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blue_eyes_uk: Love
When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure.But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost.What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go! You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if their happiness means that you're not part of it. Everything happens for the best.If the person you love doesn't love you back,don't be afraid to love someone else again, for you'll never know unless you give it a try. You'll never love a person you love unless you risk for love.Loves strikes in hurting. If you don't get hurt, you don't learn how to love. Love doesn't hurt all the time.Though the hurting is still there to test you, to help you grow. Don't find love, let love find you.That's why it's called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall. You just fall. You cannot finish a book without closing it's chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages. Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress.It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing.The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves.On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse.But don't ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time. To love is to risk rejection,to live is to risk dying,to hope is to risk failure.But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risk nothing! To reach for another is to risk involvement,to expose your feelings is to expose true self,to love is to risk not to be loved in return. How to define love: fall but not stumble,be constant but not too persistent,share and never be unfair,understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain. Love is like a knife.It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime. Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling.It should inspire you and give you joy and strength.But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end.Loving people means giving them the freedom who they choose to be and where they choose to be. Loving someone means giving him/her the freedom to find his way,whether it leads towards you or away from you. Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful,for only then you'll experience the fullness of humanity and that is love. Only love can hurt your heart,fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you're not ready to cry,if you're not ready to take the risk,if you're not ready to feel the pain, then you're not ready to fall in love.There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love coz every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured that's why it's called falling in love.
When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure.But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost.What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go! You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if their happiness means that you're not part of it. Everything happens for the best.If the person you love doesn't love you back,don't be afraid to love someone else again, for you'll never know unless you give it a try. You'll never love a person you love unless you risk for love.Loves strikes in hurting. If you don't get hurt, you don't learn how to love. Love doesn't hurt all the time.Though the hurting is still there to test you, to help you grow. Don't find love, let love find you.That's why it's called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall. You just fall. You cannot finish a book without closing it's chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages. Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress.It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing.The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves.On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse.But don't ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time. To love is to risk rejection,to live is to risk dying,to hope is to risk failure.But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risk nothing! To reach for another is to risk involvement,to expose your feelings is to expose true self,to love is to risk not to be loved in return. How to define love: fall but not stumble,be constant but not too persistent,share and never be unfair,understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain. Love is like a knife.It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime. Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling.It should inspire you and give you joy and strength.But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end.Loving people means giving them the freedom who they choose to be and where they choose to be. Loving someone means giving him/her the freedom to find his way,whether it leads towards you or away from you. Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful,for only then you'll experience the fullness of humanity and that is love. Only love can hurt your heart,fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you're not ready to cry,if you're not ready to take the risk,if you're not ready to feel the pain, then you're not ready to fall in love.There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love coz every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured that's why it's called falling in love.
Totaly agree with you and it was nicely writin, Thank you for sharing
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you hit the nail on the head with every thing you said about love ..
what you wrote is so true to anyone who ever been in love ..u go girl
what you wrote is so true to anyone who ever been in love ..u go girl
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blue_eyes_uk: To love is to risk rejection,to live is to risk dying,to hope is to risk failure.But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risk nothing! To reach for another is to risk involvement,to expose your feelings is to expose true self,to love is to risk not to be loved in return. .... Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful,for only then you'll experience the fullness of humanity and that is love. Only love can hurt your heart,fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you're not ready to cry,if you're not ready to take the risk,if you're not ready to feel the pain, then you're not ready to fall in love.
Wow, chica...almost every line welcomes pause for reflection...great stuff!
I may have shared this quote before...but it fits so well with your thoughts. Author Unknown.
"Risks are not to be taken on the basis of their probability of success
But in terms of the potential of their result."
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blue_eyes_uk: Love
I really liked your article there blue eyes uk.
All I can say is that sometimes love just mystifies me. Some things are beyond my understanding and I don't need to understand it....just be with it....a LOVE that is stronger than the universe. I feel blessed that I am with this now. This love that is stronger than the universe has endured through every conceivable hell.....time and painful events have passed, but our LOVE still remains.....A love stronger than the universe and a love that has overcome the word's illusions to divide two souls as one heart....
