No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements (88)
hollandgirl: Number one do people who say these things in their profile, have had such bad experiences that make them say this?
It is very negative and unrealistic.
I lost a loving husband in January 2005, the odd times I find myself cry for just a moment, does this mean I have bagage?
No headgames please. I wonder if those who engage in this are even aware of doing so.
I came to this forum to sincerely find a new relationship.
I believe in honesty and loyalty, I need to trust, without this there is nothing!
My trinity is Trust, Respect and Giving, (of one self)
(Read my profile for the rest)
I could say a lot more but will rest my case for now.
Jenny
It is very negative and unrealistic.
I lost a loving husband in January 2005, the odd times I find myself cry for just a moment, does this mean I have bagage?
No headgames please. I wonder if those who engage in this are even aware of doing so.
I came to this forum to sincerely find a new relationship.
I believe in honesty and loyalty, I need to trust, without this there is nothing!
My trinity is Trust, Respect and Giving, (of one self)
(Read my profile for the rest)
I could say a lot more but will rest my case for now.
Jenny
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don't think you can forget the past and why should you? guess it 's about how you see the future 
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I want to find back what I have lost. I miss the closeness of a loving relationship.
I know what I want/need and I won't settle for less.
I know I will find that special one as he is out there somewhere.
I know what I want/need and I won't settle for less.
I know I will find that special one as he is out there somewhere.
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hollandgirl: I want to find back what I have lost. I miss the closeness of a loving relationship.
I know what I want/need and I won't settle for less.
I know I will find that special one as he is out there somewhere.
i wish you all the luck and love in the world I know what I want/need and I won't settle for less.
I know I will find that special one as he is out there somewhere.
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I wonder why it is most of the time the men who talk this way are we women so flaky? I don't believe this for a minute.
What I have seen on this forum are those who tell that they are here just for the forums.
I am here to find another love as I have too much left to waste it.
So I have not seen game players on here.
What I have seen on this forum are those who tell that they are here just for the forums.
I am here to find another love as I have too much left to waste it.
So I have not seen game players on here.
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"no baggage, no headgames please" is man talk for "I can dish it out but I can't take it"
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princess49503: "no baggage, no headgames please" is man talk for "I can dish it out but I can't take it"
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Thanks girls, yes so far no men has been in this post huh? Hmmmm lol
Yes and the beat goes on................
Yes and the beat goes on................
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In my experience, I've met men who loooooove to play the role of the victim but are quick to criticize women in difficult situations.
I have to wonder, do these men ask us to forget our so called 'baggage', so they can pull the wool over our eyes once more?????
I have to wonder, do these men ask us to forget our so called 'baggage', so they can pull the wool over our eyes once more?????
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Lol men are often the martrys or victims. When they are not feeling well they are "dying" I think they just love us fawning over them.
And..........often we like it that way and play along.
At times men become little boys again huh?
And..........often we like it that way and play along.
At times men become little boys again huh?
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I don't like living alone but this is not my main reason to find someone.
I love to share, be it a beautiful scenery, movie, book or whatever.
Between husbands I spend twenty years alone so I know all about that one.
My second mariage lasted twenty one years and twenty days.
My husband he was only 61 years old.
My mom died at age 94 1/2 so I have to better her.
This means I have 30 years left to go lol
I love to share, be it a beautiful scenery, movie, book or whatever.
Between husbands I spend twenty years alone so I know all about that one.
My second mariage lasted twenty one years and twenty days.
My husband he was only 61 years old.
My mom died at age 94 1/2 so I have to better her.
This means I have 30 years left to go lol
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hollandgirl: Lol men are often the martrys or victims. When they are not feeling well they are "dying" I think they just love us fawning over them.
And..........often we like it that way and play along.
At times men become little boys again huh?
And..........often we like it that way and play along.
At times men become little boys again huh?
Now, now...women can be every bit the Drama Queen! Let's not stereotype and generalize...you have to take each individual on their own merit....
Otherwise, we'd never get anywhere with Love, would we?
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Hi Jenny
I am not fond of those sayings either and I do try to avoid people who put it in their words.
Plus, the no baggage, they are all cliches that I dislike.
We all have a past, it is part of us, we should not forget that, especially when a person has lost a loving partner in the way that you have. Because you would like a new partner, this in no way means that your thoughts and your little crys, should not be shared with a new partner.
Best of luck eh?
I am not fond of those sayings either and I do try to avoid people who put it in their words.
Plus, the no baggage, they are all cliches that I dislike.
We all have a past, it is part of us, we should not forget that, especially when a person has lost a loving partner in the way that you have. Because you would like a new partner, this in no way means that your thoughts and your little crys, should not be shared with a new partner.
Best of luck eh?
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Our “baggage” has made us to what we are now. How can there be “no baggage”?
And I agree, it’s a cliché, one of many that people use here and else where, without explaining what they mean.
I would like to meet a man with some baggage, as few books he has read, few journeys he has made… one and another failure he has experienced and then decided not to repeat…
And I agree, it’s a cliché, one of many that people use here and else where, without explaining what they mean.
I would like to meet a man with some baggage, as few books he has read, few journeys he has made… one and another failure he has experienced and then decided not to repeat…
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Sommerauer71: Brilliant.
I love a catchy profile.
I love a catchy profile.
<---------Bitter Man With A Peg Leg And Propensity For Sheep
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tunnelwary: <---------Bitter Man With A Peg Leg And Propensity For Sheep
I do go for the humorous profiles, one guy, not from here, stated, 'I have checked your competition and you deserve better'
Love it.
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still out of country?
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It is very negative and unrealistic.
I lost a loving husband in January 2005, the odd times I find myself cry for just a moment, does this mean I have bagage?
No headgames please. I wonder if those who engage in this are even aware of doing so.
I came to this forum to sincerely find a new relationship.
I believe in honesty and loyalty, I need to trust, without this there is nothing!
My trinity is Trust, Respect and Giving, (of one self)
(Read my profile for the rest)
I could say a lot more but will rest my case for now.
Jenny