Do you believe to jump right back in? (8)

Aug 12, 2008 6:17 PM CST Do you believe to jump right back in?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Sure I feel very sad, as I really felt I had met the right one for me.
Obvious I was very wrong.
So get right away back into the dating game?
My heart is not in it but it may change when meeting someone else?
Yes I do know things take time to heal.teddybear
Aug 12, 2008 6:24 PM CST Do you believe to jump right back in?
hollandgirl: Sure I feel very sad, as I really felt I had met the right one for me.
Obvious I was very wrong.
So get right away back into the dating game?
My heart is not in it but it may change when meeting someone else?
Yes I do know things take time to heal.

Well, all depends on you. No use crying over spilt milk, as the saying goes.
Aug 12, 2008 6:29 PM CST Do you believe to jump right back in?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Yes that is for sure, better find someone who will appreciate me and will love me and I him.
This is what we are all looking for right?teddybear
Aug 12, 2008 7:18 PM CST Do you believe to jump right back in?
Katine76again
Katine76againKatine76againMoncton, New Brunswick Canada1 Threads 115 Posts
Yes time does heal all wounds. Some people it takes longer than others. Everyone is different. Only you, yourself know what is best for yourself.

I certainly would not recommend you to sit and cry over the last guy. He does not deserve your tears at all!

But also take your time as well and take time to get to know people and with time and everything else it will all work out.

Do not have high expectations is all. Do not focus all your time and energy on "what if's" and this and that. Look at everything around you and focus on the positives and when the time is meant to be he will be right there waiting for you!

cheers
Aug 12, 2008 7:21 PM CST Do you believe to jump right back in?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Good advise katine. Yes live and learn and yes it is the other guys
lossteddybear
Aug 12, 2008 8:29 PM CST Do you believe to jump right back in?
KHD100
KHD100KHD100Edmonton, Alberta Canada129 Threads 3 Polls 2,495 Posts
hollandgirl: Sure I feel very sad, as I really felt I had met the right one for me.
Obvious I was very wrong.
So get right away back into the dating game?
My heart is not in it but it may change when meeting someone else?
Yes I do know things take time to heal.


Sorry you feel so sad sweetie.

We hope with all our hearts we have found someone and then we find out it's not so.

You have a right to feel sad. It's normal. It would be nice to have someone that cares for you in a special way.

Your time will come. Summer is not the best time to meet people on line, later in the fall and winter the site gets busy.

You have a wonderful heart, and it has so much love to give. I hope you will find the one who will respect and appreciate you.

Give yourself time to heal and morn what you thought might have been. You will bounce back. Use your power of prayer dear lady. You know someone will hear you. :-)

Please do not hide away and leave. You have some some wonderful friends on here, and have touched them with your caring nature. I hope we can do the same for you.

Take care Jen, I so hope you will not let this incident feel there is not use in trying. I believe you will find someone. It will take time.

A long distance hug for you Jen. Take care.

teddybear
Aug 12, 2008 8:39 PM CST Do you believe to jump right back in?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Thank you for your kind words Kim.
You made me cry all over again.
I know you did not mean to do this but lift me up.
You are good people girl and you know what they say;
It takes one too know one.
Huggs to you too Kimteddybear
Aug 12, 2008 8:45 PM CST Do you believe to jump right back in?
KHD100
KHD100KHD100Edmonton, Alberta Canada129 Threads 3 Polls 2,495 Posts
hollandgirl: Thank you for your kind words Kim.
You made me cry all over again.
I know you did not mean to do this but lift me up.
You are good people girl and you know what they say;
It takes one too know one.
Huggs to you too Kim


Crying is away for our souls and body to heal. If you need to cry, do what your body needs, then wipe away those tears, and do something special for yourself.

teddybear
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