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blue_eyes_uk: Love
When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure.But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost.What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go! You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if their happiness means that you're not part of it. Everything happens for the best.If the person you love doesn't love you back,don't be afraid to love someone else again, for you'll never know unless you give it a try. You'll never love a person you love unless you risk for love.Loves strikes in hurting. If you don't get hurt, you don't learn how to love. Love doesn't hurt all the time.Though the hurting is still there to test you, to help you grow. Don't find love, let love find you.That's why it's called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall. You just fall. You cannot finish a book without closing it's chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages. Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress.It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing.The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves.On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse.But don't ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time. To love is to risk rejection,to live is to risk dying,to hope is to risk failure.But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risk nothing! To reach for another is to risk involvement,to expose your feelings is to expose true self,to love is to risk not to be loved in return. How to define love: fall but not stumble,be constant but not too persistent,share and never be unfair,understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain. Love is like a knife.It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime. Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling.It should inspire you and give you joy and strength.But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end.Loving people means giving them the freedom who they choose to be and where they choose to be. Loving someone means giving him/her the freedom to find his way,whether it leads towards you or away from you. Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful,for only then you'll experience the fullness of humanity and that is love. Only love can hurt your heart,fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you're not ready to cry,if you're not ready to take the risk,if you're not ready to feel the pain, then you're not ready to fall in love.There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love coz every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured that's why it's called falling in love.
When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure.But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost.What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go! You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if their happiness means that you're not part of it. Everything happens for the best.If the person you love doesn't love you back,don't be afraid to love someone else again, for you'll never know unless you give it a try. You'll never love a person you love unless you risk for love.Loves strikes in hurting. If you don't get hurt, you don't learn how to love. Love doesn't hurt all the time.Though the hurting is still there to test you, to help you grow. Don't find love, let love find you.That's why it's called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall. You just fall. You cannot finish a book without closing it's chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages. Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress.It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing.The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves.On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse.But don't ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time. To love is to risk rejection,to live is to risk dying,to hope is to risk failure.But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risk nothing! To reach for another is to risk involvement,to expose your feelings is to expose true self,to love is to risk not to be loved in return. How to define love: fall but not stumble,be constant but not too persistent,share and never be unfair,understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain. Love is like a knife.It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime. Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling.It should inspire you and give you joy and strength.But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end.Loving people means giving them the freedom who they choose to be and where they choose to be. Loving someone means giving him/her the freedom to find his way,whether it leads towards you or away from you. Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful,for only then you'll experience the fullness of humanity and that is love. Only love can hurt your heart,fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you're not ready to cry,if you're not ready to take the risk,if you're not ready to feel the pain, then you're not ready to fall in love.There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love coz every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured that's why it's called falling in love.
excellent!
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This is deep and profound but oh so true, you have hit the nail on the head with this one, as a friend on here once told everybody and i was one of the ones listening "you have to swing in order to strike" stepping up to the plate should be easy. I think too to expound a little on what you have said, this too is not only in relationships between man and woman, etc. it is in all relationships, friends can hurt friends, family can hurt family and so the saga goes on, nice thread, and it makes perfectly clear sense
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Letting go is very hard. And getting to the point of trying to find new love and taking the risk is scary. But you are correct in saying it is worth the risk. Timing is the nagging problem though. When do you let go and when do you take the new risk?
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to nobody in particular, this guy had fallen in love, wasted 7 years of mourning on a relationship that was over, of his approximated 27,000 days here on earth he wasted 2,555 estimated already, wonder how many more he is going to waste in a sit going nowhere? JMO
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mbcasey: Letting go is very hard. And getting to the point of trying to find new love and taking the risk is scary. But you are correct in saying it is worth the risk. Timing is the nagging problem though. When do you let go and when do you take the new risk?
blue-eyes-uk: Don't find love, let love find you.That's why it's called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall. You just fall.
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When I finally decided to "Take the Plunge," I was scared witless. To me, commitment was second only to death. I was so worried about all the things I would sacrifice that I failed to realize all the gains. But over the years, I was repaid tenfold. There is nothing better than a happy union. You do change, you do sacrafice, but you get the benefit of a strong loving union which makes you far stronger, far happier than what you can be when you're alone. What I didn't know, was that losing your loved one is also the most painful experience of all. If I could have reached down my throat and ripped my own heart out to spare him, I would have. It's not like losing an arm, it's more like losing an arm, a leg, your total identity, and half your brain cells. Love hurts worse than anything I've encountered so far. Yet I would do it all over again in a heartbeat. Take the risk, people. There are wonderful things out there you just can't envision until you live it!
