Should we intensely seek for love or just let love find us?
P.S. i just saw a note on a profile where he states he is tired of seeking and seeking and that from now on he will just wait to be found by love. And i was wondering.....could he be right? (well, i act the same like him but there is somewhere a small doubt ... )
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I think true love does find us, it is then up to us how much time we want to invest in it.
I do not seek anyone, but if I connect with a person then I know it will be right if I find myself wanting to speak to him alot and if he likes me then he will make the effort.
Sommerauer71: I think true love does find us, it is then up to us how much time we want to invest in it.
I do not seek anyone, but if I connect with a person then I know it will be right if I find myself wanting to speak to him alot and if he likes me then he will make the effort.
if so , it means fate has a great role in all this thing....what abt the idea of making ur own destiny and keep fighting and searching until u achieve what u want? ( deep in my heart i believe the same thing like you....is just now i am trying to understand the other side of the coin )
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
I promised never to "hunt" again...like really go out for the purpose of feeling my heart beat...
I'll meet him in the office
The love that i'm looking for is about weighing both paths in life, how we see and walk through life. See if it is possible to give hands and smile with no fear to get there because we know we want to get there. It takes time to want that together but it takes one minute to find out that he is not going to want to walk that path.
Sommerauer71: I think true love does find us, it is then up to us how much time we want to invest in it.
I do not seek anyone, but if I connect with a person then I know it will be right if I find myself wanting to speak to him alot and if he likes me then he will make the effort.
This is very nicely said.
It seems to me the harder one looks, the less they see. Then one day, bam!
I'd go with the whole "let love find me" instead of going look for it thing. In my experience, whenever you find it is when you are least expecting it and not necessarily looking for it. I'm a big believer in fate too. If its meant to happen, it will.....JMO
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
Emanuellla: thank you all for replying but......what are we doin on CS then? aren't we subconsciously looking for that special charming prince/princess?
No, we are subconstiously being as picky as possible! The perfection that we can't find in real life, we hope to find it here
Emanuellla: Should we intensely seek for love or just let love find us?
P.S. i just saw a note on a profile where he states he is tired of seeking and seeking and that from now on he will just wait to be found by love. And i was wondering.....could he be right? (well, i act the same like him but there is somewhere a small doubt ... )
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There are a lot of ladies on this site that say they want love to find them and that they are not going to look for it.. the way I see it, if they don't look then they could miss that once in a life time true love.
I mean look at it this way, what if this lady is so beautiful, and the guy is afraid to say anything for fear of rejection, he may be thinking, hey she would never want a guy like me, or this lady is thinking, I wish that guy would talk to me, but because she won't try, and he is to afraid to ask.. there ya go, nothing ever happens, and we just continue to get older, and waste precious time that could have alread been spent with someone whom will love you for the rest of your life..
I say get rid of all the problems why you can't get together, and start comming up with ways to get get together
cristina: No, we are subconstiously being as picky as possible! The perfection that we can't find in real life, we hope to find it here
cristina, the people on the other side of this computer screen are very real, and do have real feelings... so this is part of real life, it's just communication in a different way.. not trying to offend by stating that btw
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P.S. i just saw a note on a profile where he states he is tired of seeking and seeking and that from now on he will just wait to be found by love. And i was wondering.....could he be right? (well, i act the same like him but there is somewhere a small doubt ... )
help me figure this out ( the money are guaranteed )