Distance ~ How far is too far? ( Archived) (95)

Jul 5, 2008 7:24 PM CST Distance ~ How far is too far?
Shanmariee
ShanmarieeShanmarieeSpokane, Washington USA9 Threads 396 Posts
I was wondering how far is too far distance wise, when it comes to getting to know someone, meeting them and possibly being with them? If you really felt a true connection with someone, would you be willing to relocate or pass it up? At what point do you balance a distance issue and passion/love for someone?


dunno
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Jul 5, 2008 7:29 PM CST Distance ~ How far is too far?
Bowie
BowieBowiewinter haven, Florida USA2 Threads 958 Posts
Would have to meet them once first before giving up anything. After that, I guess if it were the person you couldn't see living without, you bet.
Life is one big adventure anyway. It is a boring book if the pages aren't filled with axcitement.super
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Jul 5, 2008 7:31 PM CST Distance ~ How far is too far?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Shanmariee: I was wondering how far is too far distance wise, when it comes to getting to know someone, meeting them and possibly being with them? If you really felt a true connection with someone, would you be willing to relocate or pass it up? At what point do you balance a distance issue and passion/love for someone?


My fiance i met her on CS..and he lives in North Carolina...

We have met a few times now..as he came to canada...

And i am the one who will be moving to be with him
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Jul 5, 2008 7:31 PM CST Distance ~ How far is too far?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
kissmedeeply: My fiance i met her on CS..and he lives in North Carolina...

We have met a few times now..as he came to canada...

And i am the one who will be moving to be with him
met himgrin
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Jul 5, 2008 7:33 PM CST Distance ~ How far is too far?
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
Bowie: Would have to meet them once first before giving up anything. After that, I guess if it were the person you couldn't see living without, you bet.
Life is one big adventure anyway. It is a boring book if the pages aren't filled with axcitement.


thumbs up Nicely said.
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Jul 5, 2008 9:01 PM CST Distance ~ How far is too far?
Shanmariee
ShanmarieeShanmarieeSpokane, Washington USA9 Threads 396 Posts
kissmedeeply: My fiance i met her on CS..and he lives in North Carolina...

We have met a few times now..as he came to canada...

And i am the one who will be moving to be with him


Wow that is great! When will you be moving? Do you know yet?
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Jul 5, 2008 9:04 PM CST Distance ~ How far is too far?
katiecharlyn
katiecharlynkatiecharlyndublin, Georgia USA8 Threads 2,748 Posts
me and my fiance met here at cs. he came here and now hes moving here with me. im from georgia,usa, and hes from ICELAND we are engaged and getting married this year and are very happy!! heart beating so distance i guess depends on the two. hug
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Jul 5, 2008 9:05 PM CST Distance ~ How far is too far?
Shanmariee
ShanmarieeShanmarieeSpokane, Washington USA9 Threads 396 Posts
airliner: you have the right answer to your own question, Lady. I'd say listen to your instincts and go for it


Well I perhaps would but first I need to find someone..... for all I get is "you seem so awesome too bad we're so far apart" type emails.
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Jul 5, 2008 9:05 PM CST Distance ~ How far is too far?
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
i wouldn't go past the next county!
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Jul 5, 2008 9:05 PM CST Distance ~ How far is too far?
katiecharlyn
katiecharlynkatiecharlyndublin, Georgia USA8 Threads 2,748 Posts
Bowie: you bet. love is worth all 2 can put into it
applause applause applause thumbs up hug
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Jul 5, 2008 9:05 PM CST Distance ~ How far is too far?
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
kissmedeeply: met him


Hi Joanne wave

I'm not adverse to long distance relationships as long as they are not long distance forever. I have gone from Ireland to Singapore (13 hours on a plane) to see someone before but it was worth it drinking
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Jul 5, 2008 9:07 PM CST Distance ~ How far is too far?
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Shanmariee: I was wondering how far is too far distance wise, when it comes to getting to know someone, meeting them and possibly being with them? If you really felt a true connection with someone, would you be willing to relocate or pass it up? At what point do you balance a distance issue and passion/love for someone?


There is no distance to great if there is true love, obstacles are made to be overcome...professor
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Jul 5, 2008 9:09 PM CST Distance ~ How far is too far?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
climb every mountain
swim every sea
etc etc

the oldsters know the rest...

thing is, when youre still is when it comes
then distance is inverted and time is transcended





thank you
ill be here all week



rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 5, 2008 9:13 PM CST Distance ~ How far is too far?
DUBLINGUY1973
DUBLINGUY1973DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Posts
Daniel4021: There is no distance to great if there is true love, obstacles are made to be overcome...


You ole Romantic Dan wink Very true though applause
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Jul 5, 2008 9:13 PM CST Distance ~ How far is too far?
katiecharlyn: me and my fiance met here at cs. he came here and now hes moving here with me. im from georgia,usa, and hes from ICELAND we are engaged and getting married this year and are very happy!! so distance i guess depends on the two.

Congratulations sweetie!yay applause I didn't know of you till justnow.Another CS sucess story.Hope you both happiness abundant



As for myself,if I met myheart beating ,we would decide about where to live,maybe somewhere new to us both.Most likley at this age he is in job with pension or may have troiuble finding new work if he's my age or older.Yes,if I could enjoy living in the wherever he lives,weather,area people,etc.I would go,but not China or India,or some ther areas.I wouldn't start with him to begin with.
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Jul 5, 2008 9:14 PM CST Distance ~ How far is too far?
katiecharlyn
katiecharlynkatiecharlyndublin, Georgia USA8 Threads 2,748 Posts
nomindgames: Congratulations sweetie! I didn't know of you till justnow.Another CS sucess story.Hope you both happiness abundant
As for myself,if I met my ,we would decide about where to live,maybe somewhere new to us both.Most likley at this age he is in job with pension or may have troiuble finding new work if he's my age or older.Yes,if I could enjoy living in the wherever he lives,weather,area people,etc.I would go,but not China or India,or some ther areas.I wouldn't start with him to begin with.
thank-you!!! applause applause hug teddybear
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Jul 5, 2008 9:16 PM CST Distance ~ How far is too far?
nomindgames: Congratulations sweetie! I didn't know of you till justnow.Another CS sucess story.Hope you both happiness abundant
As for myself,if I met my ,we would decide about where to live,maybe somewhere new to us both.Most likley at this age he is in job with pension or may have troiuble finding new work if he's my age or older.Yes,if I could enjoy living in the wherever he lives,weather,area people,etc.I would go,but not China or India,or
some ther areas.I wouldn't start with him to begin with.

other areas even a few here in the states.Wsh my man would come along soon.Not an offer in a month on heresigh
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Jul 5, 2008 9:16 PM CST Distance ~ How far is too far?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
DUBLINGUY1973: Hi Joanne

I'm not adverse to long distance relationships as long as they are not long distance forever. I have gone from Ireland to Singapore (13 hours on a plane) to see someone before but it was worth it
Hey long time..how are you doing???????
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Jul 5, 2008 9:17 PM CST Distance ~ How far is too far?
Shanmariee
ShanmarieeShanmarieeSpokane, Washington USA9 Threads 396 Posts
katiecharlyn: me and my fiance met here at cs. he came here and now hes moving here with me. im from georgia,usa, and hes from ICELAND we are engaged and getting married this year and are very happy!! so distance i guess depends on the two.


That is so awesome! I would love to be able to have a story of myown to share and maybe someday I will.
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Jul 5, 2008 9:17 PM CST Distance ~ How far is too far?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Shanmariee: Wow that is great! When will you be moving? Do you know yet?
yes moving this year..so much stuff..i hate packingfrustrated
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