Why divorce? (25)
bijanEsfehan, Iran11 Threads 74 PostsWhy usually we divorce so soon? Why we can not have a permanent spousal life?
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bijan: Why usually we divorce so soon? Why we can not have a permanent spousal life?
You tell me and we'll both know.
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good question, but i don't think there is a reasonable answer to it to be honest....................people fall out of love maybe?
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I dunno, I suppose sometimes parole is warranted and necessary? 
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bijan: Why usually we divorce so soon? Why we can not have a permanent spousal life?
My ex husband had an affair for three years, so for me, it meant that I did not want a 'permanent spousal life' with him.
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Too many people are getting married?
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Indyfella: You tell me and we'll both know.
My idea. Not enough sacrifice anymore, especially when we have children.
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bijan: My idea. Not enough sacrifice anymore, especially when we have children.
but to sacrafice and live miserably? or sacrafice and live happily, it can go either way, i would be happy not sad.
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I really surprised that most of you said: "we do not know". Don' you think it is a very serious problem.
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irishlass45: but to sacrafice and live miserably? or sacrafice and live happily, it can go either way, i would be happy not sad.
What about childeren. Do they have right to be happy?
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bijan: I really surprised that most of you said: "we do not know". Don' you think it is a very serious problem.
yes and no, sorry nobody has the answer, everybody is different in their thoughts and beliefs just have to do what we know is best for ourselves.
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bijan: What about childeren. Do they have right to be happy?
they do, but when both parents are miserable how is that making them happy? don't you think they see things?
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I think it comes down to personality conflicts.
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Probably neither partner wants to give and take and there's usually no communication.
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irishlass45: they do, but when both parents are miserable how is that making them happy? don't you think they see things?
Okay, I know what do you mean, but usually we are very reday to btreak ties for nothing
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bijan: Okay, I know what do you mean, but usually we are very reday to btreak ties for nothing
oh i agree whole heartedly, trust that, really easy to just get a divorce but also easy to marry, people just grow apart because like i have said before, they quit doing what drew the other to them from the first and start doing things they didn't do from the first,,,,sad but true, going to sleep now, sorry there were no easy answers, bye a while
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bijan: Why usually we divorce so soon? Why we can not have a permanent spousal life?
I was married for 23 yrs..... in my case took lots of courage to leave.
Stress of being with the ex.... brought on health issues etc. Even my kids are happy to be away from him.
A marriage will not work, if only one person is doing all the work and sacrifices all of themselves to do so.
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Two words: Fairy Tales.
Too often we think of marriage as a fairy tale. A girl meets her "prince charming" and the guy meets his "princess" and they think getting married is the pinnacle of their relationship. The "happy ending".
What we as a society need to realize is that marriage isn't a fairy tale. It's a commitment to hard work, understanding, and devotion to another person. I believe couples freshly getting married don't really consider the "...for worse" "in sickness" "til death" parts of their vows when they're both pie-eyed for each other.
We need to understand that a marriage is a "happy beginning" not a "happy ending" and we need to start treating it that way. Marriage is a huge commitment, and an everlasting responsibility.
Too often we think of marriage as a fairy tale. A girl meets her "prince charming" and the guy meets his "princess" and they think getting married is the pinnacle of their relationship. The "happy ending".
What we as a society need to realize is that marriage isn't a fairy tale. It's a commitment to hard work, understanding, and devotion to another person. I believe couples freshly getting married don't really consider the "...for worse" "in sickness" "til death" parts of their vows when they're both pie-eyed for each other.
We need to understand that a marriage is a "happy beginning" not a "happy ending" and we need to start treating it that way. Marriage is a huge commitment, and an everlasting responsibility.
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my wife left me for another guy because i worked alot she said she got lonely we never got to go out and on the rare occasion that there was time i was just too give out to go out
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jackohearts81: Two words: Fairy Tales.
Too often we think of marriage as a fairy tale. A girl meets her "prince charming" and the guy meets his "princess" and they think getting married is the pinnacle of their relationship. The "happy ending".
What we as a society need to realize is that marriage isn't a fairy tale. It's a commitment to hard work, understanding, and devotion to another person. I believe couples freshly getting married don't really consider the "...for worse" "in sickness" "til death" parts of their vows when they're both pie-eyed for each other.
We need to understand that a marriage is a "happy beginning" not a "happy ending" and we need to start treating it that way. Marriage is a huge commitment, and an everlasting responsibility.
Too often we think of marriage as a fairy tale. A girl meets her "prince charming" and the guy meets his "princess" and they think getting married is the pinnacle of their relationship. The "happy ending".
What we as a society need to realize is that marriage isn't a fairy tale. It's a commitment to hard work, understanding, and devotion to another person. I believe couples freshly getting married don't really consider the "...for worse" "in sickness" "til death" parts of their vows when they're both pie-eyed for each other.
We need to understand that a marriage is a "happy beginning" not a "happy ending" and we need to start treating it that way. Marriage is a huge commitment, and an everlasting responsibility.
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