Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?.............. ( Archived) (77)

Aug 22, 2008 10:20 PM CST Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Between my first and second mariage I spent twenty years alone.
my second mariage was the best.
But this husband died at age 61 unexpectedly the worsed way, as there is no good bye and it leaves one with regret and guilt.
Things left unsaid and left undone.
He was mine for twenty one years and twenty days!

If your in a loving relationship remember you never know how long you
have each other.
Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, so make today the best day of your life.
Give your loved one a extra hug and love them all you have to give.
I just wished that I could.teddybear
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Aug 22, 2008 10:23 PM CST Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
yes....she loved me!!
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Aug 22, 2008 10:26 PM CST Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
No I have not............both my marriages had no love in them.
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Aug 22, 2008 10:27 PM CST Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............
I sure was in a very loving marriage. But... I would be afraid to take on another relationship.
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Aug 22, 2008 10:28 PM CST Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
kitty01: No I have not............both my marriages had no love in them.


hug hug

Yes, I have been fortunate.
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Aug 22, 2008 10:31 PM CST Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
somechick: I sure was in a very loving marriage. But... I would be afraid to take on another relationship.


Just because my mariage Was good do I have the courage to try it again.
I am not dealing with bitterness or hate, unforgivness etc.
teddybear
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Aug 22, 2008 10:33 PM CST Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
kitty01: No I have not............both my marriages had no love in them.


That is very sad Kitty but please use what you know now to better know what you need/want the next time.
What is said about the third time?teddybear
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Aug 22, 2008 10:35 PM CST Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............
hollandgirl: Just because my mariage Was good do I have the courage to try it again.
I am not dealing with bitterness or hate, unforgivness etc.


I just don't want to get married again.

If and that's a big if here.

If I did meet someone I doubt if I'd marry them. I'd just suggest that we just live together.Then if things didn't work out between us it would be cheaper just to go our seperate ways.
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Aug 22, 2008 10:47 PM CST Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
Yes, I have been most fortunate. The old saw, better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all is indeed true. smoking
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Aug 22, 2008 10:52 PM CST Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
rwantin: Yes, I have been most fortunate. The old saw, better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all is indeed true.


Yes you are sooo right it is good to have had a positive experience and I know I can and will have this again someday.teddybear
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Aug 22, 2008 10:54 PM CST Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
somechick: I just don't want to get married again.

If and that's a big if here.

If I did meet someone I doubt if I'd marry them. I'd just suggest that we just live together.Then if things didn't work out between us it would be cheaper just to go our seperate ways.


Well where I live I believe it is one year of living together and that person has when breaking up, the right to half of what the other owns.teddybear
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Aug 22, 2008 10:55 PM CST Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
shipoker55: yes....she loved me!!



we were together for 16 years before she died.
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Aug 22, 2008 10:59 PM CST Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
rwantin: Yes, I have been most fortunate. The old saw, better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all is indeed true.


Absolutely.

Blessed here, too
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Aug 22, 2008 11:10 PM CST Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
shipoker55: we were together for 16 years before she died.


Sorry You had that experience too. Don't be discouraged as it can happen again.
Why not?
teddybear
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Aug 22, 2008 11:11 PM CST Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Sorry what I meant was it can happen again to find another loving parnerteddybear
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Aug 22, 2008 11:27 PM CST Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............
Shanmariee
ShanmarieeShanmarieeSpokane, Washington USA9 Threads 396 Posts
Unfortunately my heart has yet to feel what it is like to be truely loved. I hope to someday find it. People have a tendancy to say alot yet deliver little. My last marriage was very violent. I refuse to allow anyone to ever ever ever hurt me the way he did. I am not going to allow it to keep my hope from allowing me to find someone who I know is out there somewhere to give me what I know I deserve. I just have to be patient and take it one day at a time. Someday I know I'll be in my love's arms and he in mine. heart wings
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Aug 22, 2008 11:30 PM CST Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............
shipoker55
shipoker55shipoker55St. Petersburg, Florida USA211 Threads 2 Polls 9,362 Posts
hollandgirl: Sorry You had that experience too. Don't be discouraged as it can happen again.
Why not?




BECAUSE i DON'T WANT IT AND WON'T LET IT...sorry about the caps
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Aug 22, 2008 11:41 PM CST Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
Shanmariee: Unfortunately my heart has yet to feel what it is like to be truely loved. I hope to someday find it. People have a tendancy to say alot yet deliver little. My last marriage was very violent. I refuse to allow anyone to ever ever ever hurt me the way he did. I am not going to allow it to keep my hope from allowing me to find someone who I know is out there somewhere to give me what I know I deserve. I just have to be patient and take it one day at a time. Someday I know I'll be in my love's arms and he in mine.


Girl I sure wish for you to someday soon, to find the one you can love and who will love you with all his heart.
I also hope you have learned Not to meet the same kind of person again.
teddybear
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Aug 22, 2008 11:42 PM CST Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
YES......
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Aug 22, 2008 11:44 PM CST Have you been fortunate to have been in a loving relationship?..............
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada523 Threads 4,464 Posts
shipoker55: BECAUSE i DON'T WANT IT AND WON'T LET IT...sorry about the caps


For that I feel sorry for you.
Perhaps this is because I still feel too much alive to give up on life.
teddybear
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