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Aug 24, 2008 12:24 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA133 Threads 13 Polls 6,929 Posts
Since I only date women, I can not speak as to what older men are like romantically.

However, I see so many young guys here looking for older women.
The women I have dated have been my age or very slightly older.
But I can also very clearly remember my younger years.

I have recently dated a gal a few times, not serious yet.
but I am left wondering why so many people think age makes such a difference in experience?

We have had a few petting/ kissing sessions, she is clearly very interested, she is 48and I have not had a worse kisser!!!

Seriously,, it is like kissing a cloths line pole uh oh

I have known this gal most of my life, but not sure why the bad kissing thing......but yes it makes a huge difference in where a relationship might head. I mean... seriously... if she can't make love any better than she kisses???????????doh ( no I do not know yet)

I know for fact that it is NOT a shyness thing, so it leaves me with the 2 options below-
1. just really not much of an affectionate person? not into the kissing touching thing much or.

2. the guys from her past were so bad that she never learned well??

what do you think?
what might I be missing here?
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Aug 24, 2008 12:26 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada82 Threads 3 Polls 34,865 Posts
rasgumby: Since I only date women, I can not speak as to what older men are like romantically.

However, I see so many young guys here looking for older women.
The women I have dated have been my age or very slightly older.
But I can also very clearly remember my younger years.

I have recently dated a gal a few times, not serious yet.
but I am left wondering why so many people think age makes such a difference in experience?

We have had a few petting/ kissing sessions, she is clearly very interested, she is 48and I have not had a worse kisser!!!

Seriously,, it is like kissing a cloths line pole

I have known this gal most of my life, but not sure why the bad kissing thing......but yes it makes a huge difference in where a relationship might head. I mean... seriously... if she can't make love any better than she kisses??????????? ( no I do not know yet)

I know for fact that it is NOT a shyness thing, so it leaves me with the 2 options below-
1. just really not much of an affectionate person? not into the kissing touching thing much or.

2. the guys from her past were so bad that she never learned well??

what do you think?
what might I be missing here?



She could be just nervous.....wave wink hug teddybear
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Aug 24, 2008 12:28 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA133 Threads 13 Polls 6,929 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: She could be just nervous.....


I hope that is all!
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Aug 24, 2008 12:29 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA18 Threads 5,214 Posts
I think it's probably lack of experience. But you'll find out soon enough I'm sure. wave
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Aug 24, 2008 12:29 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
cmf333
cmf333cmf333warks, UK134 Posts
rasgumby: Since I only date women, I can not speak as to what older men are like romantically.

However, I see so many young guys here looking for older women.
The women I have dated have been my age or very slightly older.
But I can also very clearly remember my younger years.

I have recently dated a gal a few times, not serious yet.
but I am left wondering why so many people think age makes such a difference in experience?

We have had a few petting/ kissing sessions, she is clearly very interested, she is 48and I have not had a worse kisser!!!

Seriously,, it is like kissing a cloths line pole

I have known this gal most of my life, but not sure why the bad kissing thing......but yes it makes a huge difference in where a relationship might head. I mean... seriously... if she can't make love any better than she kisses??????????? ( no I do not know yet)

I know for fact that it is NOT a shyness thing, so it leaves me with the 2 options below-
1. just really not much of an affectionate person? not into the kissing touching thing much or.

2. the guys from her past were so bad that she never learned well??

what do you think?
what might I be missing here?


for me i go with the tune in ALWAYS IN THE KISS make your own mind up - i think u know the answer
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Aug 24, 2008 12:29 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada82 Threads 3 Polls 34,865 Posts
rasgumby: I hope that is all!



Well if she hasn't dated a lot...I know it can be a bit nerve wracking....wink conversing dunno
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Aug 24, 2008 12:30 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
jlw45
jlw45jlw45lake Dallas, Texas USA101 Threads 1 Polls 21,759 Posts
mouth wash, maybee?....dunno
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Aug 24, 2008 12:36 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA133 Threads 13 Polls 6,929 Posts
KrazieStill: I think it's probably lack of experience. But you'll find out soon enough I'm sure.


