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Aug 18, 2008 11:49 PM CST Needs and Wants... when it comes to a relationship with the opposite sex.
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA635 Threads 17 Polls 7,934 Posts
Needs are requirements, these are non-negotiable, must haves.

Wants are, it'd be nice if they had, but without it would not rule out the possiblity of a relationship.

what are some of yours ? anyone feel like sharing these with the CS'ers in the forum?
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Aug 18, 2008 11:52 PM CST Needs and Wants... when it comes to a relationship with the opposite sex.
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA85 Threads 3 Polls 6,177 Posts
No expectations, no requirements, except I like him and he likes me. dunno Why make it a whole lot more complicated than that?

Heard this line in a song today, if I'm not the one you want you're not the one I need.
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Aug 19, 2008 12:01 AM CST Needs and Wants... when it comes to a relationship with the opposite sex.
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA635 Threads 17 Polls 7,934 Posts
alabamabebe: No expectations, no requirements, except I like him and he likes me. Why make it a whole lot more complicated than that?

Heard this line in a song today, if I'm not the one you want you're not the one I need.


Air Supplys "All I need is the air that breath and to love you"

trust me, unrequited love sucks

that song still makes me laughrolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 19, 2008 12:02 AM CST Needs and Wants... when it comes to a relationship with the opposite sex.
I need then to wantdevil


tongue
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Aug 19, 2008 12:02 AM CST Needs and Wants... when it comes to a relationship with the opposite sex.
I want them to needdevil


grin
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Aug 19, 2008 12:31 AM CST Needs and Wants... when it comes to a relationship with the opposite sex.
HzChld
HzChldHzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA64 Threads 3,574 Posts
fireliter: Air Supplys "All I need is the air that breath and to love you"

trust me, unrequited love sucks

that song still makes me laugh



rolling on the floor laughing wave
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Aug 19, 2008 12:32 AM CST Needs and Wants... when it comes to a relationship with the opposite sex.
lotsofluv
lotsofluvlotsofluvBlaine, USA7 Threads 316 Posts
I need all the time and I want it all devil
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Aug 19, 2008 8:11 AM CST Needs and Wants... when it comes to a relationship with the opposite sex.
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA635 Threads 17 Polls 7,934 Posts
Children grown(no rug rats), grandkids are cool they can be returned to their parents.

Mental stability, if I want nuts, I'll purchase them at a store.

Must still want/enjoy physical intimacy. I do so they should also I think.

A certain amount of honesty towards me, I've no intention of confessing all my sins to them, nor would I expect them too either. If they can not decipher what the difference is... :(

these are my primary needs to consider beginning a relationship.


My wants...theres a list that is long.
rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 19, 2008 8:52 AM CST Needs and Wants... when it comes to a relationship with the opposite sex.
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA256 Threads 2 Polls 12,797 Posts
In the non-physical arena, I ask only for three things in a relationship. First and foremost is honesty. In words and action. Second they must be ultra liberal in their thinking. And lastly, I cannot abide a racist.

On the physical, or s*xual agenda. They must love affection. For all the cold heartedness I portray, I am really a very affectionate man. I value the hugging and cuddling on the sofa, as much as the intercouse in the bed...or on the dining room table, or the kitch....oh!, Where was Ilaugh
Seriously, the closeness and the day long foreplay is as important to me and more intimate than bedroom antics. Looks and body style aren't as important as closeness
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Aug 19, 2008 9:13 AM CST Needs and Wants... when it comes to a relationship with the opposite sex.
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada82 Threads 3 Polls 34,865 Posts
I want you to want me...I need you to need me....I love you to love me....from another good song!!!!!!!!!!!!


We can leave the begging part out though...nobody likes a beggar!!!!!!!!



professor listen to music smitten grin
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Aug 19, 2008 9:13 AM CST Needs and Wants... when it comes to a relationship with the opposite sex.
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada82 Threads 3 Polls 34,865 Posts
I want you to want me...I need you to need me....I love you to love me....from another good song!!!!!!!!!!!!


We can leave the begging part out though...nobody likes a beggar!!!!!!!!



professor listen to music smitten grin
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Aug 19, 2008 9:14 AM CST Needs and Wants... when it comes to a relationship with the opposite sex.
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada82 Threads 3 Polls 34,865 Posts
OOOOOPPPSSSSSSSS....I really didn't need to say it twice....I'm sure you got it the first time....roll eyes
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Aug 19, 2008 9:21 AM CST Needs and Wants... when it comes to a relationship with the opposite sex.
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada141 Threads 8 Polls 10,411 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: OOOOOPPPSSSSSSSS....I really didn't need to say it twice....I'm sure you got it the first time....


scyzophrenic posting cheering
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Aug 19, 2008 9:23 AM CST Needs and Wants... when it comes to a relationship with the opposite sex.
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland32 Threads 9,360 Posts
Isnt a relationship itself a want as opposed to a need?
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Aug 19, 2008 9:23 AM CST Needs and Wants... when it comes to a relationship with the opposite sex.
tunnelwary
tunnelwarytunnelwaryLa Jolla, California USA39 Threads 1,059 Posts
Must be willing to be mounted nightly.
Ya...that's about it.
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Aug 19, 2008 9:24 AM CST Needs and Wants... when it comes to a relationship with the opposite sex.
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada82 Threads 3 Polls 34,865 Posts
BnaturAl: scyzophrenic posting



I think it was subliminal...professor roll eyes uh oh dunno laugh
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Aug 19, 2008 9:33 AM CST Needs and Wants... when it comes to a relationship with the opposite sex.
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA635 Threads 17 Polls 7,934 Posts
vonney: Isnt a relationship itself a want as opposed to a need?


I like to think and have on occasion seen how being in a relationship has escalated ones happiness, self esteem and drive to accomplish, whereas also too I've seen where a relationship has suffocated ones drive and happiness. it could it be they placed more emphasis on their wants instead of needs as a person?
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Aug 19, 2008 9:36 AM CST Needs and Wants... when it comes to a relationship with the opposite sex.
Hugz_n_Kissez: OOOOOPPPSSSSSSSS....I really didn't need to say it twice....I'm sure you got it the first time....


I am sure you just wanted to make sure all got your point!!professor
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Aug 19, 2008 9:37 AM CST Needs and Wants... when it comes to a relationship with the opposite sex.
vonney: Isnt a relationship itself a want as opposed to a need?




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Aug 19, 2008 9:37 AM CST Needs and Wants... when it comes to a relationship with the opposite sex.
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada82 Threads 3 Polls 34,865 Posts
fireliter: I like to think and have on occasion seen how being in a relationship has escalated ones happiness, self esteem and drive to accomplish, whereas also too I've seen where a relationship has suffocated ones drive and happiness. it could it be they placed more emphasis on their wants instead of needs as a person?



True and there are also some people who need to be in a relationship because they let that fact define who they are....those are the ones who are never without one and jump from person to person just so they don't have to be alone!!!!!!!


wave wink hug cheers
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