Why are sooo many guys on dating sites wanting to date much older women? (68)
Oh la la very well said Kim:It surely answers my question teddybear: 
Well to throw my rock into the pile, I have met people who are 20 and are more mature than some people I have met who are 50. I have met people who are 60 who have to go back and redo life because they missed a few lessons. Those could be the ones who take up the fad of dating and getting into relationships with kids or much younger boy/girl toys, arm candy...whatever the term is these days.
Menopause, mentalpause, I pay attention to none of it. I also believe that a lot of people have some issues about getting older gracefully and have trouble letting go of the things of youth and need the boy toys, girl toys whatever toys. Youth is fine, but been there and did it....have the scars to prove it too. Don't need to be reminded of it.
But hey, the age is not important as much as the processing going on between the ears that counts and how that processing manifests itself in day to day goings on.
Those 30-50 yo guys?....us kids.
I am going to go practice in the mirror now saying " Yo " and " Dude " now....c u later.
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Menopause, mentalpause, I pay attention to none of it. I also believe that a lot of people have some issues about getting older gracefully and have trouble letting go of the things of youth and need the boy toys, girl toys whatever toys. Youth is fine, but been there and did it....have the scars to prove it too. Don't need to be reminded of it.
But hey, the age is not important as much as the processing going on between the ears that counts and how that processing manifests itself in day to day goings on.
Those 30-50 yo guys?....us kids.
I am going to go practice in the mirror now saying " Yo " and " Dude " now....c u later.Ad
I find that people are people not matter how old they are. My own Experience latley has been interesting, the men I come across are all 30 and younger and believe me they do not care how old I am, I am 45 years old but I dont feel that way - I am learning that age is just a number and life is to short to be worried about what people think.
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sincerly Tracie
Personally I am looking for long time.
I was 69 when I received emails from guys, who too said age was just a number, 24 was the youngest. Anybody home???
Between 40-50 where most of the men.
Humour too; One man wrote; Age is just a number; I am 70 years old. looking for a woman between 50-60. It was obvious he was refering to his own age that did not matter. lol
So at the most ten years younger would be my limit.
I don't want to rob the cradle and I am not a teacher either.
As I said in the beginning I am looking for long term with someone who
I am things with in common.
I was 69 when I received emails from guys, who too said age was just a number, 24 was the youngest. Anybody home???
Between 40-50 where most of the men.
Humour too; One man wrote; Age is just a number; I am 70 years old. looking for a woman between 50-60. It was obvious he was refering to his own age that did not matter. lol
So at the most ten years younger would be my limit.
I don't want to rob the cradle and I am not a teacher either.
As I said in the beginning I am looking for long term with someone who
I am things with in common.
As I am repeatedly being told by the 20 to 30 yr olds who contact me....older women are seen as having more experience and r believed to be less likely to cheat.
Then there's the I want a visa factor as I call it in which younger men from other countries see older single women as easy targets,figuring we were all born yesterday and will fall over them with gratitude for the attention they bestow on us....
uuuuuuuuuuuuuummmmmm in either case.....no thanks. 
Then there's the I want a visa factor as I call it in which younger men from other countries see older single women as easy targets,figuring we were all born yesterday and will fall over them with gratitude for the attention they bestow on us....
uuuuuuuuuuuuuummmmmm in either case.....no thanks.
hollandgirl: The fad seems to be today for a lot of women to want boy toys.
Well I think this is totally nuts.
I have had mostly guys in their 30-50 and younger, email me.
They all "soo love" older women.
They can teach us. Oh really? well guys I am still learning myself.
What can you have in common with kids so young, you can't spent all your time in bed.
Besides If he could be my son, age wise, I could never go there.
Well I think this is totally nuts.
I have had mostly guys in their 30-50 and younger, email me.
They all "soo love" older women.
They can teach us. Oh really? well guys I am still learning myself.
What can you have in common with kids so young, you can't spent all your time in bed.
Besides If he could be my son, age wise, I could never go there.
That's news to me dating older women that is
but if this is true it could be less drama , I have also heard this many times "The drama of it all etc 
It's pretty simple , men love older more mature woman ..
They are more confident in themselves and is not obsessed with trying to be barbie ..
they know exactly what they want and are not afraid to tell you ..
They are more assertive in bed ..and know exactly how to please
They are more confident in themselves and is not obsessed with trying to be barbie ..
they know exactly what they want and are not afraid to tell you ..
They are more assertive in bed ..and know exactly how to please
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