Why are CS relationships of a very short time? ( Archived) (156)

Aug 7, 2008 11:17 AM CST Why are CS relationships of a very short time?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
I'm sorry, this is a sour thread. But, why?People out there stay longer! at least 1 year is normal, starting from when you really get to see each other. Forget about being in love for 6 months before meeting.

Why do you come here in a short period after and tell us it's over? Don't start it in the first place or don't tell us!

Maybe you are not a relationship type, maybe you are not that serious! Maybe you should really start looking to yourself and stop thinking that this is the honey source. Maybe you should stop thinking that love is only about when everything is honey! Don't think that another girl who is always writting "hahaha" is better to be with!

You make us believe that this site is not serious!

I think you're not normal

uh oh

I love CSdancing
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Aug 7, 2008 11:22 AM CST Why are CS relationships of a very short time?
Xtabentun
XtabentunXtabentunOntario, Canada18 Threads 1,722 Posts
cristina: I'm sorry, this is a sour thread. But, why?People out there stay longer! at least 1 year is normal, starting from when you really get to see each other. Forget about being in love for 6 months before meeting.

Why do you come here in a short period after and tell us it's over? Don't start it in the first place or don't tell us!

Maybe you are not a relationship type, maybe you are not that serious! Maybe you should really start looking to yourself and stop thinking that this is the honey source. Maybe you should stop thinking that love is only about when everything is honey! Don't think that another girl who is always writting "hahaha" is better to be with!

You make us believe that this site is not serious!

I think you're not normal



I love CS


comfort You go sis! cheering Tough day today?
roll eyes

conversing Who's not normal, by the way? confused
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Aug 7, 2008 11:23 AM CST Why are CS relationships of a very short time?
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
I sort of didnt get a lot of the OP ..

But i will answer to the thread title .. I guess cos its difficult to entirely analyze a person while on the net ..

Better way to answer this would be ... personally , I would prefer to meet this someone i have an interest or possibility of an interest in... see if the basic chemistry and liking for each other exists .. then carry it to a further level .. talking , discussing etc ..

I would find it fascinating and rather very sweet to fall for someone from the internet before i have met them in person but .. its not for me .. knowing myself i know my doubts wont rest.
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Aug 7, 2008 11:25 AM CST Why are CS relationships of a very short time?
Xtabentun
XtabentunXtabentunOntario, Canada18 Threads 1,722 Posts
riyablossom: I sort of didnt get a lot of the OP ..

But i will answer to the thread title .. I guess cos its difficult to entirely analyze a person while on the net ..

Better way to answer this would be ... personally , I would prefer to meet this someone i have an interest or possibility of an interest in... see if the basic chemistry and liking for each other exists .. then carry it to a further level .. talking , discussing etc ..

I would find it fascinating and rather very sweet to fall for someone from the internet before i have met them in person but .. its not for me .. knowing myself i know my doubts wont rest.


Let's give Chris a double espressowink , heard it's good for eloquence dunno

roll eyes
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Aug 7, 2008 11:26 AM CST Why are CS relationships of a very short time?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
cristina: I'm sorry, this is a sour thread. But, why?People out there stay longer! at least 1 year is normal, starting from when you really get to see each other. Forget about being in love for 6 months before meeting.

Why do you come here in a short period after and tell us it's over? Don't start it in the first place or don't tell us!

Maybe you are not a relationship type, maybe you are not that serious! Maybe you should really start looking to yourself and stop thinking that this is the honey source. Maybe you should stop thinking that love is only about when everything is honey! Don't think that another girl who is always writting "hahaha" is better to be with!

You make us believe that this site is not serious!

I think you're not normal



I love CS



Cristina

Hi, I am a tad confused.

Are you suggesting that people should not post when they are having dates?
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Aug 7, 2008 11:31 AM CST Why are CS relationships of a very short time?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
riyablossom: I sort of didnt get a lot of the OP ..

But i will answer to the thread title .. I guess cos its difficult to entirely analyze a person while on the net ..

Better way to answer this would be ... personally , I would prefer to meet this someone i have an interest or possibility of an interest in... see if the basic chemistry and liking for each other exists .. then carry it to a further level .. talking , discussing etc ..

I would find it fascinating and rather very sweet to fall for someone from the internet before i have met them in person but .. its not for me .. knowing myself i know my doubts wont rest.


You didn't understand why i wote this or my English is so bad? Anyway, thanks for your lovely post, it's an acceptable answer!


The thread is not directed to someone in particular, just get pissed off in seing people always "trying" in here. As quick as they fall in love, they come back!

It's a free site, yes, just to suggest them to grow up!
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Aug 7, 2008 11:33 AM CST Why are CS relationships of a very short time?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Sommerauer71: Cristina

Hi, I am a tad confused.

Are you suggesting that people should not post when they are having dates?


I'm suggesting that they should not celebrate here when they are not sure of the relationship!

If a person comes and goes every three months...i mean, why should that person be serious?
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Aug 7, 2008 11:34 AM CST Why are CS relationships of a very short time?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Some are not accepting of others for who & what they are. They meet someone and then attempt to mold them into the person they really want.

Some are so consumed with fear they will never learn "real" love.

Some are control freaks, "they" always know what is best for everyone else.

Some simply want to get fr***ed.

Some want what they think another has.

Some need another to "complete" them, they are not a whole by their own right.

Some (many) cannot look at "themselves", they have way to much hate for the one in the mirror.


