Happiness..Are you happy? or still looking for happiness? (7)

It is after midnight, and I looked at my watch. Guess what? Another day passed by and we still a live with full healthy body, thanks to God for every thing. But, are we happy and satisfied? are you enjoying your life? or you are just surviving? What make us happy and love this life which is full of struggles and hardships. It is true, we have to work harder in order to acquire what we desire. In most things we do, there is no gain without pain.

Personally, I think that wealth or money, children and friends make our life enjoyable. But the most enjoable thing in life is to have your soul mate beside you. No mater how much wealthy, strong or powerful you are, you will remain poor and unhappy if you have no soul mate: husband or wife. In other words, a man without a wife will stay unhappy and poor even if he has plenty of wealth or power or famous. The same thing with a women who is without a husband.

This is because we need our other half. we cannot live without our half. We men cannot live without women. And women cannot live without us. This is common sense. This is life. But how we balance our life in order to make it healthy and eventually full of happiness.

I am looking for happiness for several years, and I tasted it several times but, I could not make it last. Now here, I want from my respected readers to give me some opinions about happiness and how we can keep it with us for long time. How I can meet my soul mate or other half who will make my life happier and enjoable?

Is life worth for sufferings. why cannot we live happly without we have. why we have to question our lucks and others fortunes. We have to accept that we are different ad our lucks and fortunes are different too. Thus, our happiness and enjoyment varies and are not exactly the same level.

Will continuing my writings tomorrow hopefully.

Please remain happy and healthy.

Your Seeker for happiness,
Prince of Lions
Ottawa

Happiness is not a commedity that we can buy or sell. One might say that I can make you happy with my money. But for how long? can your money makes me happy and have peace of mind? Yes it could be. but to which extent? Money is energy. And energy is power. Energy flows in us and around us. But it could turn to dark energy and negativity if we do not use it wisely. My soul needs food. Alos, my body needs food. However, food is energy to our bodies, but it cannot be our source of energy to our souls. It is love that feeds our souls and spirits. Love of God Love of families, love of our children, love of life, love of soul mates.

Ah! this is why they call it soul mate!!! it is our soul mate not our body mate. So, it is the true love that makes our beloved ones close to us! Not money or other material or worldly things.

Love is feeling and feelings are unseen and untouchable. But we can sense it and transform it to actions. Actions are reality. Thoughts are dreams or wishes or ideas in our heads which are useless if they are not put into action. Thus, Action or movement is better than thousands of ideas in our heads. In other words, if we have bad ideas or anxiety or sadness, then we can remove it by taking action such as change our habits, or exercise(run, bike, swim..etc), meet friends, buy new useful things, get hair cut, take a bath, clean our homes or work on a useful project or volunteer in order to let your mind forgets or remove the bad thinking/ideas or anxiety you might experiencing.

This is how we can naturally overcome our bad thinking and bad routine, sadness, hatred or anxiety. Just make changes. Just act and move yourself toward positive actions and empower your words and ideas by action and participation. If we do not seek happiness and work for it we will never get it or find it. Life is not made for happiness. It is full of hardships and challenges. But we can make it less difficult and enjoyable. Life in this world is not perefect. Only paradise is perfect.

I do not want you to lose my point. My point is happiness is a goal or a gift, but not a commedity to buy all the time. Moreover, we, today, made our life more difficult, stressful and complicated to the extent that we no longer taste simple happiness and love. Our love has changed because our goals for loving have changed. Our desires or intentions are not pure or sincere any more. Life eventually became filthy and boring, because we made it like that. We look for all materialistic things as they are our principles and basis of happines. We forget that our good hearted personality, ambition, sincerity, honesty, pure intentions, true love, forgiveness, caring, consideration, compassion, sympathy, support, and generosity are our basis for happiness.

In conclusion, try to give money to poor, try to give your love to your soul mate, try to give care to your life and to your community, then you will find happiness around you and inside you.

Moreover, you will taste it and your heart will touch it and absorbed. And this is what I want to reach at. This is the ultimate stage of happiness. Happiness of my pure heart. Heart of love and peace.

good night and see you tomorrow hopefully with another healthy and happy day for all of us.

June 17, 2008
Ottawa

Sorry, I do not agree to your opinion. Moreover, I did not say that you will be poor if you do not have a soulmate; neither had I said if you have no soulmate, then you will not be rich.

Next, happiness comes from within oneself if you are satisfied with what God gave you and with what you have. Also, if you are happy with yourself and you do not have a friend or soulmate, then it is fine and you could be happy to some extent, but you will be lonely and bored for some time. You will never reach the highest level of happiness if you are alone. God created us to be social human beings not isolated and self-centered. This is what I want to convey to the readers. This is a fact not my opinion.

thank you,

have a healthy time.

I agree with Mychelle. You have to first of all be happy with yourself being being happy with anyone else. I have learned that myself personaly.

If your not happy with yourself, chances are you will end up being unhappy in a relationship. I speak from my own experience. I had a lot of self esteem issues and trust issues. I won't lie. I still do a bit but am working on them and know about it and not hiding it.

So I think before seeking happiness in a "soul mate" we have to be happy with ourselves first and then the rest will fall into place.

Do I make sense? lol