Some issues or matters u should have discussed .. (71)
I think people should disclose all memberships to singles and dating websites.... I mean ... if they still have an account for a match making website..... maybe you should reconsider getting married....
but i'm old fashioned..... I only believe in getting married once....
um, other things that should be discussed..... ones T-cell count, any burning of itching....
everything else is pretty much plain luck
IE, everything should be open for discussion, if not.... become a statistic.
but i'm old fashioned..... I only believe in getting married once....
um, other things that should be discussed..... ones T-cell count, any burning of itching....
everything else is pretty much plain luck
IE, everything should be open for discussion, if not.... become a statistic.
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I think usually the things which make a big difference later on are usually the little things .. ..
But some major issues also like ..
* Religion and faith issues.
* Parental interference
But some major issues also like ..
* Religion and faith issues.
* Parental interference
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JusDoinMytingYo: I think people should disclose all memberships to singles and dating websites.... I mean ... if they still have an account for a match making website..... maybe you should reconsider getting married....but i'm old fashioned..... I only believe in getting married once....um, other things that should be discussed..... ones T-cell count, any burning of itching.... everything else is pretty much plain luck
IE, everything should be open for discussion, if not.... become a statistic.
IE, everything should be open for discussion, if not.... become a statistic.
Initially i thought u were joking in the T cell part ... then i got it
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small things will stay small unless you let them gather in a corner and set a gallon of insecurity next to them.... then boom....
I find it hilarious when I hear about couples getting married after only knowing each other for a few months..... It cracks me up....
I've seen so many people I graduated with get divorces... It's great because I get to say, "I told you so."
I find it hilarious when I hear about couples getting married after only knowing each other for a few months..... It cracks me up....
I've seen so many people I graduated with get divorces... It's great because I get to say, "I told you so."
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JusDoinMytingYo: small things will stay small unless you let them gather in a corner and set a gallon of insecurity next to them.... then boom....
I find it hilarious when I hear about couples getting married after only knowing each other for a few months..... It cracks me up....
I've seen so many people I graduated with get divorces... It's great because I get to say, "I told you so."
I find it hilarious when I hear about couples getting married after only knowing each other for a few months..... It cracks me up....
I've seen so many people I graduated with get divorces... It's great because I get to say, "I told you so."
I think its scary ..
not forgetting out here .. i mean in India still mostly its arranged marriages and usually wherein u dont have much time to actually get to know the person and quite a few are happy and most of them last ..
scary yet ..
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happy is a relative condition.
I think most are not happy, just complacent.
I think most are not happy, just complacent.
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riyablossom: I think its scary ..
not forgetting out here .. i mean in India still mostly its arranged marriages and usually wherein u dont have much time to actually get to know the person and quite a few are happy and most of them last ..
scary yet ..
not forgetting out here .. i mean in India still mostly its arranged marriages and usually wherein u dont have much time to actually get to know the person and quite a few are happy and most of them last ..
scary yet ..
Ya know, I can't even imagine that, marrying someone my parents picked for me?
But y'all may have something, it seems to work better than our system, but is everyone really happy? 
I don't think I could be, but then again I could be wrong.
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Ok, to your question. Things I should have discussed before I got married.
Are you gonna beat me up when you get pissed off?
Are you gonna keep running the bars and effing everything in sight?
Are you gonna give up on life and drown yourself in beer?
These are some little things it would have been nice to know ahead of time.
Are you gonna beat me up when you get pissed off?
Are you gonna keep running the bars and effing everything in sight?
Are you gonna give up on life and drown yourself in beer?
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Beer.
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alabamabebe: Ok, to your question. Things I should have discussed before I got married.
Are you gonna beat me up when you get pissed off?
Are you gonna keep running the bars and effing everything in sight?
Are you gonna give up on life and drown yourself in beer? These are some little things it would have been nice to know ahead of time.
Are you gonna beat me up when you get pissed off?
Are you gonna keep running the bars and effing everything in sight?
Are you gonna give up on life and drown yourself in beer? These are some little things it would have been nice to know ahead of time.
Wow, you must have really picked a winner last time.
speaking of brewski's I think I'll go get a cold one.
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riyablossom: I think its scary ..
not forgetting out here .. i mean in India still mostly its arranged marriages and usually wherein u dont have much time to actually get to know the person and quite a few are happy and most of them last ..
scary yet ..
I can't even imaginenot forgetting out here .. i mean in India still mostly its arranged marriages and usually wherein u dont have much time to actually get to know the person and quite a few are happy and most of them last ..
scary yet ..
how does that work for you Riya? do you have a choice?? I really am clueless...I think your thread is a good one, I think many times people are so caught up in the moment they do not ask some of these questions which in the long run will have a very strong affect on the relation be it marriage or even a friendship for that matter.;-}
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my old supervisor Shipra was from India and had an arranged marriage her and her hubby were sooooo cute and loved each other so much.
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keytone: I can't even imagine how does that work for you Riya? do you have a choice?? I really am clueless...I think your thread is a good one, I think many times people are so caught up in the moment they do not ask some of these questions which in the long run will have a very strong affect on the relation be it marriage or even a friendship for that matter.
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yeah, they get so caught up in the moment of marriage that they don't wake up until the divorce.
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JusDoinMytingYo: Wow, you must have really picked a winner last time.
speaking of brewski's I think I'll go get a cold one.
Wasn't just one. And yeah, I knew how to pick em! speaking of brewski's I think I'll go get a cold one.
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riyablossom: Before u said i do .. be it marriage or relationship .. which today you feel might have made a difference if u had discussed or shared ..
Is there anything like that u think u would like to share ...
On the other hand .. what do u think are key things that should be discussed before u make the big decision ..
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Who does the cooking!!! Is there anything like that u think u would like to share ...
On the other hand .. what do u think are key things that should be discussed before u make the big decision ..
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riyablossom: Before u said i do .. be it marriage or relationship .. which today you feel might have made a difference if u had discussed or shared ..
Is there anything like that u think u would like to share ...
On the other hand .. what do u think are key things that should be discussed before u make the big decision ..
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Is there anything like that u think u would like to share ...
On the other hand .. what do u think are key things that should be discussed before u make the big decision ..
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I should have checked on Riya's availability before taking the plunge! lol
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Is there anything like that u think u would like to share ...
On the other hand .. what do u think are key things that should be discussed before u make the big decision ..
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