What would you do if... (110)
Helloo Ennaille 
If I ever found out someone cheated on me (again haha)..
It would be the first and last time.. I'd dump them in a heart beat.. no matter how much I loved them.. or how much it hurt me.
Been there done that.. I wouldn't put up with it again.
If I ever found out someone cheated on me (again haha)..
It would be the first and last time.. I'd dump them in a heart beat.. no matter how much I loved them.. or how much it hurt me.
Been there done that.. I wouldn't put up with it again.
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I would leave that relationship. I would never stay in a relationship with someone who disrespects me in any way when I can find someone else who will respect me.
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Claayer: Helloo Ennaille If I ever found out someone cheated on me (again haha)..
It would be the first and last time.. I'd dump them in a heart beat.. no matter how much I loved them.. or how much it hurt me.
Been there done that.. I wouldn't put up with it again.
It would be the first and last time.. I'd dump them in a heart beat.. no matter how much I loved them.. or how much it hurt me.
Been there done that.. I wouldn't put up with it again.
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dump his @$$ and move on, sweetie
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Claayer: Helloo Ennaille If I ever found out someone cheated on me (again haha)..
It would be the first and last time.. I'd dump them in a heart beat.. no matter how much I loved them.. or how much it hurt me.
Been there done that.. I wouldn't put up with it again.
It would be the first and last time.. I'd dump them in a heart beat.. no matter how much I loved them.. or how much it hurt me.
Been there done that.. I wouldn't put up with it again.
Hiya Claayer
Thanks for sharing it. I really appreciate a lot. I wish I could be strong as I bet you were to make that decision.
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If I was in a relationship and that person cheated on me it would be his last time because I would dump his butt and move on.
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Ennaille: ...the person you love so much kept cheating on you? Up to where you would go for loving someone? Would you try to change them or would you just let it go?
If it ever happened to you could you share your experience with me?
Thank's!
If it ever happened to you could you share your experience with me?
Thank's!
No and yes....You can't change anyone...You either accept them as they are....or move on because the only person you can change is you....and nobody deserves to be treated like that....My ex-husband cheated on me and I divorced him...it was once...that I know about...but that was enough because the trust was gone and broken never to be repaired again...I had given him other chances to change other things and he wasn't into changing passing me and the kids up for the beer and the boys...that was 14 years ago and he hasn't changed much since...in fact he even tried to cheat with me on the woman he is with now...UMMMMMM NOOOOOO...I threw him right out of my house....
Good Luck....
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Ennaille: Hiya Claayer
Thanks for sharing it. I really appreciate a lot. I wish I could be strong as I bet you were to make that decision.
Thanks for sharing it. I really appreciate a lot. I wish I could be strong as I bet you were to make that decision.
Ohh.. I wasn't strong when it DID happen to me.. But my circumstances were very different to now.
Back then.. I just 'put up with it' .. (EACH time!)
But I see it all very differently now and am in a position to do something about it.
I agree with Woody up there.. (hi Woody!
) ... it's trust.. and you can't have a relationship without it. I think trust is the FIRST block in a relationship's foundations.. (whether it's to do with fidelity or not)
Trust is the thing that every other thing in a relationship can be traced back too.
and without it... even if it's only a matter of time.. all relationships will fail in one way or another without it.
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Ennaille: ...the person you love so much kept cheating on you? Up to where you would go for loving someone? Would you try to change them or would you just let it go?
If it ever happened to you could you share your experience with me?
Thank's!
I had one person cheat on me and I tried to work it out but it just happend again. If a person cheats on you then they dont really love you. They will tell you they do and you will believe them because you want it to be true. Most of the time if you forgive,your leaving yourself open for more pain. I dont know about anyone else but I dont like that kind of pain. So one time is one time to many.If it ever happened to you could you share your experience with me?
Thank's!
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Hugz_n_Kissez: No and yes....You can't change anyone...You either accept them as they are....or move on because the only person you can change is you....and nobody deserves to be treated like that....My ex-husband cheated on me and I divorced him...it was once...that I know about...but that was enough because the trust was gone and broken never to be repaired again...I had given him other chances to change other things and he wasn't into changing passing me and the kids up for the beer and the boys...that was 14 years ago and he hasn't changed much since...in fact he even tried to cheat with me on the woman he is with now...UMMMMMM NOOOOOO...I threw him right out of my house....
Good Luck....
Good Luck....
Exactly...
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somechick: If I was in a relationship and that person cheated on me it would be his last time because I would dump his butt and move on.
Yup me too
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Claayer: Exactly... Hellooooo
Hey darlin....
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Ennaille: ...the person you love so much kept cheating on you? Up to where you would go for loving someone? Would you try to change them or would you just let it go?
If it ever happened to you could you share your experience with me?
Thank's!
Hi EnnailleI"m sad for you sweetheart because I've beem there and done that myself before I got married. Once a seed of any kind is planted, good or bad, something MUST grow from it unless the seed is dead at the beginning; in this case, nothing good. Can you say "Adios Amigos?"If it ever happened to you could you share your experience with me?
Thank's!
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Ennaille: ...the person you love so much kept cheating on you? Up to where you would go for loving someone? Would you try to change them or would you just let it go?
If it ever happened to you could you share your experience with me?
Thank's!
If it ever happened to you could you share your experience with me?
Thank's!
I have never been cheated on personally, but my mother and grandmother have. My mom was strong enough to get away and stay away, my grandma didn't find out until he'd gotten really sick. Even though she was crushed, she stayed because they had fifty + years and she couldn't though it away.
I say, your young and able minded . . . get out of it. For your sanity.
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Ennaille: ...the person you love so much kept cheating on you? Up to where you would go for loving someone? Would you try to change them or would you just let it go?
If it ever happened to you could you share your experience with me?
Thank's!
If it ever happened to you could you share your experience with me?
Thank's!
No person I loved would keep cheating on me. Because the second I found out that person would be gone, GONE,
GONE!
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Personally,I think it depends on relationship and was it more then once.Are you sure it happened.Did he confess or get caught?That's me and how I'd have to say I don't know if I'd end it again depends on above.I did have my fianc'e cheat 1x I know of.He told me about it.He was at bar loaded,so was she and yada yada.After 6 great years with him,I stayed.We are all different.
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wixomwizard: Hi EnnailleI"m sad for you sweetheart because I've beem there and done that myself before I got married. Once a seed of any kind is planted, good or bad, something MUST grow from it unless the seed is dead at the beginning; in this case, nothing good. Can you say "Adios Amigos?"
I agree and want to do what everyones says but all I need is to find strenght to do it. What hurts the most is that the person cheat on you but keeps coming back like nothing happen and them swear to you it will never happen again ...then when you are better ...the same rubbish happen and there u find urself in that situation where all u desire is that u could just disappear...it does hurt...
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Ennaille: I did - but always look back - I am so stupid need to get a grip thou!
I've been tempted to look past it too...
what helped me was to look at all the nasty little details that we try to put out of our minds,
fixed me right up.
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If it ever happened to you could you share your experience with me?
Thank's!