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Aug 20, 2008 1:52 AM CST No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada711 Threads 6,072 Posts
Number one do people who say these things in their profile, have had such bad experiences that make them say this?
It is very negative and unrealistic.
I lost a loving husband in January 2005, the odd times I find myself cry for just a moment, does this mean I have bagage?

No headgames please. I wonder if those who engage in this are even aware of doing so.
I came to this forum to sincerely find a new relationship.
I believe in honesty and loyalty, I need to trust, without this there is nothing!
My trinity is Trust, Respect and Giving, (of one self)
(Read my profile for the rest)
I could say a lot more but will rest my case for now.
Jenny

teddybear
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Aug 20, 2008 2:17 AM CST No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland13 Threads 8,222 Posts
hollandgirl: Number one do people who say these things in their profile, have had such bad experiences that make them say this?
It is very negative and unrealistic.
I lost a loving husband in January 2005, the odd times I find myself cry for just a moment, does this mean I have bagage?

No headgames please. I wonder if those who engage in this are even aware of doing so.
I came to this forum to sincerely find a new relationship.
I believe in honesty and loyalty, I need to trust, without this there is nothing!
My trinity is Trust, Respect and Giving, (of one self)
(Read my profile for the rest)
I could say a lot more but will rest my case for now.
Jenny
wave I wish you the very best on your search, you deserve to find some1 lovely !!!!
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Aug 20, 2008 2:20 AM CST No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta32 Threads 1 Polls 7,360 Posts
don't think you can forget the past and why should you? guess it 's about how you see the future teddybear
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Aug 20, 2008 2:25 AM CST No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada711 Threads 6,072 Posts
I want to find back what I have lost. I miss the closeness of a loving relationship.
I know what I want/need and I won't settle for less.
I know I will find that special one as he is out there somewhere.
teddybear
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Aug 20, 2008 2:29 AM CST No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta32 Threads 1 Polls 7,360 Posts
hollandgirl: I want to find back what I have lost. I miss the closeness of a loving relationship.
I know what I want/need and I won't settle for less.
I know I will find that special one as he is out there somewhere.
i wish you all the luck and love in the world hug bouquet
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Aug 20, 2008 2:35 AM CST No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada711 Threads 6,072 Posts
I wonder why it is most of the time the men who talk this way are we women so flaky? I don't believe this for a minute.
What I have seen on this forum are those who tell that they are here just for the forums.
I am here to find another love as I have too much left to waste it.
So I have not seen game players on here.

teddybear
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Aug 20, 2008 2:36 AM CST No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements
princess49503
princess49503princess49503grand rapids, Michigan USA22 Threads 1 Polls 2,040 Posts
"no baggage, no headgames please" is man talk for "I can dish it out but I can't take it"
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Aug 20, 2008 2:37 AM CST No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland13 Threads 8,222 Posts
princess49503: "no baggage, no headgames please" is man talk for "I can dish it out but I can't take it"
applause applause
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Aug 20, 2008 2:40 AM CST No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada711 Threads 6,072 Posts
Thanks girls, yes so far no men has been in this post huh? Hmmmm lol
Yes and the beat goes on................
teddybear
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Aug 20, 2008 2:47 AM CST No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements
princess49503
princess49503princess49503grand rapids, Michigan USA22 Threads 1 Polls 2,040 Posts
In my experience, I've met men who loooooove to play the role of the victim but are quick to criticize women in difficult situations.


I have to wonder, do these men ask us to forget our so called 'baggage', so they can pull the wool over our eyes once more?????
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Aug 20, 2008 2:51 AM CST No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada711 Threads 6,072 Posts
Lol men are often the martrys or victims. When they are not feeling well they are "dying" I think they just love us fawning over them.
And..........often we like it that way and play along.
At times men become little boys again huh?teddybear
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Aug 20, 2008 3:04 AM CST No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada711 Threads 6,072 Posts
I don't like living alone but this is not my main reason to find someone.
I love to share, be it a beautiful scenery, movie, book or whatever.
Between husbands I spend twenty years alone so I know all about that one.
My second mariage lasted twenty one years and twenty days.
My husband he was only 61 years old.

