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Jun 21, 2008 2:00 PM CST sirens and signs
dillydally
dillydallydillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads 2,697 Posts
hello everyone wave

i have been thinking about this all week . How do you let people know you are interested in them ?

do you flirt ?
do you mail answer back every mail they send you ?
do you look for there mail ?

im curious as to how you lot do it .
i look for signs of interest before i decide if its a good idea to let them know if im interested in them or not . what signs do you look for ?

also how do you tell a person thats interested in you but your not into him/her in that way ? personally i find that bit hard to do as i hate hurting peoples feelings roll eyes


dont pick me up wrong (yeah i know) im not wanting advice just wondering how you do it ?i love watching the forums and seeing him flirt with her and so on or watching the sparks fly ,i know who's off limits and who's in the sidelines ,so im just curious as to how you flirt ? drinking
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Jun 21, 2008 2:04 PM CST sirens and signs
darlynda
darlyndadarlyndatazewell, Tennessee USA49 Threads 4 Polls 1,093 Posts
i dont know if this is a good thing but the guy i have a date with......i ignored him for a while and he didnt give up so i figured he must really be interested in me so i emailed him back and so far we have gotten along famouslyvery happy
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Jun 21, 2008 2:07 PM CST sirens and signs
wolfpack
wolfpackwolfpackpost falls, Idaho USA8 Threads 770 Posts
Just be open and honest and they will be that way with you. Flirt with him and if he responds. Just be yourself.
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Jun 21, 2008 2:09 PM CST sirens and signs
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
dillydally: hello everyone

i have been thinking about this all week . How do you let people know you are interested in them ?

do you flirt ?
do you mail answer back every mail they send you ?
do you look for there mail ?

im curious as to how you lot do it .
i look for signs of interest before i decide if its a good idea to let them know if im interested in them or not . what signs do you look for ?

also how do you tell a person thats interested in you but your not into him/her in that way ? personally i find that bit hard to do as i hate hurting peoples feelings dont pick me up wrong (yeah i know) im not wanting advice just wondering how you do it ?i love watching the forums and seeing him flirt with her and so on or watching the sparks fly ,i know who's off limits and who's in the sidelines ,so im just curious as to how you flirt ?


Good idea - Ill watch the replies with interest cos Im a bit clueless myself too laugh wave
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Jun 21, 2008 2:09 PM CST sirens and signs
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
dunno they usually tell me. drinking I'm not really into the whole game thing, so they tend to be pretty blunt about itwine
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Jun 21, 2008 2:10 PM CST sirens and signs
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
I'm not actually very good at the flirting thing.. and It tends to go completely over my head if someone is genuinely flirting with me.. I just think that they are just messing about.. laugh dunno
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Jun 21, 2008 2:12 PM CST sirens and signs
dillydally
dillydallydillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads 2,697 Posts
darlynda: i dont know if this is a good thing but the guy i have a date with......i ignored him for a while and he didnt give up so i figured he must really be interested in me so i emailed him back and so far we have gotten along famously


good luckwine
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Jun 21, 2008 2:15 PM CST sirens and signs
dillydally
dillydallydillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads 2,697 Posts
trish123: Good idea - Ill watch the replies with interest cos Im a bit clueless myself too



laugh popcorn at the ready popcorn
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Jun 21, 2008 2:21 PM CST sirens and signs
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
I get emails from countries I never heard of by supermodels (or at least pics of supermodels) that say they love me and want to have my children. At their request, I send lots of cash. I just know it will work. One of these times...uh oh
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Jun 21, 2008 2:24 PM CST sirens and signs
dillydally
dillydallydillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads 2,697 Posts
does no one on c.s knows how to flirt ?laugh laugh

im on a dating site and i dont know how to get it on rolling on the floor laughing just toooooo funny
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Jun 21, 2008 2:25 PM CST sirens and signs
dillydally
dillydallydillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads 2,697 Posts
rwantin: I get emails from countries I never heard of by supermodels (or at least pics of supermodels) that say they love me and want to have my children. At their request, I send lots of cash. I just know it will work. One of these times...



rolling on the floor laughing i didnt get my last cheque ................. you sure you sent it ?laugh
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Jun 21, 2008 2:25 PM CST sirens and signs
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
I answer all e-mails. However, now my mail is only allowed from the U.S.

I usually tell a person right off if I am not interested. It's not like there are that many that I have to worry about

And since I am no longer interested in meeting anyone, I have a blanket answer!!
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Jun 21, 2008 2:26 PM CST sirens and signs
foreveryoung1
foreveryoung1foreveryoung1cartagena, Murcia Spain2 Threads 1 Polls 2,984 Posts
dillydally: does no one on c.s knows how to flirt ?

im on a dating site and i dont know how to get it on just toooooo funny


sorry, have no real idea either

laugh
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Jun 21, 2008 2:26 PM CST sirens and signs
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
dillydally: i didnt get my last cheque ................. you sure you sent it ?


Western Union forgot to call again!?! frustrated
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Jun 21, 2008 2:27 PM CST sirens and signs
mikeeemike
mikeeemikemikeeemikeDen Hague, South Holland Netherlands16 Threads 173 Posts
I think you usually strike up an interest through the threads. Its good to develop a friendship around common interests, and most importantly being able to have a laugh.

If you both are flirting, have a laugh, common interests and feel that spark, then I'd develop the relationship further away from the threads, and see how you go. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. professor
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Jun 21, 2008 2:29 PM CST sirens and signs
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
dillydally: does no one on c.s knows how to flirt ?

im on a dating site and i dont know how to get it on just toooooo funny



Honey, I'm a flirt. Been doing it for many many years and have almost perfected my craft. laugh
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Jun 21, 2008 2:30 PM CST sirens and signs
dillydally
dillydallydillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads 2,697 Posts
shipoker55: I answer all e-mails. However, now my mail is only allowed from the U.S.

I usually tell a person right off if I am not interested. It's not like there are that many that I have to worry about

And since I am no longer interested in meeting anyone, I have a blanket answer!!


thumbs up i like the upfront approach
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Jun 21, 2008 2:31 PM CST sirens and signs
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
mikeeemike: I think you usually strike up an interest through the threads. Its good to develop a friendship around common interests, and most importantly being able to have a laugh.

If you both are flirting, have a laugh, common interests and feel that spark, then I'd develop the relationship further away from the threads, and see how you go. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.



Yep, that's about it. cool
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Jun 21, 2008 2:31 PM CST sirens and signs
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
dillydally: does no one on c.s knows how to flirt ?

im on a dating site and i dont know how to get it on just toooooo funny




most of us do flirt, but that's just it-flirting....getting down to the real nitty of the gritty is a whole different ballgame....some of us try, and succeed, some fail and some run...bouquet
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Jun 21, 2008 2:32 PM CST sirens and signs
wolfpack
wolfpackwolfpackpost falls, Idaho USA8 Threads 770 Posts
sometimes, but iam like you I would like to know if they are interested first.
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