No bagage, no headgames please. How I sooo dislike these statements ( Archived) (88)

I think everyone has baggage...if not then the person can't have lived and experienced much...it's whether you have dealt with that baggage or not that makes all the difference....a person expecting no baggage at all...is likely a person who has never dealt with any of theirs but just pushed it to the side waiting for it to rear it's ugly head at a later time...most likely in a new relationship!!!!!!!!!


As for head-games...well those are just for the immature....probably the ones who still have lots of luggage floating out there in "I pushed it away so it's dealt with" land!!!!!!!!!

***** Bitter Man With A Peg Leg And Propensity For Sheep *****



Where is this treasure?!!

I’m quite “sheepish”...

LOL.....daaaaa aaaady! daaaa aaaady!

Bagage and head games? Everyone has some so called bagage, Anyone who says they don't have it is a liar and plays headgame!
I have bagage and I will tell you what it is. My parents died and I never got over it completely, both of cancer. And I never got over loosing them. I was married and abused severly for a long time. I fought to get out of that situation, but it left some pretty nasty scars. I met a man fell in love was engaged to be married. Got pregnant lost the baby, and was told I had cancer just like my mom. I fought the cancer but it left me not able to have kids. My fiance loved kids had none. I left so he could meet someone who could have kids. He did! Now I ask you with all this bagage I carry in my heart do you not think that finding love would help resolve some of my bagage? Do you not think that finding someone to love would help me to move on with my life? Give me a reason to be happy again? Do you not think that carring that bagage has not made me a stonger person? Head Games! mine not telling you of the bagage I carry because you dont want bagage.
I personally want someone with bagage, so that I know one he has delt with life, two he is a stronger person for it. And three I would like to be the person that gives him reason to shed the bagage and move on to a happier life.

"Baggage" is not a suitable terminology to be using......it is called a history and we all have lived and can look back at how we lived and correct any wrongs that we have made......Baggage makes us sound like we are all Donkeys or something......

I like the explainations given here.
How about asking for resume's? lol
Yes it is how we deal with the past that is important.
My mariage was good so no bitterness for that I am grateful.

Yes I too believe that those who "demand" no bagage please have
the wrong and unrealistic attitude.


Well I am ready, able and willing to meet my new love.
I will be looking for him until he finds me!

Ah Jen, you will find each other.

It is the name 'baggage' it is just not pleasant, why can't people say 'past?'

We all have one, we are over the age of consent, people make it difficult.

Baggage

I wish I had been born today,
so's I could have new toys for play.
No broken heart inside of me,
no bills to pay and torture me.
knowing headgames are the norm,
might loose my head and just reform.

House to clean,
food to buy,
life's just baggage,
live or die.

My guts too big,
my eyes are blue.
my pants' wrong color ,
if you dissapprove,
go get screwed.

Three happy kids who run and play,
I get re-born most everyday.
A home that I can call my own,
life's my baggage,
my fart's my own.

I go along my merry way,
greeting strangers along the way.
Adding baggage each step I take.
I shrug it off and take the day.

Tom Diamond

Yes summer that sounds so much nicer past, instead of bagage.
And yes how have you delt with the past that is the question.
Who coined that word anyway.
Frankly when I read these kind of profiles I ignore them.

From my profile;
Like to meet someone who knows what he wants and is smart
enough to recognize it when he does. etc. etc.