I'm asking this because as I read these threads, I notice a pattern. Certain people see themselves a perfect in EVERY way. They are the perfect friend...the perfect lover..the perfect housekeeper....the perfect everything. They are totally without any flaws!!
And it makes me wonder why such perfect specimens of humanity are on a singles site?
This interests me because I am one that will never say anything good about myself...and it's a good thing. There is only so much room for all this perfection, someone must admit to having flaws!!
I put this under games....because that is where it belongs
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
I guess people try to put their best foot forward on a dating site. Trying to impress someone is the name of the game.
And people are afraid to admit their flaws, no matter if they are online or not. I have admitted I have bipolar depression many times on this site. But I do admit to airbrushing some of my flaws sometimes.
What I am saying is no one would come out and say "I am perfect" but after reading all of their posts in the forums, you come to see that they see themselves as perfect
I would love to name names...but of course, that is not allowed
I tell it like it is about me. I have shared good things and bad ones. I have standards and I stick to them, even if it means I don't run with a crowd. I am who I am. If anyone thinks that is out of the ordinary then they can go stuff themselves.
gingerb: I tell it like it is about me. I have shared good things and bad ones. I have standards and I stick to them, even if it means I don't run with a crowd. I am who I am. If anyone thinks that is out of the ordinary then they can go stuff themselves.
shipoker55: What I am saying is no one would come out and say "I am perfect" but after reading all of their posts in the forums, you come to see that they see themselves as perfectI would love to name names...but of course, that is not allowed
Why would I say I'm perfect when I know I'm not nor do I act like it?
shipoker55: I mean don't you find it difficult being right and perfect ALL the time???Don't you ever have a weak moment where you feel like the average person and not so superior???
You mean my picture is not posted next to perfect in the dictionary? If we were perfect we would be somewhere besides this forum,eh? We were created in God's image. Is he less than perfect? Hummm
shipoker55: Don't you ever have a weak moment where you feel like the average person and not so superior???
Taking care of an elderly parent, not knowing if they will get up in the morning, going someplace and wondering if they will still be alive when you get home?
HJFinAZ: Taking care of an elderly parent, not knowing if they will get up in the morning, going someplace and wondering if they will still be alive when you get home?
NONE, are superior..
You are a good man for looking after your mother HJ. Not many do that these days. Most would shuck the responsibility and hand it over to anyone else when the going gets tough.
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And it makes me wonder why such perfect specimens of humanity are on a singles site?
This interests me because I am one that will never say anything good about myself...and it's a good thing. There is only so much room for all this perfection, someone must admit to having flaws!!
I put this under games....because that is where it belongs