
is any one here that had a loving relationship?
why are you single?
would you mind to share your story?
I have had some bad ones and they (99%) turned out to be friends. I jus cannot live with anyone but I can commit and that doesn't seeem to be enough. I am single because I choose too at this point in my life. I am stuck in m ways. I don't like it and I wish I could turn that around but I can't.
Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada3,320 posts
darlynda: i havent had much luck with the dating seen because i have spent the last year caring for my dad but he passed away 8 weeks ago and i thought maybe he would like me to have a life now, but i always had a great relationship with my dad. and no i am not looking for someone just like dad.
Oh , I truly am so sorry for your loss. I think maybe you just need cuddling right now or nothing for a while.
yeah it hurt, but he will be happier in the long run, maybe we just wernt ment to be. Better to give him the chance, than to let him grow to resent me later.
I had an amazing relationship with my ex Bryan I continue to have a wonderful relationship with him. We never fought he was best friend when I was with him and he is still my best friend to this very day. We have been through a lot together. He was addicted to drugs and alcohol, suicidal, and depressed. But despite it all Bryan has ben clean for a yr and a half he contributes most of it to me... we met online in a chatroom he was seeking God he had just lost his mom to cancer and I was out looking to help someone after my aunt had passed away from complications from a bone marrow transplant to cure her of Aplastic Anemia. He was saved that night. We talked everyday never argued and nothing would come between us. We always said, "we are always ok." and we were. Alittle over a yr of dating and never a fight. We fought together as a team. We are no longer together because of a bad night one of his few slip ups led to one of our best friends sleeping with him... if him and I had a choice to be together now we would. I forgive them both and am friends with them both. I know to live my life as much like Jesus as possible and if that means forgiving them then I do and truly mean it with all my heart. I love them both. Though I do not know how much longer he will be here on this earth, because he is fighting cancer right now. I know that he will always be in my heart.
As for being single right now I am single because I choose to be I left a guy I began to date shortly after Bryan because he was mentally and verbally abusive. An I won't put up w/ that outta anyone!
Nice,apositive thread.My love lated 11 years,ended when I was 32.We went through alot f drama and we were good together.We laughed about same things,and he said my crazy antics made him wonder eah day what I would haveto tell why he was working.He encourged me to go back to school.We were love,everone saw it.We respected one anothers space and respected each other in general.So it was great,maybe 1 week out of it,just good Anyway He had to leave the area let's say.For reasons I can't say I could't go with him or ever here from him.My 1st and only really deep marriage type love.
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as for a change lets talk about good relationship
is any one here that had a loving relationship?
why are you single?
would you mind to share your story?