Younger men chosing older woman (29)

So, guy's point of view? Is it flattering to have a young woman want to meet you. It seems to me that most guys on these sites are looking for much younger women, while women are looking for same age guys. When I see a guy in his 50's post that he would like to meet an 18 year old it makes me kind of queasy! But I'm really new to all this - Thoughts?

Just be cautious. Reading profiles gives a person an idea if it is real.
When corresponding to someone write to them through this site. At Least till you are comfortable with them. Fake profiles always are from some distance away. If they write, what they write will give them away.

I'm sorry, but I don't follow. How do they give themselves away? What am I watching for. (and thanks for the help by the way)

Scammers never dot their I's
Their English is bad.
They could live anywhere.
Often it is from a far away country.
They will soon ask you to go to yahoo messenger.
They "fall in love" very quickly.
Pictures are fake.
They have a least one child, who they love sooooo very much
This comes in handy when it won't take long before the child
gets sick and they ask you for money to help the child.

Several variations
Go too Google and type. romancescams or just scams

Thank you Hollandgirl.

I've seen my share of 20/20 and Dateline and I can't imagine ever sending money to someone that I met online, but then again, the women that they interview on those shows say the same thing...that they never thought they would get scammed.

I guess Loner1960 had the right idea, just stay on this site where it is relatively safe until I feel very sure about someone, whenever that could be.

But...nothing ventured, nothing gained? Better to have loved and lost...yada, yada, yada.

another things to watch for.

They give their e-mail address very quickly, to get you to bypass CS. Don't fall for this once you go to their web-site or write directly to their e-mail address they will have your e-mail address.

Take your time, this site is safe. Most of the people on CS are legitimate. Once you have been here awhile, you will learn what we are saying. Most of the fake profiles are fairly easy to spot. As in person to person contacts that you meet anywhere, (work, sport arenas, etc.) you get to know people by observing, or talking to them. It will be the same on CS.

I think that it is harder in this forum, cause in person you can observe body language, eye contact etc. My creep-o-metre is really good in person...I'm just not so sure in writing.

Okay, I am going to sound really naive now! What can someone do with your email address?

My experiance from another singles site about a year and half ago was when I naively gave my e-mail address. I suddenly got lots of spam. With spam they then will try to get you to open up their web-sites. Which in turn is to infect your computor with a virus, and/or to take control of your e-mail address for their many misdeeds. But you are probably are familiar in what to do in the way of protecting your computor.

Well guys....

I have been relationship with older women here 2 years.. First I come really not looking here.. I just going to other site put blogs and write on my pages and just login on internet for searching the info or doawload some paper because I was in the university. I need much reference so I am always here on internet...
By the time I meet here in my pages then we are talking more for 6 month here.. we have some interested here and share our life.. just share and build each others in the positive think... When we first meet she is told me her old is 40's yrs old.. I do believe her so much because I know she is Christian Lady and we have talking so much about God in our life.. I do call her everyday with international roaming here in my country and as long as we are in relationship I know the truth of her, she is tell me a lie things and I cant believe...,, its so upset things!!!
well Just see too much people playing here they are not only young but they also older!!! Honestly I do like someone is mature person and I dont care see they outside... althougt they are young or old!! what is matters! its all depended us how we life?

I have seen some older woemn in relationships with older men,and a lot work out,also applies to older en and younger women.BUT
as stated here many times beware there ar a lot of scammers online now.I would accept a younger lady.up to 15 to 20 years difference if we met and got along on more than one date,also same for an older lady.