Look into the mirror, say these words to that beautiful human being looking back at you. "I love you."wink
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Aug 7, 2008 11:34 AM CST Why are CS relationships of a very short time?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Let's give Chris a double espresso , heard it's good for eloquence[/quote

I like thatwink

kiss
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Aug 7, 2008 11:35 AM CST Why are CS relationships of a very short time?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
Sommerauer71: Cristina

Hi, I am a tad confused.

Are you suggesting that people should not post when they are having dates?
I think I understand exactly what she's saying. Not that people shouldn't post when they have dates, but that they should save the everlasting love talk till they maybe actually know the person? dunno Just a thought.
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Aug 7, 2008 11:35 AM CST Why are CS relationships of a very short time?
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
cristina: You didn't understand why i wote this or my English is so bad? Anyway, thanks for your lovely post, it's an acceptable answer!The thread is not directed to someone in particular, just get pissed off in seing people always "trying" in here. As quick as they fall in love, they come back!

It's a free site, yes, just to suggest them to grow up!


No no its not the english .. i didnt understand why .. i get it now ..
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Aug 7, 2008 11:36 AM CST Why are CS relationships of a very short time?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
cristina: I'm suggesting that they should not celebrate here when they are not sure of the relationship!

If a person comes and goes every three months...i mean, why should that person be serious?


Maybe it is an ego thing.

Maybe they want others to be happy for them because they do not know happiness comes from within..

Maybe they others to be envious of them..


dunno

sigh
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Aug 7, 2008 11:37 AM CST Why are CS relationships of a very short time?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
alabamabebe: I think I understand exactly what she's saying. Not that people shouldn't post when they have dates, but that they should save the everlasting love talk till they maybe actually know the person? Just a thought.


Some cannot "think" for themselves..rolling on the floor laughing



uh oh




hole
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Aug 7, 2008 11:39 AM CST Why are CS relationships of a very short time?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
HJFinAZ: Some need another to "complete" them, they are not a whole by their own right.

Some (many) cannot look at "themselves", they have way to much hate for the one in the mirror.Look into the mirror, say these words to that beautiful human being looking back at you. "I love you."
You've nailed it HJF, people who are so desparate for a relationship that they will grab hold of anything that comes by, it's really just too sad. If you need someone else that bad to complete you, you'll never find it. You have to be complete in yourself before you can be happy with another.
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Aug 7, 2008 11:40 AM CST Why are CS relationships of a very short time?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
cristina: I'm suggesting that they should not celebrate here when they are not sure of the relationship!

If a person comes and goes every three months...i mean, why should that person be serious?



Thank you Cristina, I see where you are coming from now.

I guess that people do that fro mexcitement, I do not subscribe to it, but I guess some people do, I just accept that people are different and handle things in different ways.
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Aug 7, 2008 11:41 AM CST Why are CS relationships of a very short time?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
alabamabebe: You've nailed it HJF, people who are so desparate for a relationship that they will grab hold of anything that comes by, it's really just too sad. If you need someone else that bad to complete you, you'll never find it. You have to be complete in yourself before you can be happy with another.


What she said!
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Aug 7, 2008 11:42 AM CST Why are CS relationships of a very short time?
Xtabentun
XtabentunXtabentunOntario, Canada18 Threads 1,722 Posts
While we're all adults in here and many of us share the same values, we can expect people to act according to them.

To each their own, I don't applaud what they do but I can't condemn it either, is not my right to do so. As far as I noticed, there were few success couples that did share their feelings on the site and they are still married to this day. There are plenty other who didn’t.

I guess it’s all about the individuals.

I do wonder sometimes about people’s naivety but if they are setting themselves up for it, they need to know how to handle the outcome.

What is a pity is the “broken heart” threads…now that could have been avoided if only…….
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Aug 7, 2008 11:43 AM CST Why are CS relationships of a very short time?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
alabamabebe: I think I understand exactly what she's saying. Not that people shouldn't post when they have dates, but that they should save the everlasting love talk till they maybe actually know the person? Just a thought.


Yes!

I know it's hurt to keep that lovely nerve. You can talk about it but not come here celebrate and actually tell everyone how both are serious and then pfff! I mean, don't those people know what's the meaning of a serious relationship?
How many times you have a hot feeling here that lasts for long weeks? And then come here and stay you are very serious about it?

Just to let you know...i might not be serious on my comments about it when you split!
The same way you fight for a relationship in real life, why not fight if the CS partner is a great deal? Why not take it seriously in a traditional way? That makes me think that you are not serious enough or haven't really learned with your mistakes!

Don't you know yourself by now? What's good for you? I'm sorry if you are looking for short dates, this doesn't apply to you!
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Aug 7, 2008 11:43 AM CST Why are CS relationships of a very short time?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
cristina: I'm suggesting that they should not celebrate here when they are not sure of the relationship!

If a person comes and goes every three months...i mean, why should that person be serious?


I celebrated meeting one man. We have no beef, even if it ended.

No, no dirty laundry.....wink


kiss
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Aug 7, 2008 11:43 AM CST Why are CS relationships of a very short time?
tufty
tuftytuftyChelmsford, Essex, England UK4 Threads 816 Posts
cristina:
Why do you come here in a short period after and tell us it's over?



Maybe. because they finally met... In person.... the person of thier dreams... I don't really think "relationships" as such can really be called "relationships" till you've "met" the person face to face and spent quality time getting to know them
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