hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
Between my first and second mariage I spent twenty years alone. my second mariage was the best. But this husband died at age 61 unexpectedly the worsed way, as there is no good bye and it leaves one with regret and guilt. Things left unsaid and left undone. He was mine for twenty one years and twenty days!
If your in a loving relationship remember you never know how long you have each other. Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, so make today the best day of your life. Give your loved one a extra hug and love them all you have to give. I just wished that I could.
hollandgirl: Just because my mariage Was good do I have the courage to try it again. I am not dealing with bitterness or hate, unforgivness etc.
I just don't want to get married again.
If and that's a big if here.
If I did meet someone I doubt if I'd marry them. I'd just suggest that we just live together.Then if things didn't work out between us it would be cheaper just to go our seperate ways.
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
somechick: I just don't want to get married again.
If and that's a big if here.
If I did meet someone I doubt if I'd marry them. I'd just suggest that we just live together.Then if things didn't work out between us it would be cheaper just to go our seperate ways.
Well where I live I believe it is one year of living together and that person has when breaking up, the right to half of what the other owns.
Unfortunately my heart has yet to feel what it is like to be truely loved. I hope to someday find it. People have a tendancy to say alot yet deliver little. My last marriage was very violent. I refuse to allow anyone to ever ever ever hurt me the way he did. I am not going to allow it to keep my hope from allowing me to find someone who I know is out there somewhere to give me what I know I deserve. I just have to be patient and take it one day at a time. Someday I know I'll be in my love's arms and he in mine.
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
Shanmariee: Unfortunately my heart has yet to feel what it is like to be truely loved. I hope to someday find it. People have a tendancy to say alot yet deliver little. My last marriage was very violent. I refuse to allow anyone to ever ever ever hurt me the way he did. I am not going to allow it to keep my hope from allowing me to find someone who I know is out there somewhere to give me what I know I deserve. I just have to be patient and take it one day at a time. Someday I know I'll be in my love's arms and he in mine.
Girl I sure wish for you to someday soon, to find the one you can love and who will love you with all his heart. I also hope you have learned Not to meet the same kind of person again.
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my second mariage was the best.
But this husband died at age 61 unexpectedly the worsed way, as there is no good bye and it leaves one with regret and guilt.
Things left unsaid and left undone.
He was mine for twenty one years and twenty days!
If your in a loving relationship remember you never know how long you
have each other.
Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, so make today the best day of your life.
Give your loved one a extra hug and love them all you have to give.
I just wished that I could.