Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you?? ( Archived) (133)

Aug 22, 2008 10:14 PM CST Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
I'm asking this because as I read these threads, I notice a pattern. Certain people see themselves a perfect in EVERY way. They are the perfect friend...the perfect lover..the perfect housekeeper....the perfect everything. They are totally without any flaws!!

And it makes me wonder why such perfect specimens of humanity are on a singles site?


This interests me because I am one that will never say anything good about myself...and it's a good thing. There is only so much room for all this perfection, someone must admit to having flaws!!



I put this under games....because that is where it belongs
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Aug 22, 2008 10:17 PM CST Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
Well I am certainly not perfect. Hate doing housework, laundry and dishes.

But I do want the perfect man.laugh He must be able to walk and breath on his own.
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Aug 22, 2008 10:18 PM CST Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??
keytone
keytonekeytonePortland, Oregon USA36 Threads 3 Polls 1,686 Posts
exactly! LOL Games."perfect placement". I am not perfect, I really doubt I have even looked that way for a second.laugh
thumbs up I bet someone is though!!
;-}
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Aug 22, 2008 10:22 PM CST Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
I guess people try to put their best foot forward on a dating site. Trying to impress someone is the name of the game.

And people are afraid to admit their flaws, no matter if they are online or not. I have admitted I have bipolar depression many times on this site. But I do admit to airbrushing some of my flaws sometimes.
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Aug 22, 2008 10:23 PM CST Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??
Hey I'm not the least bit afraid to admitt I'm along ways from being perfect.

If I listed all my imperfections here it would take up to much bandwith.laugh
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Aug 22, 2008 10:26 PM CST Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
What is perfect???dunno
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Aug 22, 2008 10:26 PM CST Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
What I am saying is no one would come out and say "I am perfect" but after reading all of their posts in the forums, you come to see that they see themselves as perfect


I would love to name names...but of course, that is not allowed
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Aug 22, 2008 10:27 PM CST Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
I tell it like it is about me. I have shared good things and bad ones. I have standards and I stick to them, even if it means I don't run with a crowd. I am who I am. If anyone thinks that is out of the ordinary then they can go stuff themselves. wine
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Aug 22, 2008 10:29 PM CST Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??
gingerb: I tell it like it is about me. I have shared good things and bad ones. I have standards and I stick to them, even if it means I don't run with a crowd. I am who I am. If anyone thinks that is out of the ordinary then they can go stuff themselves.




I feel the very same way you do.thumbs up thumbs up
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Aug 22, 2008 10:31 PM CST Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??
shipoker55: What I am saying is no one would come out and say "I am perfect" but after reading all of their posts in the forums, you come to see that they see themselves as perfectI would love to name names...but of course, that is not allowed



Why would I say I'm perfect when I know I'm not nor do I act like it?
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Aug 22, 2008 10:32 PM CST Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
somechick: If I listed all my imperfections here it would take up to much bandwith.


I have "broad" band......devil
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Aug 22, 2008 10:32 PM CST Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
I mean don't you find it difficult being right and perfect ALL the time???


Don't you ever have a weak moment where you feel like the average person and not so superior???
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Aug 22, 2008 10:34 PM CST Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
shipoker55: I mean don't you find it difficult being right and perfect ALL the time???Don't you ever have a weak moment where you feel like the average person and not so superior???


Who is the question to ship?
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Aug 22, 2008 10:37 PM CST Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
Perfect and I have different ZIP codes...uh oh
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Aug 22, 2008 10:38 PM CST Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??
Animalover
AnimaloverAnimaloverPodunk, Missouri USA1 Threads 16 Posts
You mean my picture is not posted next to perfect in the dictionary?
If we were perfect we would be somewhere besides this forum,eh? We were created in God's image. Is he less than perfect? Hummm
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Aug 22, 2008 10:38 PM CST Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
shipoker55: Don't you ever have a weak moment where you feel like the average person and not so superior???


Taking care of an elderly parent, not knowing if they will get up in the morning, going someplace and wondering if they will still be alive when you get home?

NONE, are superior.. dunno
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Aug 22, 2008 10:42 PM CST Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
HJFinAZ: Taking care of an elderly parent, not knowing if they will get up in the morning, going someplace and wondering if they will still be alive when you get home?

NONE, are superior..


You are a good man for looking after your mother HJ. Not many do that these days. Most would shuck the responsibility and hand it over to anyone else when the going gets tough.thumbs up wine
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Aug 22, 2008 10:43 PM CST Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
gingerb: Who is the question to ship?



no one in particular and to all who fall under this category
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Aug 22, 2008 10:43 PM CST Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??
Ship it sounds to me like you're got a case of forum burnout.hug
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Aug 22, 2008 10:45 PM CST Do people see you as perfect as YOU see you??
Zeelander
ZeelanderZeelanderLouisville, Kentucky USA91 Threads 5 Polls 2,073 Posts
I am PERFECTLY normal..... that is as close as I get...

Zee
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