Long Distance Relationships (125)
LovingMassage: I guess I just look at it that Love is only an experiment until you are married. Until then both parties can get mad and choose to leave without any repercussions.
A wedding band won't hold someone who isn't capable of sticking it out through the rough patches, and the lack of one wont make a true commitment any weaker.
I'm not saying that I won't ever marry again, just that it's not an expectation or need. I believe that if you love someone and want to be with them forever, you will do it whether or not there is a ring on your finger. However, if I find someone who feels very strongly about being married, I would certainly consider it.
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kissmedeeply: Well for me Marriage is everything..vows that we made and keep till the day we die...
Maybe that is why i have not married becos i take it so seriously..
Not sayin the one have didnt..
but for me I will Marry and only once..
but if he wanted to leave and get out..So be it..
Would possilby fall in love again and stil i would Marry..
No other way to put it..
Maybe that is why i have not married becos i take it so seriously..
Not sayin the one have didnt..
but for me I will Marry and only once..
but if he wanted to leave and get out..So be it..
Would possilby fall in love again and stil i would Marry..
No other way to put it..
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Hey sweetie..
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kissmedeeply: Hey sweetie..
after u are getting married, plssssss, post some pics of ur wedding here
it would make my day to see them:) 
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Emanuellla: after u are getting married, plssssss, post some pics of ur wedding here it would make my day to see them:)
Hmmm some say that would be Kiss of Death to post one happiness..wedding..dating..so on..
but where i like you so much..i would send to you email hun
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kissmedeeply: Hmmm some say that would be Kiss of Death to post one happiness..wedding..dating..so on..
but where i like you so much..i would send to you email hun
but where i like you so much..i would send to you email hun
that's probably right
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Emanuellla: that's probably right will be waiting patiently for a mail then hope u have a fantastic wedding that's a day u remember for the rest of ur life:)
Thank you honey..ur a sweet lady..
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LovingMassage: I guess I don't understand...what is the point of falling in love again if marriage is not an option?
I long for the day when I can be in love again and seal the deal with marriage.
I long for the day when I can be in love again and seal the deal with marriage.
what are you in the hospital bed for? is it something to do with your BRAIN? marriage??????????? no wait! you were serious, now weren't you?
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Besame: The good news is, the internet provides a much larger pool of candidates for potential relationships. The bad news is, I'm not a very good swimmer.
How many of you have tried a long distance relationship? Did it work? If not, was it related to the distance? What kind of issues did you encounter and how did you resolve them?
How many of you have tried a long distance relationship? Did it work? If not, was it related to the distance? What kind of issues did you encounter and how did you resolve them?
You can always get water wings, inner-tube and rubber ducky for company!
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Besame: The good news is, the internet provides a much larger pool of candidates for potential relationships. The bad news is, I'm not a very good swimmer.
How many of you have tried a long distance relationship? Did it work? If not, was it related to the distance? What kind of issues did you encounter and how did you resolve them?
How many of you have tried a long distance relationship? Did it work? If not, was it related to the distance? What kind of issues did you encounter and how did you resolve them?
I have only had one real long distance relationship.. distance wasn't a factor for me.. we met and had a very wonderful 4 days together.. I went back to Louisiana where I lived at the time.. we never stopped talking, and it seemed after we met in person that things only got better.. we decided we wanted to be together, so I relocated.. everything was great for almost a year.. she got sick, and changed.. from there things just went down hill, and eventually we split up..
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Do you regret having made so much effort and sacrifice or was it worth it to have love for the short time that you did?
Daniel4021: I have only had one real long distance relationship.. distance wasn't a factor for me.. we met and had a very wonderful 4 days together.. I went back to Louisiana where I lived at the time.. we never stopped talking, and it seemed after we met in person that things only got better.. we decided we wanted to be together, so I relocated.. everything was great for almost a year.. she got sick, and changed.. from there things just went down hill, and eventually we split up..
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Marriage doesn't cement anything. You either have a solid relationship or you don't. LDR relationships require a heavier trust investment than a local relationship. Since I trust no one .....LDRs are out of the question
marriage is obviously out of the question, too
marriage is obviously out of the question, too
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I agree completely w/the marriage statement and the trust in LDR. Since trust is already an issue for me, I'm really struggling to keep the monster at bay.
shipoker58: Marriage doesn't cement anything. You either have a solid relationship or you don't. LDR relationships require a heavier trust investment than a local relationship. Since I trust no one .....LDRs are out of the question
marriage is obviously out of the question, too
marriage is obviously out of the question, too
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btw, I really like this picture of you.
shipoker58: Marriage doesn't cement anything. You either have a solid relationship or you don't. LDR relationships require a heavier trust investment than a local relationship. Since I trust no one .....LDRs are out of the question
marriage is obviously out of the question, too
marriage is obviously out of the question, too
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Besame: btw, I really like this picture of you.
Thank-you
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Besame: Do you regret having made so much effort and sacrifice or was it worth it to have love for the short time that you did?
No I don't regret doing what I did, I believe it was worth the effort even though the break up was very painful for me.. Her and I did share some wonderful times together, along with her kids.. I at least will always have the good memories of how things were.. would I do it all over again? I would go to the ends of the earth if I had to for what I may believe is true love..
Even though her and I are not together anymore, I still ganied something from it, I realized I had a gift that I never knew about.. and that was I could write poetry.. so besides the experience, I still have something that will always be with me for the rest of my life..
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Besame: Do you regret having made so much effort and sacrifice or was it worth it to have love for the short time that you did?
If there is love , its worth taking the chance .. its not how much time or will it work but taking the chance to see so there is no regret of having let it go.
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riyablossom: If there is love , its worth taking the chance .. its not how much time or will it work but taking the chance to see so there is no regret of having let it go.
Very nice riya, I couldn't have said it better..
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Daniel4021: Very nice riya, I couldn't have said it better..
thankyou.
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Well for me Marriage is everything..vows that we made and keep till the day we die...
Maybe that is why i have not married becos i take it so seriously..
Not sayin the one have didnt..
but for me I will Marry and only once..
but if he wanted to leave and get out..So be it..
Would possilby fall in love again and stil i would Marry..
No other way to put it..