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DUBLINGUY1973Dublin, Ireland43 Threads 4 Polls 4,692 Postshung on in a relationship thinking things would get better even though you knew deep down they never would? I have done that a lot in previous relationships for some stupid reason 
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Just about every relationship I have been in has been that way. For some stupid reason I always think if I just do "this different" or "that different" it will make things better. Big mistake. I hate letting go of people I love, I definately think more with my heart then with my head!
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ditto
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DaisyChick: Just about every relationship I have been in has been that way. For some stupid reason I always think if I just do "this different" or "that different" it will make things better. Big mistake. I hate letting go of people I love, I definately think more with my heart then with my head!
Yeah me too although I'm trying to change. Personally i think it takes two to work on a relationship and make things better and you can't do it all yourself.....
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DUBLINGUY1973: hung on in a relationship thinking things would get better even though you knew deep down they never would? I have done that a lot in previous relationships for some stupid reason
Nope when i know its over...ITS OVER
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kissmedeeply: Nope when i know its over...ITS OVER
Wise woman
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DUBLINGUY1973: Wise woman
aww why thank you dear...i dont stay in a relationship like some say becos of the kids...If something is bad..i get out of it as fast as i can...
You cannot change a Person..
They have to want it for themself
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kissmedeeply: aww why thank you dear...i dont stay in a relationship like some say becos of the kids...
If something is bad..i get out of it as fast as i can...
You cannot change a Person..
They have to want it for themself
If something is bad..i get out of it as fast as i can...
You cannot change a Person..
They have to want it for themself
Very true. Well i spose when you have someone else depending on you, its easier to be think with your head and not want to settle for second best for their sakes as well as yours
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DUBLINGUY1973: hung on in a relationship thinking things would get better even though you knew deep down they never would? I have done that a lot in previous relationships for some stupid reason
Well maybe my marriage...BUT live and learn...things never got better...they got worse..NOW...ummmmmmm no way...
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DUBLINGUY1973: hung on in a relationship thinking things would get better even though you knew deep down they never would? I have done that a lot in previous relationships for some stupid reason
i did it, for one year
she did it for one year
but we did not succed
then we split
we were friends before the marriage, we remainde friends till now
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Hugz_n_Kissez: Well maybe my marriage...BUT live and learn...things never got better...they got worse..NOW...ummmmmmm no way...
Well at least you learn from your mistakes
alex_192: i did it, for one year
she did it for one year
but we did not succed
then we split
we were friends before the marriage, we remainde friends till now
she did it for one year
but we did not succed
then we split
we were friends before the marriage, we remainde friends till now
Well maybe some people are better off as friends, huh?
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DUBLINGUY1973: Well at least you learn from your mistakes
Well maybe some people are better off as friends, huh?
Well maybe some people are better off as friends, huh?
Oh yes I do...I never make the same one twice...some lessons are that great!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Most people do that, I think. Don't want to be known as a "cut & run" type...plus, want to be able to say you gave it your best shot.
JMO
JMO
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DUBLINGUY1973: hung on in a relationship thinking things would get better even though you knew deep down they never would? I have done that a lot in previous relationships for some stupid reason
I have...I will never do it again...------ This thread is Archived ------
yes- made my bed...etc etc , but I've learned, I hope
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DUBLINGUY1973: hung on in a relationship thinking things would get better even though you knew deep down they never would? I have done that a lot in previous relationships for some stupid reason
oh ya, incureably so, always thinking there's a way around the probs .. but it takes two and some people get soooo entrenched in their position during an arguement that changing position would affect theyre pride and that means they can't change it at the risk of lossing "face' or "feeling" in the wrong.
Relationships don't usually survive stubborn right/wrong stances.. JMO Am I right?
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yes...my second marriage. We stayed together for 16 years. I did it because I was a Christian and was worried what my testimony would be if I couldn't work out our differences. I was miserable, put a good Christian should bear that...after all, look what Jesus bore!!
I came to hate that woman...but pretended to love her so I would look good in front of the church.
It never got any better...till I buried her under the front step!!
JUST KIDDING about the burying her. it was getting to serious.
I came to hate that woman...but pretended to love her so I would look good in front of the church.
It never got any better...till I buried her under the front step!!
JUST KIDDING about the burying her. it was getting to serious.
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guilty of that too...............stayed in the realtionship even though i knew he wasnt for me and he felt the same only prob was we were both too nice to say it lol....there was not fights or anything like that or hatred... he didnt want to tell me and vice versa... we are still good friends am glad to say...
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DUBLINGUY1973: hung on in a relationship thinking things would get better even though you knew deep down they never would? I have done that a lot in previous relationships for some stupid reason
Yeah know that feeling.......hung around for 20 years.....am I an idiot or what.......
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