I have been alone a long time, I am in no rush at all.
but I must say, if she can't get over the kissing thing,, I won't try to find out about the rest.

time will tell.
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Aug 24, 2008 12:37 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
morganlee
morganleemorganleeQawra, Majjistral Malta32 Threads 1 Polls 7,360 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Well if she hasn't dated a lot...I know it can be a bit nerve wracking....
i agree, give her time and reassurance think it may well be a bit to soon to start thinking the worst
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Aug 24, 2008 12:38 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA133 Threads 13 Polls 6,929 Posts
cmf333: for me i go with the tune in ALWAYS IN THE KISS make your own mind up - i think u know the answer


Hard to say yet,

but it would make a huge difference if men from the past didn't care to take the time and effort to show and be affectionate.

Change can be difficult.

Some people just are not good at being passionate.IE.. lousy lovers.

Not all sex is good!!!
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Aug 24, 2008 12:39 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
cmf333
cmf333cmf333warks, UK134 Posts
rasgumby: I have been alone a long time, I am in no rush at all.
but I must say, if she can't get over the kissing thing,, I won't try to find out about the rest.

time will tell.


right on - the kiss is where the passion is if u cant get passed that- then i believe u havent got a hope ...... time to move on maybe??
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Aug 24, 2008 12:41 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
ltlmstrouble
ltlmstroubleltlmstroubleMilton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, England UK8 Threads 2,334 Posts
Well... perhaps it is a breath issue. If someone has bad breath or I don't fancy them, I don't kiss very well either.

Maybe you should just ask her...

dunno confused
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Aug 24, 2008 12:42 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA133 Threads 13 Polls 6,929 Posts
morganlee: i agree, give her time and reassurance think it may well be a bit to soon to start thinking the worst


I am in no rush either way to make any decisions either way.
I am very willing to take the time to find out what the problem is.

makes a big difference if she is able to overcome the problem.
She is such a sweet gal,
and I have plenty of time to teach her if she is willing to learn!lips
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Aug 24, 2008 12:42 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA35 Threads 4,332 Posts
yes...older is better


would you want a carpenter or plumber with no experience? A police person or firefighter that are fresh out of school?

Why would you want a woman or partner without life experiences?
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Aug 24, 2008 12:45 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
cmf333
cmf333cmf333warks, UK134 Posts
shipoker58: yes...older is betterwould you want a carpenter or plumber with no experience? A police person or firefighter that are fresh out of school?

Why would you want a woman or partner without life experiences?


What is good for one may not necessarily be good for another !!
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Aug 24, 2008 12:46 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA35 Threads 4,332 Posts
cmf333: What is good for one may not necessarily be good for another !!




I simply gave my opinion....take it or leave it
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Aug 24, 2008 12:46 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA133 Threads 13 Polls 6,929 Posts
shipoker58: yes...older is betterwould you want a carpenter or plumber with no experience? A police person or firefighter that are fresh out of school?

Why would you want a woman or partner without life experiences?


Silly ship.. didnt you read the OP?

I wouldnt want a blind plumber,, no matter how long he has done the joblaugh
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Aug 24, 2008 12:48 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
babigurl
babigurlbabigurloviedo, Florida USA1 Threads 15 Posts
i think its with the person, age is a number, but maturity plays a big part. sorry, first time ever in forums, so just learning. haha
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Aug 24, 2008 12:49 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
cmf333
cmf333cmf333warks, UK134 Posts
shipoker58: I simply gave my opinion....take it or leave it


I took it and gave mine back
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Aug 24, 2008 12:50 PM CST Mature women better lovers?
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA35 Threads 4,332 Posts
rasgumby: Silly ship.. didnt you read the OP?

I wouldnt want a blind plumber,, no matter how long he has done the job






nope...just read the title question



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