marriage ?? (178)
dillydally: sorry but i need some info on this subject
whats the difference with being married and just living with someone ?(apart from the obvious) all week iv seen the same thing "il never get married again"
is it that bad ?
what would you say to a first timer wanting to get married ?? (yeah that would be me)
whats the difference with being married and just living with someone ?(apart from the obvious) all week iv seen the same thing "il never get married again"
is it that bad ?
what would you say to a first timer wanting to get married ?? (yeah that would be me)
I have been married once, I have no burning need to get married again, but I would if I found the right man and we both felt we wanted to do it.
In England, when you live with a person after six months you become 'common law' man and wife.
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Sommerauer71: I have been married once, I have no burning need to get married again, but I would if I found the right man and we both felt we wanted to do it.
In England, when you live with a person after six months you become 'common law' man and wife.
In England, when you live with a person after six months you become 'common law' man and wife.
i live in the uk and yeah thats quite normal ,but i see living with someone the same as marriage ,others dont so id like to know there difference
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I once heard a relationship expert say that living with someone without being married could be detrimental tot he relationship for this reason...
When a couple is not married there is no sense of permanence, either party is free to leave at any time. If the couple lives together for a while, and then gets married, then they tend to carry that feeling of impermanence with them into their marriage.
Personally, I feel like courts should make a divorce more difficult to obtain, and sort of force couples to take a look at themselves and how to work on staying together. Broken familes make broken children, and broken children grow up to make broken families.
When a couple is not married there is no sense of permanence, either party is free to leave at any time. If the couple lives together for a while, and then gets married, then they tend to carry that feeling of impermanence with them into their marriage.
Personally, I feel like courts should make a divorce more difficult to obtain, and sort of force couples to take a look at themselves and how to work on staying together. Broken familes make broken children, and broken children grow up to make broken families.
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dillydally: i live in the uk and yeah thats quite normal ,but i see living with someone the same as marriage ,others dont so id like to know there difference
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dillydally: what would you say to a first timer wanting to get married ?? (yeah that would be me)
i`d say.....i never knew what happiness was till i got married
but then it was to friggen late...lol
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diogenes: I once heard a relationship expert say that living with someone without being married could be detrimental tot he relationship for this reason...
When a couple is not married there is no sense of permanence, either party is free to leave at any time. If the couple lives together for a while, and then gets married, then they tend to carry that feeling of impermanence with them into their marriage.
Personally, I feel like courts should make a divorce more difficult to obtain, and sort of force couples to take a look at themselves and how to work on staying together. Broken familes make broken children, and broken children grow up to make broken families.
When a couple is not married there is no sense of permanence, either party is free to leave at any time. If the couple lives together for a while, and then gets married, then they tend to carry that feeling of impermanence with them into their marriage.
Personally, I feel like courts should make a divorce more difficult to obtain, and sort of force couples to take a look at themselves and how to work on staying together. Broken familes make broken children, and broken children grow up to make broken families.
very true
il ask then ,would you ever get married again ? 
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dillydally: i live in the uk and yeah thats quite normal ,but i see living with someone the same as marriage ,others dont so id like to know there difference
Well for me, it is about a piece of paper and I suppose you think it protects you, that it is meant to be forever, however divorce statistics show that not to be the case.
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I will never marry
I will live with somebody
So it doesn't matter to me
I will live with somebody
So it doesn't matter to me
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cottonelle: i`d say.....i never knew what happiness was till i got married
but then it was to friggen late...lol
but then it was to friggen late...lol
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dillydally: very true il ask then ,would you ever get married again ?
I very well may, but I am definitely going to be much more selective about who I marry.
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diogenes: I once heard a relationship expert say that living with someone without being married could be detrimental tot he relationship for this reason...
When a couple is not married there is no sense of permanence, either party is free to leave at any time. If the couple lives together for a while, and then gets married, then they tend to carry that feeling of impermanence with them into their marriage.
Personally, I feel like courts should make a divorce more difficult to obtain, and sort of force couples to take a look at themselves and how to work on staying together. Broken familes make broken children, and broken children grow up to make broken families.
When a couple is not married there is no sense of permanence, either party is free to leave at any time. If the couple lives together for a while, and then gets married, then they tend to carry that feeling of impermanence with them into their marriage.
Personally, I feel like courts should make a divorce more difficult to obtain, and sort of force couples to take a look at themselves and how to work on staying together. Broken familes make broken children, and broken children grow up to make broken families.
I can see that all makes sense, I think there should be less people getting married, therefore there would be less divorces.
People give up too easily, because they know they can, although on saying that, there are many who live together and raise children successfully without being married.
I just do not get the problem that being married causes.
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Sommerauer71: Well for me, it is about a piece of paper and I suppose you think it protects you, that it is meant to be forever, however divorce statistics show that not to be the case.
i agree with dio when he says it should be harder to get a divorce ,when i get married ,to me ,its for life no matter the circumstances ,i wont get nor give him a divorce no matter what happens .
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dillydally: i agree with dio when he says it should be harder to get a divorce ,when i get married ,to me ,its for life no matter the circumstances ,i wont get nor give him a divorce no matter what happens .
So if it was not working out, you would not divorce him at all?
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shipoker55: I will never marry
I will live with somebody
So it doesn't matter to me
I will live with somebody
So it doesn't matter to me
do you feel that living with someone is enough ? just curious ,how do the view marriage altogether ?
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dillydally: do you feel that living with someone is enough ? just curious ,how do you view marriage altogether ?
sorry
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dillydally: sorry but i need some info on this subject
whats the difference with being married and just living with someone ?(apart from the obvious) all week iv seen the same thing "il never get married again"
is it that bad ?
what would you say to a first timer wanting to get married ?? (yeah that would be me)
I think it's just great! If it is what you want then by all means you can have it all. I wish you a long and lovely marriage ny dear. btw, did you get proposed to?? who is it?whats the difference with being married and just living with someone ?(apart from the obvious) all week iv seen the same thing "il never get married again"
is it that bad ?
what would you say to a first timer wanting to get married ?? (yeah that would be me)
all the best
;-}
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I meant to say I will NOT live with anyone!!
sorry
sorry
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Sommerauer71: So if it was not working out, you would not divorce him at all?
no ,he may leave and live his own life ,but no i wont give him a divorce .
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keytone: I think it's just great! If it is what you want then by all means you can have it all. I wish you a long and lovely marriage ny my dear. btw, did you get proposed to?? who is it?
all the best
;-}
all the best
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whats the difference with being married and just living with someone ?(apart from the obvious) all week iv seen the same thing "il never get married again"
is it that bad ?
what would you say to a first timer wanting to get married ?? (yeah that would be me)