My mom died at age 94 1/2 so I have to better her.
This means I have 30 years left to go lol
teddybear
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Aug 20, 2008 3:59 AM CST No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements
HondoLaneNJ
HondoLaneNJHondoLaneNJtoms river, New Jersey USA6 Threads 1,194 Posts
princess49503: "no baggage, no headgames please" is man talk for "I can dish it out but I can't take it"


I've seen it just as often in womens profiles....confused
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Aug 20, 2008 4:00 AM CST No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements
HondoLaneNJ
HondoLaneNJHondoLaneNJtoms river, New Jersey USA6 Threads 1,194 Posts
princess49503: I have to wonder, do these men ask us to forget our so called 'baggage', so they can pull the wool over our eyes once more?????


....if it's not too much trouble....laugh
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Aug 20, 2008 4:01 AM CST No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements
HondoLaneNJ
HondoLaneNJHondoLaneNJtoms river, New Jersey USA6 Threads 1,194 Posts
hollandgirl: Lol men are often the martrys or victims. When they are not feeling well they are "dying" I think they just love us fawning over them.
And..........often we like it that way and play along.
At times men become little boys again huh?


Now, now...women can be every bit the Drama Queen! Let's not stereotype and generalize...you have to take each individual on their own merit....

Otherwise, we'd never get anywhere with Love, would we?
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Aug 20, 2008 4:37 AM CST No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria164 Threads 4 Polls 19,249 Posts
Hi Jenny

I am not fond of those sayings either and I do try to avoid people who put it in their words.

Plus, the no baggage, they are all cliches that I dislike.

We all have a past, it is part of us, we should not forget that, especially when a person has lost a loving partner in the way that you have. Because you would like a new partner, this in no way means that your thoughts and your little crys, should not be shared with a new partner.

Best of luck eh?
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Aug 20, 2008 4:46 AM CST No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements
tunnelwary
tunnelwarytunnelwaryLa Jolla, California USA39 Threads 1,059 Posts
Ran across an old friends profile that might be more to your liking:

EXCERPT:

ME - Smooth as a baby's arse, natty dresser (as long it's a wetsuit and shades), and literate.
Smart mouth and sharper mind

YOU - Self absorbed, controlling, manipulative, woman wanted. Eating disorders, drug addictions, mental problems a definite plus. Must be possessive and extremely jealous of me but unfaithful... She must be emotionally distant and have little to no sex drive.

I need a woman who will call me any time, 24/7, no matter what, or how small the problem might be. It doesn't matter to me if I am busy...her problems are so much more important...
kiss
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Aug 20, 2008 4:49 AM CST No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria164 Threads 4 Polls 19,249 Posts
tunnelwary: Ran across an old friends profile that might be more to your liking:

EXCERPT:

ME - Smooth as a baby's arse, natty dresser (as long it's a wetsuit and shades), and literate.
Smart mouth and sharper mind

YOU - Self absorbed, controlling, manipulative, woman wanted. Eating disorders, drug addictions, mental problems a definite plus. Must be possessive and extremely jealous of me but unfaithful... She must be emotionally distant and have little to no sex drive.

I need a woman who will call me any time, 24/7, no matter what, or how small the problem might be. It doesn't matter to me if I am busy...her problems are so much more important...


Brilliant.

I love a catchy profile.
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Aug 20, 2008 4:50 AM CST No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden29 Threads 1 Polls 4,483 Posts
Our “baggage” has made us to what we are now. How can there be “no baggage”?

And I agree, it’s a cliché, one of many that people use here and else where, without explaining what they mean.

I would like to meet a man with some baggage, as few books he has read, few journeys he has made… one and another failure he has experienced and then decided not to repeat…
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Aug 20, 2008 4:51 AM CST No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements
tunnelwary
tunnelwarytunnelwaryLa Jolla, California USA39 Threads 1,059 Posts
Sommerauer71: Brilliant.

I love a catchy profile.


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