alabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA4,404 posts
Nope, there would have to be emotional ties, to the baby if not the other parent. Would need time to sort all the complications out before you could have a real relationship with them. Just like dating someone who's just divorced, it's a really bad idea, trust me.
Probably not. I mean if he just impregnated someone within the last 9 months, then he either a.) really cared about her and could reconcile once the baby is born, or b.) he sleeps around alot. Doesn't mean we couldn't be friends though.
i would have trouble starting a realationship with a man that had a pregnant ex. Some of the possible scenarios; was it a short term relationship, but no precautions used?? was it a long term relationship, but preganancy ended it( i don't want more kids, but it's not beyond the realms of possibility, so would he leave me??) He left a woman because he didn't want to be in the relationship, and she was pregnant with his child??
none of these possibilites cry out to me ''potential long term partner;; Having said that, it's also possible that he WAS committed and it was her choice to cut him out of the relationship, but that would leave open the possibility of her changing her mind, and he would be more than likely to go back to her. So i guess my( long winded) answer is NO!
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or date a man that had a baby on the way?