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Don't CHANGE ( Archived) (90)

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#1
Jul 12, 2008 1:32 PM CST Don't CHANGE
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2OPmontreal, Quebec Canada10,499 posts
He was a neurotic for years.He was anxious and depressed and selfish.Everyone kept telling him to change.

He resented them,and agreed with them,and he wanted to change,but simly couldn't,no matter how hard he tried.

What hurt the most was that,like the others,his best friend kept insisting the he change.So he felt powerless and trapped.

Then,one day,his best friend said to him, ''Don't CHANGE.I love you just the way you are.''


Those were music to his ears,''Don't CHANGE,Don't CHANGE.Don't CHANGE....I love you as you are.''

He relaxed.He came alive.And suddenly CHANGED!

Now he knew that he couldn't really change until he found someone who would love him whether he CHANGED or not.









wine
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#2
Jul 12, 2008 1:36 PM CST Don't CHANGE
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2OPmontreal, Quebec Canada10,499 posts
THE WALL is not gonna change for anybody.tongue
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#3
Jul 12, 2008 1:38 PM CST Don't CHANGE
bluebelle4000
bluebelle4000bluebelle4000Meath, Ireland46 Threads 6,001 Posts
bluebelle4000Meath, Ireland6,001 posts
thewall2: THE WALL is not gonna change for anybody.


Glad to hear it /.... Me neither lol... tongue tongue tongue
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#4
Jul 12, 2008 1:40 PM CST Don't CHANGE
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA8,986 posts
I am who I am, and that's all I will ever be..head banger
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#5
Jul 12, 2008 1:45 PM CST Don't CHANGE
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
rwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA8,924 posts
"I yam what I yam." - Popeye
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#6
Jul 12, 2008 1:46 PM CST Don't CHANGE
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
roseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK8,699 posts
Well, I dunno about "change", though I am a flexible and accommodating character. And........

I'm not perfect.... always room for improvement??!! wine
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#7
Jul 12, 2008 1:48 PM CST Don't CHANGE
Harleyquinn
HarleyquinnHarleyquinnBetwixt the stix, Illinois USA10 Threads 1,707 Posts
HarleyquinnBetwixt the stix, Illinois USA1,707 posts
thewall2: THE WALL is not gonna change for anybody.




That's good and all, but what about those socks and undies?grin
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#8
Jul 12, 2008 1:50 PM CST Don't CHANGE
gongman
gongmangongmanCarcassone, Occitanie France28 Threads 2 Polls 515 Posts
gongmanCarcassone, Occitanie France515 posts
Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~Dr. Seuss
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#9
Jul 12, 2008 1:54 PM CST Don't CHANGE
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
gingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland4,139 posts
Well I like you all just the way you are............thumbs up wine
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#10
Jul 12, 2008 1:56 PM CST Don't CHANGE
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
Good for The Wall.. thumbs up


laugh wave
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#11
Jul 12, 2008 1:57 PM CST Don't CHANGE
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA8,986 posts
gingerb: Well I like you all just the way you are............


awww, thank you..hug
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#12
Jul 12, 2008 1:57 PM CST Don't CHANGE
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Hugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada25,438 posts
thewall2: THE WALL is not gonna change for anybody.



Neither is the Hugz!!!!!!!!!!!!!


wave tongue grin
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#13
Jul 12, 2008 1:59 PM CST Don't CHANGE
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
drivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA3,228 posts
Claayer: Good for The Wall..


What a cheesie smile.. devil










tongue
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#14
Jul 12, 2008 2:00 PM CST Don't CHANGE
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Hugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada25,438 posts
drivenbysound: What a cheesie smile..


tongue At least I have all my teeth.....wave grin
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#15
Jul 12, 2008 2:00 PM CST Don't CHANGE
crotalus_p
crotalus_pcrotalus_pRush, Dublin Ireland43 Threads 6 Polls 2,789 Posts
crotalus_pRush, Dublin Ireland2,789 posts
Claayer: Good for The Wall..


+1thumbs up grin
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#16
Jul 12, 2008 2:01 PM CST Don't CHANGE
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
drivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA3,228 posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Neither is the Hugz!!!!!!!!!!!!!


The Hugz changes for no one.. hug







Except when asked to.. popcorn
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#17
Jul 12, 2008 2:02 PM CST Don't CHANGE
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
drivenbysound: What a cheesie smile..


What a Dr Evil look.. snooty


laugh


wave hug
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#18
Jul 12, 2008 2:02 PM CST Don't CHANGE
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
drivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA3,228 posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: At least I have all my teeth.....


Yeah? Well, I used to have all of my hair.. wink
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#19
Jul 12, 2008 2:03 PM CST Don't CHANGE
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
drivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA3,228 posts
Claayer: What a Dr Evil look..


rolling on the floor laughing


I want one million dollars, or else.. devil
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#20
Jul 12, 2008 2:04 PM CST Don't CHANGE
drivenbysound
drivenbysounddrivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA12 Threads 3,228 Posts
drivenbysoundSoutheast, Missouri USA3,228 posts
Sorry, Wall..I think I hijacked your thread.. hole
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