Dealing with rejection hurts.................... (6)

Jul 29, 2008 3:41 AM CST Dealing with rejection hurts....................
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
This is very painful to say the least.
What did I do to deserve this? is the first thing we ask.
What did I do wrong? Could I have done something to prevent it from
happening?
We blame ourselves first and can get stuck in that question.

Well maybe we are really not to be blamed but the other person is.
In my case is was my mother first, she would tell me that I irritated her.
Found out later my mother had to give up her first child or my dad would not have married her. This first baby came about after and 8 year long engament.
The man dropped my mom when she became pregnant.

The second rejection came when the man I had met at fourteen and came to Canada with, started to cheat to bolster his ego.
So there I was 28 years old and had no clue about dating etc.
I always had my husband to take care of things and now at this age I stood alone for the first time.

teddybear
Jul 29, 2008 6:49 AM CST Dealing with rejection hurts....................
KHD100
KHD100KHD100Edmonton, Alberta Canada129 Threads 3 Polls 2,495 Posts
Rejection can be painful.
Jul 29, 2008 12:27 PM CST Dealing with rejection hurts....................
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Yes it IS very painful and it leaves at times life long scares.teddybear
Nov 2, 2009 8:32 PM CST Dealing with rejection hurts....................
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
bump
Nov 3, 2009 12:55 AM CST Dealing with rejection hurts....................
gordy22222
gordy22222gordy22222whitehorse, Yukon Territory Canada22 Threads 3 Polls 938 Posts
are you doin o k now jen??
gordy
Nov 5, 2009 8:32 AM CST Dealing with rejection hurts....................
Readybake101
Readybake101Readybake101Dundurn, Saskatchewan Canada12 Threads 2 Polls 162 Posts
I hear you dear lady. I have never been rejected in the early years nor have I seen much of it, however I know about it now. If you can please volunteer with the underprivileged children. They have so much to teach us all. They are a little mean at times but holy macadamia, do they ever appreciate a piece of the pie from some one who listens!

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