Hahah I dont do it, that's the thing. My heart is not there for people just to crush. I'll sit back and wait until I know it feels right to put my heart out there again. I think a lot of people rush into things and open up their hearts way too quickly.
>>> Not this chickie. All good things come to those who wait.
Katine76againMoncton, New Brunswick Canada115 posts
I have done it before and honestly I have no explanation except that I think sometimes I have this sign on my back that says: "Hey I am stupid, date me!"
But if anything I think some of us learn from those experiences and know what to watch out for next time and take our time.
Now I think that if the man really does like me and cares that much then he will be patient when I ask him to take things slowly and if not then he obviously wasn't the one for me period!
Just learn from what you wrote and take your time and get to know someone really well first. That is the only thing we can do. And pray that they don't change later on (as some do unfortunatly)
Katine76again: I have done it before and honestly I have no explanation except that I think sometimes I have this sign on my back that says: "Hey I am stupid, date me!"
But if anything I think some of us learn from those experiences and know what to watch out for next time and take our time.
Now I think that if the man really does like me and cares that much then he will be patient when I ask him to take things slowly and if not then he obviously wasn't the one for me period!
Just learn from what you wrote and take your time and get to know someone really well first. That is the only thing we can do. And pray that they don't change later on (as some do unfortunatly)
sxc666: Hahah I dont do it, that's the thing. My heart is not there for people just to crush. I'll sit back and wait until I know it feels right to put my heart out there again. I think a lot of people rush into things and open up their hearts way too quickly.>>> Not this chickie. All good things come to those who wait.
The only approach
It took me longer to learn that but I got there too
Now I think that if the man really does like me and cares that much then he will be patient when I ask him to take things slowly and if not then he obviously wasn't the one for me period!
life proves it again, and again... NEVER fails
Katine76again:
Just learn from what you wrote and take your time and get to know someone really well first. That is the only thing we can do. And pray that they don't change later on (as some do unfortunatly)
They don't change - how they feel about their partner does - they don't
No I will not put myself out there, I do not feel their is any man for me or it would have happened by now. I have been on my own for 21 years with not even one date, should tell me something.
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