Male Perspective Please? (34)
Xtabentun: Oh crap, I knew you're too good to be true
my disappointed ...
but I'm way more fun in the dark anyway... 
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BnaturAl: he was meowing and meowing ... so i got up to see why, thought maybe he was doing the dog thing and warning me of some occurring or imminent problem ... like lassie does..
but nooooo, nothing wrong ....
but nooooo, nothing wrong ....
are you feeding him
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BnaturAl: my disappointed ... but I'm way more fun in the dark anyway...
Hmmm
Touch and feel....
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BnaturAl: some people dont want to appear to pushy or nosey right off the bat, but I'd say after a while if nothing comes along, there's either a self absorbed person on the other end or someone who likes to just enjoy themselves online ... I'd give it more time, see which way the wind blows, could just be a non pushy person.
very likely - seen a few
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Xtabentun: Hehehe, I was intruding, you wanted a male perspective!
well....erase that from your study then!
well....erase that from your study then!
me too 
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laura225: very likely - seen a few
I know some people who wont talk to you any other way ..
its also possible someone doesnt ask questions because they dont want you asking questions .. 
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kkitty4u: are you feeding him
ya he's... h u g e ...
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Xtabentun: Hmmm Touch and feel.... I guess it's not a bad idea!
exploring without a map...
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BnaturAl: ya he's... h u g e ...
Who needs a map.....love to be lost in the dark
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lanabyte: Last week someone (on another site) emailed me and we sent a couple emails back and forth. Not once did he ever ask anything about me, even when I said "feel free to ask me anything." So I figure he's not interested and just being polite so I didn't respond to the last email. A few days later, he emails again asking if I'm okay since he hadn't heard back from me and gave me his offsite email. So I figure ok, and send a note to his offsite email. We've chatted back and forth all weekend, but guess what? He *still* hasn't asked me a single question!
And no I didn't put my lifestory in my profile or any of my emails, so there should be plenty of questions someone would ask if they wanted to get to know me.
My first thought was that he just wants a hookup, but after our emails this weekend, I really don't think so. He seems very polite, funny, down-to-earth, and hasn't mentioned meeting once. I'm baffled. What gives?! Do guys not normally ask women questions when they're getting to know them? Or do I just have another weirdo?
And no I didn't put my lifestory in my profile or any of my emails, so there should be plenty of questions someone would ask if they wanted to get to know me.
My first thought was that he just wants a hookup, but after our emails this weekend, I really don't think so. He seems very polite, funny, down-to-earth, and hasn't mentioned meeting once. I'm baffled. What gives?! Do guys not normally ask women questions when they're getting to know them? Or do I just have another weirdo?
Maybe I'm old fashioned, I don't discuss meeting after the first week of emails. Personally, I ask questions but there are some who want to chat without "putting out" conversationally, so to speak.
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Maybe he's just not in any big hurry. There's plenty one can find out simply by reading between the lines. What are you expecting him to ask about anyway? Are you still a virgin, and stuff like that?
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Personally, I'd rather just have the conversation flow and weave itself naturally ~ I tend to get "stuck" when people ask me questions as I'm usually a listener. Sometimes the questions can be too intrusive especially when I don't know someone. I think that with some people it takes time to build trust, and truly if you're enjoying the conversations then what's the rush?
As well, if you analyze your conversations - perhaps you've said things about yourself and life that is giving him information ..... we all have a tendency to weave our stories into our conversations.
As well, if you analyze your conversations - perhaps you've said things about yourself and life that is giving him information ..... we all have a tendency to weave our stories into our conversations.
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langleygirl: Personally, I'd rather just have the conversation flow and weave itself naturally ~ I tend to get "stuck" when people ask me questions as I'm usually a listener. Sometimes the questions can be too intrusive especially when I don't know someone. I think that with some people it takes time to build trust, and truly if you're enjoying the conversations then what's the rush?
As well, if you analyze your conversations - perhaps you've said things about yourself and life that is giving him information ..... we all have a tendency to weave our stories into our conversations.
As well, if you analyze your conversations - perhaps you've said things about yourself and life that is giving him information ..... we all have a tendency to weave our stories into our conversations.
Yes, we do, and there's a lot to be learned from simply listening.
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but nooooo, nothing wrong ....