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just brill ... there not more u can say about love u got it in one 
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blue_eyes_uk: Love
When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure.But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost.What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go! You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if their happiness means that you're not part of it. Everything happens for the best.If the person you love doesn't love you back,don't be afraid to love someone else again, for you'll never know unless you give it a try. You'll never love a person you love unless you risk for love.Loves strikes in hurting. If you don't get hurt, you don't learn how to love. Love doesn't hurt all the time.Though the hurting is still there to test you, to help you grow. Don't find love, let love find you.That's why it's called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall. You just fall. You cannot finish a book without closing it's chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages. Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress.It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing.The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves.On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse.But don't ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time. To love is to risk rejection,to live is to risk dying,to hope is to risk failure.But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risk nothing! To reach for another is to risk involvement,to expose your feelings is to expose true self,to love is to risk not to be loved in return. How to define love: fall but not stumble,be constant but not too persistent,share and never be unfair,understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain. Love is like a knife.It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime. Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling.It should inspire you and give you joy and strength.But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end.Loving people means giving them the freedom who they choose to be and where they choose to be. Loving someone means giving him/her the freedom to find his way,whether it leads towards you or away from you. Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful,for only then you'll experience the fullness of humanity and that is love. Only love can hurt your heart,fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you're not ready to cry,if you're not ready to take the risk,if you're not ready to feel the pain, then you're not ready to fall in love.There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love coz every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured that's why it's called falling in love.
When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure.But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost.What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go! You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if their happiness means that you're not part of it. Everything happens for the best.If the person you love doesn't love you back,don't be afraid to love someone else again, for you'll never know unless you give it a try. You'll never love a person you love unless you risk for love.Loves strikes in hurting. If you don't get hurt, you don't learn how to love. Love doesn't hurt all the time.Though the hurting is still there to test you, to help you grow. Don't find love, let love find you.That's why it's called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall. You just fall. You cannot finish a book without closing it's chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages. Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress.It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing.The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves.On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse.But don't ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time. To love is to risk rejection,to live is to risk dying,to hope is to risk failure.But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risk nothing! To reach for another is to risk involvement,to expose your feelings is to expose true self,to love is to risk not to be loved in return. How to define love: fall but not stumble,be constant but not too persistent,share and never be unfair,understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain. Love is like a knife.It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime. Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling.It should inspire you and give you joy and strength.But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end.Loving people means giving them the freedom who they choose to be and where they choose to be. Loving someone means giving him/her the freedom to find his way,whether it leads towards you or away from you. Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful,for only then you'll experience the fullness of humanity and that is love. Only love can hurt your heart,fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you're not ready to cry,if you're not ready to take the risk,if you're not ready to feel the pain, then you're not ready to fall in love.There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love coz every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured that's why it's called falling in love.
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4angels: just brill ... there not more u can say about love u got it in one
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WhatUwish4: When I finally decided to "Take the Plunge," I was scared witless. To me, commitment was second only to death. I was so worried about all the things I would sacrifice that I failed to realize all the gains. But over the years, I was repaid tenfold. There is nothing better than a happy union. You do change, you do sacrafice, but you get the benefit of a strong loving union which makes you far stronger, far happier than what you can be when you're alone. What I didn't know, was that losing your loved one is also the most painful experience of all. If I could have reached down my throat and ripped my own heart out to spare him, I would have. It's not like losing an arm, it's more like losing an arm, a leg, your total identity, and half your brain cells. Love hurts worse than anything I've encountered so far. Yet I would do it all over again in a heartbeat. Take the risk, people. There are wonderful things out there you just can't envision until you live it!
So true!!!!!!!!1
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When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure.But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost.What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go! You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if their happiness means that you're not part of it. Everything happens for the best.If the person you love doesn't love you back,don't be afraid to love someone else again, for you'll never know unless you give it a try. You'll never love a person you love unless you risk for love.Loves strikes in hurting. If you don't get hurt, you don't learn how to love. Love doesn't hurt all the time.Though the hurting is still there to test you, to help you grow. Don't find love, let love find you.That's why it's called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall. You just fall. You cannot finish a book without closing it's chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages. Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress.It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing.The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves.On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse.But don't ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time. To love is to risk rejection,to live is to risk dying,to hope is to risk failure.But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risk nothing! To reach for another is to risk involvement,to expose your feelings is to expose true self,to love is to risk not to be loved in return. How to define love: fall but not stumble,be constant but not too persistent,share and never be unfair,understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain. Love is like a knife.It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime. Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling.It should inspire you and give you joy and strength.But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end.Loving people means giving them the freedom who they choose to be and where they choose to be. Loving someone means giving him/her the freedom to find his way,whether it leads towards you or away from you. Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful,for only then you'll experience the fullness of humanity and that is love. Only love can hurt your heart,fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you're not ready to cry,if you're not ready to take the risk,if you're not ready to feel the pain, then you're not ready to fall in love.There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love coz every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured that's why it's called falling in love.