hollandgirl: Those who are sincerely looking for someone to share the rest of their lives with like I am, why would I put up a false facade? When meeting, your found out anyway so I don't get the point.
Oh yes I have met Mr. Average who really was about 25 lb overweight. Or the picture was about ten years old. Or the ones, more than one, who "shrunk" upon meeting me. I find this sad really. You lost your chance with me for sure.
I rather stay alone the rest of my life then get with someone that is dishonest ect.
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
HJFinAZ: How about the idea that some have so much "baggage" they choose to haul around that no comment is acceptable to them????
I have found you to be often negative and cynical. You must have had many bad experiences to feel this way and I am sorry about that for you.
Everyone including You, has bagage or as I prefer a past. Does not mean we have to dwell on it. It all has made me whatever I am today! It is history and tomorrow is a mystery.
hollandgirl: Some of you should then be up for a Academy Award lol
Does it not take more effort wasted energie to spin a phony you? Protecting yourself from whom/what?
No one knows you on here!
I honestly would not know how to be anything than what I claim to be. Sure is easier, plus I don't have a lot too remember lol
Hell, I'm so complex I don't even know what to claim to be. Anyway, one of my special joys here has been to unleash my various and often contradictory selves...
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
Ambrose2007: Hell, I'm so complex I don't even know what to claim to be. Anyway, one of my special joys here has been to unleash my various and often contradictory selves...
shipoker55: I believe I have made my stance clear on many occasions. I have said don't take anything I say seriously. I am here for the laughs. When I am serious, I let people know.
Well, now I know even that much more about you!
My point is that we reveal *plenty* of ourselves here...at least those who post often, and have been doing so for some time, just as we have. Of course we don't know everything about each other...but everything we do reveals something substantive about ourselves...at least to those who listen. And I listen pretty hard.
hollandgirl: I have found you to be often negative and cynical. You must have had many bad experiences to feel this way and I am sorry about that for you.
Everyone including You, has bagage or as I prefer a past. Does not mean we have to dwell on it. It all has made me whatever I am today! It is history and tomorrow is a mystery.
Yes the beat goes on.....................
It is all a matter of perception and I really have no problem with you or any other taking my inventory.
I know me, God knows me, many others know me. Those that matter don't mind. those that don't matter will never know me..
NMP= Not My Problem
Am I supposed to care what another thinks?? NOT!!!!!!!!!!
shipoker55: The harder a person tries to prove they are 100% honest...the more doubtful i become!! Naturally suspicious here. "I don't know how to be anything else but me" leaves me wondering. JMO, of course
That's why I confessed from the outset that I never tell the truth. Saves a lot of confusion.
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
Ambrose2007:
Well, now I know even that much more about you!
My point is that we reveal *plenty* of ourselves here...at least those who post often, and have been doing so for some time, just as we have. Of course we don't know everything about each other...but everything we do reveals something substantive about ourselves...at least to those who listen. And I listen pretty hard.
Is there anything else someone would like to know about me? Fire away and I promise I will answer All questions.
Ambrose2007: Hell, I'm so complex I don't even know what to claim to be. Anyway, one of my special joys here has been to unleash my various and often contradictory selves...
ANd like me, I bet you don't care who you piss off...
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
With me, is it the "blond" thing, too naive, just too trusting or whatever, but please someone tell me; Why the hiding behind the real you? I say it again no one knows you on here. I just don't get the motive for the clowning around or beating around the bush. Just put your cards on the table, it may get you further in the long run.
hollandgirl: I have found you to be often negative and cynical. You must have had many bad experiences to feel this way and I am sorry about that for you.
Everyone including You, has bagage or as I prefer a past. Does not mean we have to dwell on it. It all has made me whatever I am today! It is history and tomorrow is a mystery.
Yes the beat goes on.....................
Man, those are the last two words I'd associate with HJ... and I've read a lot of his posts...
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When meeting, your found out anyway so I don't get the point.
Oh yes I have met Mr. Average who really was about 25 lb overweight.
Or the picture was about ten years old.
Or the ones, more than one, who "shrunk" upon meeting me.
I find this sad really.
You lost your chance with me for sure.
I rather stay alone the rest of my life then get with someone that is dishonest ect.