What was the reason for your divorce? ( Archived) (86)

Oct 10, 2008 11:35 AM CST What was the reason for your divorce?
DazzleYou
DazzleYouDazzleYouSeattle, WA, Washington USA39 Threads 1 Polls 836 Posts
A cheating wife.
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Oct 10, 2008 11:37 AM CST What was the reason for your divorce?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: HMMMMMMMM...Could be...he specialized in harems.....


rolling on the floor laughing I had heard once that he'd cheated on me. I confronted him with it & he swore he hadn't. In the next breath, he told me he didn't remember WHAT he'd done that night!! doh

He would stay out all night & come home the next afternoon. He wouldn't even come home between work & going out... when he worked.... that was another reason for the divorce. Forgot to mention that one.
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Oct 10, 2008 11:40 AM CST What was the reason for your divorce?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
sweetowen: I had heard once that he'd cheated on me. I confronted him with it & he swore he hadn't. In the next breath, he told me he didn't remember WHAT he'd done that night!!

He would stay out all night & come home the next afternoon. He wouldn't even come home between work & going out... when he worked.... that was another reason for the divorce. Forgot to mention that one.



Yes but they want to be married...Imagine that....roll eyes


I got a phone call in the middle of the night telling me where my husband was...and it was with another woman...of course he tried to deny it....but I had her name and everything so I called her up and she didn't deny it and I told her she could have him....grin
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Oct 10, 2008 11:45 AM CST What was the reason for your divorce?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Yes but they want to be married...Imagine that.... I got a phone call in the middle of the night telling me where my husband was...and it was with another woman...of course he tried to deny it....but I had her name and everything so I called her up and she didn't deny it and I told her she could have him....


Toward the end of my marriage, I was hoping & praying he WOULD find someone else! He refused to divorce me & I had to wait out the 2 years. But eventually, he had no choice... poor guy...
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Oct 10, 2008 11:46 AM CST What was the reason for your divorce?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
sweetowen: Toward the end of my marriage, I was hoping & praying he WOULD find someone else! He refused to divorce me & I had to wait out the 2 years. But eventually, he had no choice... poor guy...



Well he didn't want to sign either but I told him it didn't matter cause either way I was divorcing him....it's a year here so after that year it would be effective whether he signed or not....roll eyes uh oh dunno grin
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Oct 10, 2008 11:56 AM CST What was the reason for your divorce?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
Animalover: We were incompatable, I'm a Pices, she was a crack ho!


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 10, 2008 11:59 AM CST What was the reason for your divorce?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Well he didn't want to sign either but I told him it didn't matter cause either way I was divorcing him....it's a year here so after that year it would be effective whether he signed or not....


I started out with a male lawyer who kept telling me what HIS rights were. I had to call other law offices & then call him (my so-called lawyer) & tell him what I knew I could do at that point. And still, nothing got done!!mumbling I let him go & hired a female attorney. In 2 weeks, I was divorced, got my name changed back, & even had my will drawn up! thumbs up

Can you believe that lousy first lawyer took me to court for the full fee?? And because I didn't know it was still going to court, he won by forfeiture!! mumbling
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Oct 10, 2008 12:03 PM CST What was the reason for your divorce?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
sweetowen: I started out with a male lawyer who kept telling me what HIS rights were. I had to call other law offices & then call him (my so-called lawyer) & tell him what I knew I could do at that point. And still, nothing got done!! I let him go & hired a female attorney. In 2 weeks, I was divorced, got my name changed back, & even had my will drawn up!

Can you believe that lousy first lawyer took me to court for the full fee?? And because I didn't know it was still going to court, he won by forfeiture!!



OMG!!!!!!!!!....My lawyer was quick....He had everything drafted and I had temp custody of the kids within a week or 2....It was awfully nice of you to pay for the work that your first lawyer didn't do though...geeze...It's lawyers like him that give them all a bad name....roll eyes uh oh dunno doh
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Oct 10, 2008 12:48 PM CST What was the reason for your divorce?
slim1977
slim1977slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA16 Threads 943 Posts
several, she was hooked on perscripton drugs, we wanted different things in life. she decided to call it quits before we haited one another, well that and she found a new boyfriend laugh
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Oct 10, 2008 12:50 PM CST What was the reason for your divorce?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
All i can say is hi cristina..

Never been Married..

but hope i never have to go through divorcewave
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Oct 10, 2008 12:57 PM CST What was the reason for your divorce?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
jojo69: So nasty dirty secret is out!!!


Then it is no longer a secret..wink
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Oct 10, 2008 12:59 PM CST What was the reason for your divorce?
youcouldbe
youcouldbeyoucouldbelewiston, Maine USA1 Threads 11 Posts
drank to much stayed out all night from time to time and could not keep his hand to him self yep that sums it up
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Oct 10, 2008 12:59 PM CST What was the reason for your divorce?
epicure
epicureepicureAlanya/Antalya, Mediterranean Turkey401 Threads 10 Polls 5,224 Posts
I have not a reason yet but I'll have one when I get married.laugh
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Oct 10, 2008 12:59 PM CST What was the reason for your divorce?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
cristina: now you finally decided to obey...


I never "obey".. They take what they get or they get nothing at all.dunno

I have "human experiences", hence, not perfect (according to them)..grin
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Oct 10, 2008 1:00 PM CST What was the reason for your divorce?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
epicure: I have not a reason yet but I'll have one when I get married.


I hope not! You don't go into marriage looking for divorce!! wine
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Oct 10, 2008 1:01 PM CST What was the reason for your divorce?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
jojo69: Thank you

But I do have to say in his defence, he is a great daddy.

Jo


An open and honest woman!!teddybear
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Oct 10, 2008 1:01 PM CST What was the reason for your divorce?
gangel
gangelgangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England UK52 Threads 16 Polls 5,028 Posts
epicure: I have not a reason yet but I'll have one when I get married.


If you are getting cast suspicion on your marriage in future, then better don't get married at all.
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Oct 10, 2008 1:08 PM CST What was the reason for your divorce?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
cristina: "Yes M'am, I do obey and that is the truth (within reason of course).. "

This is a very demanding one. Within reason, hell yeah



I did not get the "old man" part, did it happen to you or are you criticizing my post about "retiring"? If so, i'm sorry, it was meant to be positive. Much older, wiser


I am refering to a man that claims to love a woman, yet refers to her as "his", "Old Lady"..

"his"; a possession..

"Old Lady"; show disrespect for a lady. JMO

Did I post this before??confused

Old & senile..sigh
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Oct 10, 2008 1:09 PM CST What was the reason for your divorce?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
CRAP!!!!!!!!! I did....frustrated
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Oct 10, 2008 1:11 PM CST What was the reason for your divorce?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
HJFinAZ: I am refering to a man that claims to love a woman, yet refers to her as "his ", "Old Lady"..

"his"; a possession..

"Old Lady"; show disrespect for a lady. JMO

Did I post this before??

Old & senile..


I totally agree with you about this!! My ex tried to call me that once or twice. I told him what to do with his "old lady". He started calling me "his lady". I liked that MUCH better. And I actually didn't take it to mean a possession. I was flattered.
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