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Aug 21, 2008 12:45 PM CST would you?
kkitty4u
kkitty4ukkitty4uSt Paul, Minnesota USA24 Threads 3 Polls 1,138 Posts
date a woman that was pregnant?
or date a man that had a baby on the way?
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Aug 21, 2008 12:46 PM CST would you?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Nope i would not..Meaning there may be something that would happen once the baby is born..

Wont put myself in that situationwave
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Aug 21, 2008 12:46 PM CST would you?
confused
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Aug 21, 2008 12:46 PM CST would you?
shell1
shell1shell1Leeds, West Yorkshire, England UK8 Threads 871 Posts
kkitty4u: date a woman that was pregnant?
or date a man that had a baby on the way?


As long as they were single and had no emotional ties to the absent parent
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Aug 21, 2008 12:47 PM CST would you?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
kissmedeeply: Nope i would not..Meaning there may be something that would happen once the baby is born..

Wont put myself in that situation


I agree with Joanne.. thumbs up



Hellooo Jooooo-aane wave hug
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Aug 21, 2008 12:47 PM CST would you?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
kissmedeeply: Nope i would not..Meaning there may be something that would happen once the baby is born..

Wont put myself in that situation



I agree...too much mess potential...wave wink hug teddybear hug bouquet
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Aug 21, 2008 12:48 PM CST would you?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: I agree...too much mess potential...


Yup!.. Damage limitation exercise.. by NOT starting something.

wave hug
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Aug 21, 2008 12:48 PM CST would you?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Claayer: I agree with Joanne..
Hellooo Jooooo-aane


Hellooooooooooooo claire and Shelley

teddybear
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Aug 21, 2008 12:48 PM CST would you?
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
Nopewine
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Aug 21, 2008 12:48 PM CST would you?
simpleone
simpleonesimpleoneArkansas, USA3 Threads 52 Posts
No I wouldn't
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Aug 21, 2008 12:49 PM CST would you?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Claayer: Yup!.. Damage limitation exercise .. by NOT starting something.



That's right...I frequently do that...if it looks like a mess...it probably is a mess...so ummmmm nooooo!!!!!!!


wave wink hug teddybear hug bouquet
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Aug 21, 2008 12:49 PM CST would you?
shell1
shell1shell1Leeds, West Yorkshire, England UK8 Threads 871 Posts
hi, nice to meet youhandshake
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Aug 21, 2008 12:49 PM CST would you?
kkitty4u
kkitty4ukkitty4uSt Paul, Minnesota USA24 Threads 3 Polls 1,138 Posts
kissmedeeply: Nope i would not..Meaning there may be something that would happen once the baby is born..

Wont put myself in that situation


wave you have a great point once that baby comes peoples hearts change
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Aug 21, 2008 12:52 PM CST would you?
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
jaw drop geezer up the duff?

I have been accused in my time of.. how shall we say 'Being with Child'... It was ma Beer Belly

A Pregnacated Woman.... Ooh tough one.... If she was in labour as met... naw!!!

If we met and she was not showing signs... maybe (providing we got on)

Naw... in fact I don't want to be doing DNA tests on the 'Jeremy Kyle Show'

So no.... I'll pass
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Aug 21, 2008 12:53 PM CST would you?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
Nope, there would have to be emotional ties, to the baby if not the other parent. Would need time to sort all the complications out before you could have a real relationship with them. Just like dating someone who's just divorced, it's a really bad idea, trust me. roll eyes grin
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Aug 21, 2008 1:02 PM CST would you?
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
kkitty4u: date a woman that was pregnant?
or date a man that had a baby on the way?


The first one..... I doubt I would date a woman even if she wasn't pregnant!!

The second one..... doubt it!!

bouquet
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Aug 21, 2008 1:06 PM CST would you?
kkitty4u
kkitty4ukkitty4uSt Paul, Minnesota USA24 Threads 3 Polls 1,138 Posts
roseofsharon: The first one..... I doubt I would date a woman even if she wasn't pregnant!!

The second one..... doubt it!!


not even to go pick out those cute little clothes laugh wave
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Aug 21, 2008 1:12 PM CST would you?
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA20 Threads 1 Polls 1,223 Posts
Probably not. I mean if he just impregnated someone within the last 9 months, then he either a.) really cared about her and could reconcile once the baby is born, or b.) he sleeps around alot. Doesn't mean we couldn't be friends though.
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Aug 21, 2008 3:32 PM CST would you?
jampet
jampetjampetwexford, Wexford Ireland28 Threads 1 Polls 2,549 Posts
i would have trouble starting a realationship with a man that had a pregnant ex.
Some of the possible scenarios;
was it a short term relationship, but no precautions used??
was it a long term relationship, but preganancy ended it( i don't want more kids, but it's not beyond the realms of possibility, so would he leave me??)
He left a woman because he didn't want to be in the relationship, and she was pregnant with his child??

none of these possibilites cry out to me ''potential long term partner;;
Having said that, it's also possible that he WAS committed and it was her choice to cut him out of the relationship, but that would leave open the possibility of her changing her mind, and he would be more than likely to go back to her.
So i guess my( long winded) answer is NO!
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Aug 21, 2008 3:34 PM CST would you?
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
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